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    There is this guy that keeps contacting me about a date, saying that I can screen him on eccie and if I do this or that, or lower my rate/give him a $50 quickie he'll give me a great review on there.
    First of all, I have no idea how that site works, so trying to tempt me with that won't work. Second, you can leave me the greatest or worse review in the world, I'm not going to compromise my standards for one review.
    This guy is uber persistant. Phone calls, texts, emails. It's obnoxious.

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    I've had providers tell me similar stories. Paid or lower price reviews are just not necessary and is a special kind of creepy. Can you think of any place, any business, that does that?

    E CCIE has its uses from a client perspective. If I'm visiting out of town I like to check the alerts. The reviews are less helpful since you don't really know what happens and the male exaggeration reaches mountainous heights. Example: Provider says covered and advertises covered, client asks uncovered, provider says no, client writes crap review. I'm not currying favor, its just the truth about how subjective the reviews and comments can be from providers and clients on E CCIE. A certain kind of low rent hobbyists, a few problem providers, and the subjective nature of the reviews makes it a bit of a high drama place. Again, its not that I don't recommend it for certain uses; I know a few providers who swear by it in traveling certain cities. I'm just suggesting (a) ignore or get rid of the lame dude negotiating rates and (b) if you do use ECCIE remember it is built as a client resource, favors clients in policies, and is high drama (so perhaps use it in a very deliberate fashion).

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    I've basically told him to fuck off about three or four times now. When he contacted me AGAIN tonight, I sent him the link to my website and told him that if he wanted to contact me again, it would only be through there, and only after he filled out the screening info. Not sure if that's going to do anything, but it's the best I've got. Other than having his number saved as "cheap creeper" in my phone.

    I'm attempting to use eccie as a stepping stone to get into TER. It's just such a pain in the ass to do anything on those sites unless you're already reviewed. But, how do you get reviewed if you've never been on the sites before?? *growl and sigh*

    Anyways, thanks ladies. Getting back into the business after being out for over 5 years is proving to be quite the challenge. Things have changed so much, I'm not sure I can still do this! LOL *wishing my old agency was still around, I miss those old pervs*

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    Just to add, eccie can get pretty fucked up, but it's an international board, and some regions are better/worse than others. What one local set of mods tolerate and endorse, another set will ban you for. It just depends on your location. That said, don't trust it, but Verified Provider status is very helpful when looking up alerts.

    *IF* you ever offer a "review special," OFFER THE DISCOUNT ON THE **SECOND** SESSION. Good clients won't want to review you in the first place, so they won't need a review special to be enticed. There's no way to force the guys to write reviews after you've already given a discount, and a lot of girls get burnt on it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by belledujour27 View Post
    I've basically told him to fuck off about three or four times now. When he contacted me AGAIN tonight, I sent him the link to my website and told him that if he wanted to contact me again, it would only be through there, and only after he filled out the screening info. Not sure if that's going to do anything, but it's the best I've got. Other than having his number saved as "cheap creeper" in my phone.

    I'm attempting to use eccie as a stepping stone to get into TER. It's just such a pain in the ass to do anything on those sites unless you're already reviewed. But, how do you get reviewed if you've never been on the sites before?? *growl and sigh*

    Anyways, thanks ladies. Getting back into the business after being out for over 5 years is proving to be quite the challenge. Things have changed so much, I'm not sure I can still do this! LOL *wishing my old agency was still around, I miss those old pervs*
    Just buy fake reviews if you really want to soil your brand with them...

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    Quote Originally Posted by belledujour27 View Post
    I've basically told him to fuck off about three or four times now. When he contacted me AGAIN tonight, I sent him the link to my website and told him that if he wanted to contact me again, it would only be through there, and only after he filled out the screening info. Not sure if that's going to do anything, but it's the best I've got. Other than having his number saved as "cheap creeper" in my phone.

    I'm attempting to use eccie as a stepping stone to get into TER. It's just such a pain in the ass to do anything on those sites unless you're already reviewed. But, how do you get reviewed if you've never been on the sites before?? *growl and sigh*

    Anyways, thanks ladies. Getting back into the business after being out for over 5 years is proving to be quite the challenge. Things have changed so much, I'm not sure I can still do this! LOL *wishing my old agency was still around, I miss those old pervs*
    Perhaps consider P 411, depending on the area you live in.

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    I'm definitely feeling this frustration too - a lot of providers seem to live by T E R and E CCie, but I haven't gotten a review, and I don't really know how to/ or know if I want to bring it up with a client.

    Any of you lovely workers know anything about Erotic Monkey? Its another review sight I've seen, but I don't know if its really of any value

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blue_Dust_Bunny View Post
    I'm definitely feeling this frustration too - a lot of providers seem to live by T E R and E CCie, but I haven't gotten a review, and I don't really know how to/ or know if I want to bring it up with a client.

    Any of you lovely workers know anything about Erotic Monkey? Its another review sight I've seen, but I don't know if its really of any value
    Bringing up a review is no big deal. If you have any nice, regular clients, simply ask them if they use ECCIE or TER and if they'd write you a review. No need to offer a discount or anything along those lines: again, if its a decent client he's not looking to skim you for a few dollars. It's not a big ask and I'll do it myself when someone asks me.

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    Anyone who mentions review before I meet him, I'll block that number.


    Btw, none of my regulars have reviewed online.
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    I'm thinking guys can smell & tell your a newbie( going off your other post as well) Some rules to go by

    1.Never barter {If you really need the money, that's diff & technically your decision)

    2.Reviews are kind of 50/50. They can be incriminating, they're not discreet, etc.But on the plus they can bring traffic & business if your reviews are good.Alot of providers do perfectly fine without reviews & actually prefer it that way they're not apart of the review culture.On the other hand you have plenty of providers that live off of reviews.That's more than likely why he was trying to get you to barter/lower your rate.

    I don't know much about eccie but I do know for fact the original owner of TER put a hit out an a very high-end escort (for not doing what he wanted her to do sexual freebies,etc}).He was arrested and is doing time behind bars and the company was sold to someone else, but no way in hell I'd ever be associated with a site with that kind of history.

    Hobbyist VS Regular Men/Gentlemen looking for services trust me sooner than later you'll be able to tell the huge differences between the two.

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    Im o Eccie and its OK. I chat mostly. Other than that it hasnt done anything but provide entertainment value!
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    Quote Originally Posted by SarcasticGoldFish View Post
    Bringing up a review is no big deal. If you have any nice, regular clients, simply ask them if they use ECCIE or TER and if they'd write you a review. No need to offer a discount or anything along those lines: again, if its a decent client he's not looking to skim you for a few dollars. It's not a big ask and I'll do it myself when someone asks me.
    Every single client I've had is not on a review board. It seems review girls attract review clients and non review girls attract non review clients

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    Inbox me for info about ECCIE being infiltrated and compromised by LE.

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