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    Dizzy Ever have this happen........

    So last night on SM a guy popped in who I'd never seen before and bought a 60 minute exclusive block. I was excited and he didn't really give me much clue of what he wanted except he kept throwing out little hints here and there.....told me he wanted teasing at first, but then seemed like he wanted to be dommed with joi......I started doing my thing and 8 or 10 mins into it I saw him log off (we were doing cam to cam)....didn't appear to have cum either......I felt weird....like I FAILED.....he stayed long enough for me to have gotten paid for the whole block. However the weird part is I feel bad....that he spent all that money on me and didn't even stay long enough to cum (I have a thing where if they don't cum or leave satisfied I feel like I didn't do my job right)

    Have you ever had that happen to you....

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    Default Re: Ever have this happen........

    For starters, stop blaming yourself. it sounds like you were attentive, asked him repeatedly what he wanted, and attempted to fulfill his fantasy. Maybe his wife got home or maybe he was happy with what he got. heck, maybe he's ballin and will be back for another 60 minute block soon I have a regular on MGF who always buys 30 minutes and leaves after 10... and has been doing that to me for over a year and a half. Just count your money and be happy.

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    Default Re: Ever have this happen........

    It could also be a humiliation thing. Where he thinks he's not worthy of your time. Somebody could of came home as well. So many different factors.

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    Default Re: Ever have this happen........

    YES, and NO I don't feel bad. Take it as a compliment that you were devastatingly good so he could only lasted that long.
    The goal is to do as little as possible for the most money.
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    Default Re: Ever have this happen........

    Maybe he was drunk...fell asleep. It happens, I love those.

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    Default Re: Ever have this happen........

    Umm.. girl you got paid for 60 mins of work with only 8-10 mins of work actually done. That's a success. As long as you were trying to give him what he wanted.. it's his own business if he left early.




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    Default Re: Ever have this happen........

    Yeah, I had somebody leave 5 mins into a block a couple of weeks ago; similar story - nice enough client, but not many clues, I was kinda winging it. I was second-guessing and guilting myself for days, until I saw that he left me a super ecstatic comment.

    Moral of the story: you don't know why anybody does anything, particularly a cam custy. Enjoy your bag of money!


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    Default Re: Ever have this happen........

    Thanks I will......I was blown away to get an hour block....especially after a slow disappointing night....I was like Yay...then was like Huh....now I'm thinking Yay again.

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    Default Re: Ever have this happen........

    Send him my way hahahaha
    Seriously, I also feel more satisfied if they cum.

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    Default Re: Ever have this happen........

    Don't feel like you've failed if the guy doesn't cum. A ton of guys love edging, orgasm denial, being teased, hopping from room to room...not to mention that he could have lost connection, had computer issues, heard his wife opening the door or any number of other reasons.

    Our job isn't to make guys cum, it's to make them feel good. If you did your best to make him feel good, then job well done!


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    Default Re: Ever have this happen........

    Hey congratulations on the 60 min block!





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    Default Re: Ever have this happen........

    Sounds like a dream to me. xD
    I would take the money and be very happy. I dont think u failed - u earned a lot quickly wihtout doing shit - just take it easy. No need to blame urself. ^^

    Anyway, if a guy dont say what he wants, than how u should know? Little hints are not enough, since we can t read minds. ^^
    (only one exception: if good money depends on it. Only in that case i can read minds very well lol - otherwise who cares. :* )
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    Default Re: Ever have this happen........

    "I have a thing where if they don't cum or leave satisfied I feel like I didn't do my job right" --> Yeah, i think when i started this job yess. But a great burnout changed everything xD On a positive way for myself, thankfully.

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    Default Re: Ever have this happen........

    That has happened to me a couple of time. Don't blame yourself. A number of things could have happened on his end. Internet dropped. Power outage. Wife or GF walking in. SM glitch. Name it. Less wondering what you did wrong and more Woop Woop!!

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