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    So I have just started camming as a full time job versus part time that I did for years. Camming and clips are now my sole income. I have only started full time since last Friday and so far I have already made my rent in less than a week. It's awesome really. But a part of me still feels guilt. Even though I no longer have close family by choice I have cut unsupportive family off. I feel guilty for not getting up and going to a regular vanilla job anymore. I am not sure why I feel guilty because I totally love the fact that I made my rent $700 in 5 days and I have never done that in any vanilla job. Does anybody else struggle with feeling guilty for not doing what u know people expect from you? I really want control over my income and I'm sick of vanilla jobs. Does that make sense? arggh I guess it's not really full time I work 6 hours a day on cam. maybe less if I reach me daily goal.

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    No cause I never told anyone. It is far less hassle that way. You have nothing to feel guilty about x
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    I actually used to share your sentiment. When I first started camming a couple years ago, it was because I couldn't legally or physically get a job because of an injury. But at the same time I got tired of being broke. So I started camming. Long story short my lover found out and it was a huge argument, the words "you don't care about the people you hurt by doing this" was thrown in the air. The stress of that and camming at home with my parents in the house caused so much anxiety that it made me stop. Working was to stressful Fast forward to 2 years later and now I'm still not able to find normal work but I also have an apartment now and more bills, so I'm back. It helps that I'm no longer in anyone elses home but my own so that makes camming much easier. and for the other people who "care" so much.... well they aren't contributing to my bills. If I have to choose between keeping a roof over my head and food in my mouth or making a part time lover or others happy... I choose the first. The bottom line is, do what makes YOU happy. Don't feel guilty for giving yourself financial freedom. You can't live life trying to please everyone, you've gotta please yourself. If you are in a serious relationship, engaged or married then that might be a different story. I wouldn't suggest cutting everyone off tho just because you cam. Just sugarcoat the truth. You work from home doing customer service :-) In this day an age, alot of businesses are hiring wah customer service employees so that explanation isn't strange/farfetched or even technically a lie. I can tell you from expierence tho.... guilt causes anxiety all of that affects your confidence and in the end it can start affecting your earnings so find your peace doll.

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    Nope. My life, my rules. If people really have a problem with it, I'll see them to the door. I'm not going to go back to flipping burgers for minimum wage. I can't live like that ever again, especially now that I'm a mother. Camming is also going to put me through school debt free. I'll never feel guilty about bettering my life and giving my daughter the life I feel she deserves.

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    I cut my unsupportive mom off for.....awhile lol. She came crawling back apologizing... Then she did it again... so I cut her off again! lol. She's learned her place now. I'm not a child anymore. She can't tell me what to do... she either accepts me or can keep her negativity to herself. We get along fine now. Stand up for yourself. Everything will be okay. And regret nothing!! You're amazing.

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    The American Dream of work hard for some company, save, be good & all will be okay is total bullshit. It is hard to get out of that way of thinking & most people still will preach it to you. Despite that most jobs females work today pay below poverty & will never carry health insurance, benefits or retirement.

    Females get paid less today than their male counterparts than they did in the 80s.

    Don't be a slave to a system that NEVER had your best interest at heart but some CEO who gets a $50 MILLION bonus every year and a balloon payment if fired.


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    I don't feel ONE ounce of guilt and I've been outed about 3 separate times now to friends, enemies, peers, and my family.

    Unless you're paying my bills, your opinion doesn't mean SHIT to me.

    I look at it like this:

    Right now, it could seem like a huge deal/the end of the world/ etc etc... But ten years from now, let's say you have a different life, a career you love thats not camming etc etc... Is the fact that you cammed gonna matter at all? Nope. It's just gonna be a job you did just like flipping burgers. PERSONALLY... think flipping burgers is more shameful and embarassing than camming ever could be -- I get paid to yell at men, belittle them, and masturbate, things I'd love to do and DO do for free lol. So don't let anyone else control your life!

    Congrats on making your rent in a week. Thats great. I let camming make me feel EMPOWERED! Look at what you did -- you successfully made rent so quick, now imagine what ELSE you can accomplish! Save up for a house, college tuition, plastic surgery, a new car, retirement fund -- This is an opportunity with NO LIMITS! Go crazy and shrug that guilt off girl. You're a strong, independent woman and NOBODY can take that away from you except you!
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    I don't feel bad or guilty because there are already enough people trying to make me feel that way.
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    thank you ladies so much, I think it's just going to take some time to get used to this. but I am not quitting I honestly love the fact that I made my rent this fast and I am super motivated to accomplish so much more now! Thank you!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by gorgeousbbw View Post
    So I have just started camming as a full time job versus part time that I did for years. Camming and clips are now my sole income. I have only started full time since last Friday and so far I have already made my rent in less than a week. It's awesome really. But a part of me still feels guilt. Even though I no longer have close family by choice I have cut unsupportive family off. I feel guilty for not getting up and going to a regular vanilla job anymore. I am not sure why I feel guilty because I totally love the fact that I made my rent $700 in 5 days and I have never done that in any vanilla job. Does anybody else struggle with feeling guilty for not doing what u know people expect from you? I really want control over my income and I'm sick of vanilla jobs. Does that make sense? arggh I guess it's not really full time I work 6 hours a day on cam. maybe less if I reach me daily goal.
    There is no need to feel guilty , that guilt is an old message you are carrying that you have to be stuck at a job long hours for little pay and not feeling valued .

    You've accomplished a lot you have a home business where you control your time and your money. where you can make all your money you need as fast as possible so you can live your life.

    13 years working full-time from home and going into a new career where I can continue on with it. Guilt is for people who are programmed to think they can only earn a living working for someone else and making their dreams come true.
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    Quote Originally Posted by gorgeousbbw View Post
    So I have just started camming as a full time job versus part time that I did for years. Camming and clips are now my sole income. I have only started full time since last Friday and so far I have already made my rent in less than a week. It's awesome really. But a part of me still feels guilt. Even though I no longer have close family by choice I have cut unsupportive family off. I feel guilty for not getting up and going to a regular vanilla job anymore. I am not sure why I feel guilty because I totally love the fact that I made my rent $700 in 5 days and I have never done that in any vanilla job. Does anybody else struggle with feeling guilty for not doing what u know people expect from you? I really want control over my income and I'm sick of vanilla jobs. Does that make sense? arggh I guess it's not really full time I work 6 hours a day on cam. maybe less if I reach me daily goal.
    You've got nothing to feel guilty about. You can't go through life worrying about what so-and-so will think of you. This includes parents, in my opinion. Sometimes I wonder how many people go to college simply because their mom and dad badgered them into it...or how many people pursue a career in such and such simply because it's what their parents wanted them to do. That isn't good.

    These unsupportive family members of yours...I bet none of them ever offered to help you pay your bills, right? The same people who love to criticize and judge do absolutely nothing to be helpful.

    I found it quite amusing that my sister had been running an illegal, unlicensed "daycare," yet - during an argument - had the nerve to blurt out "At least I'm not online showing my boobs to a bunch of men (she blurted it out right in front of my parents)!". This was a while ago, and even though we started speaking to each other again, I think my relationship with her will always be somewhat distant.

    You are working and earning your own money. That is something to be proud of. You're not sitting at home playing PlayStation all day. I wouldn't be surprised if some of your family members are even a tad jealous that you're making good money working from home.
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    In my twenties over a family dinner, my step-mom asked "When are you going to get a real job?" Was a stripper at the time, told her "When it pays my REAL bills". End of discussion, nothing else was ever said again.

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    The ones who should feel guilty are those who are criminals and steal money, my cash is honest earned.
    I know a 20-something year old guy who had been faking a disability in order to receive disability pay. He had a Facebook picture of him grinning, holding a wad of cash in his hand.
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    Honestly, this is something I do battle with afterall I do have a couple degrees and some diplomas and when I do have a vanilla job I make a good wage 23-27/hour which is starting wage in my industry. Plus benefits and working monday to friday daytime is awesome. That said, i like the flexibility of camming and find it way less stressful. So why am I looking for a vanilla job again since being restructured out? Mostly, because I find camming and clip making more fun when I do it part time. So basically, I think it is different for everyone.

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    I felt bad when i started doing erotic massages and escorting because i was pulling 200-300 sometimes more a day i felt bad that all my friends were still struggling to survive and in a few short weeks i was on top of my game had my rent and bills paid for the next few months was going out doing stuff and i felt on top of the world and i looked down and saw how shitty my friends were but i have great friends back home and they actually set me straight and told me i was being silly. i dont make a lot right now due to a few reasons but im working thru some things and making myself a better person and i enjoy my freedom im not going to feel guilty about living life the way i want to and doing what i think is best for me . you need to make yourself feel happy because you are all you have
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