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    I have had this reg for the past 2 years. He's always saying I'm beautiful and out of his league but yesterday he says im here because no one wants you. I'm like huh? Don't you ever say that to me again. He also said no one clapped after my stage set other than him. He said he was sorry and didn't know why he said that. Luckily i didnt let it bother me but now im tempted to cut him off but he pays very well. He also did the same thing like a year ago with insulting me but I called him on it and he said he'd never do it again. Im wondering why he would say stuff like that. Should I cut him off? Typically he is very nice.
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    Default Re: My reg insulted me

    He might have been testing his limits. Make it clear to him you will not tolerate being talked to that way. Hopefully he won't be an ass to you again. But if he is, tell him you're banning him for a couple of days. Maybe he'll change his attitude.

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    Maybe you could act really cold to him for a while to show him that you will not tolerate his rudeness. That'll let him know you mean business. It also might make him want you even more! Don't cut him off completely though just make him earn your respect again

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    Default Re: My reg insulted me

    He's just trying to get into your mind to make you self-conscious and dependent on him. You shoulda said "No, you're here because no one wants YOU," LOL.


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    Maybe he read one of those Pick Up Artist books :S

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    Quote Originally Posted by Genoveve View Post
    He's just trying to get into your mind to make you self-conscious and dependent on him. You shoulda said "No, you're here because no one wants YOU," LOL.
    YES!^ Exactly, this was done to me also.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Layla.00 View Post
    Maybe he read one of those Pick Up Artist books :S
    Oh gawd, I want to kill that guy! Lol.

    Op- Yes, I think he was testing you or trying to knock you down. He seems like he may be a little off IMO
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gia2608 View Post
    Oh gawd, I want to kill that guy! Lol.

    Op- Yes, I think he was testing you or trying to knock you down. He seems like he may be a little off IMO
    Right! Like he's not mentally right. Make sure you let him know not to disrespect you.

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    It sounds like he is projecting to me.

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    Charge him for his rudeness and to get back into your good graces.

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    Charge him for his rudeness and to get back into your good graces.
    I'm seriously thinking of doing that

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    He probably got drunk/brave. He's an idiot and he's there cuz no one wants him. You're not the one paying for time and physical contact, are you?
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    If he's a very good customer, I'd just let it slide. Don't be rude back. Just let it slide. If he does it OFTEN, and it gets to you, then yes cut him off for your own sake. But don't cut him off if he does it once in a while, and pays very well. At least I wouldn't, because I could handle that, especially from a person who is a regular.

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    He did it again. Insulted me and acted all sorry about. I don't think he even realizes what he's saying. I later emailed him to tell him my price has gone up because i am not tolerating his behavior and the price will continue to go up each time he puts me down and if he doesn't like it to go find another girl.

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    He's either trying to bring you down and control you, or he's trying to get a reaction. I could never deal with disrespect and would have just cut him off or smacked him in the mouth, but you're probably doing the smarter thing by raising your price...As long as you aren't letting him get to you, bleed him dry as long as you can. Just remember his bullshit is all about him and it's got nothing to do with you. <3

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    Quote Originally Posted by wednesday86 View Post
    He's either trying to bring you down and control you, or he's trying to get a reaction. I could never deal with disrespect and would have just cut him off or smacked him in the mouth, but you're probably doing the smarter thing by raising your price...As long as you aren't letting him get to you, bleed him dry as long as you can. Just remember his bullshit is all about him and it's got nothing to do with you. <3
    Yes I think you're right about wanting a reaction because he actually told me to slap him after I yelled at him for insulting me and so I did. I think he must like getting slapped and yelled at lol. I think he needs a dominatrix

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    I just got a reply back from him. He says he thanks me for the time we've had but he is refusing my increase in rate. I think it's really for the best anyways. He was really starting to get to me and ruining my day.

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