For those of you who go out on public dates with clients, do you ever feel somewhat awkward when others stare? Especially if there is a large difference in age or attractiveness? If so, how do you deal with it?


For those of you who go out on public dates with clients, do you ever feel somewhat awkward when others stare? Especially if there is a large difference in age or attractiveness? If so, how do you deal with it?
I had a long time regular at my club who would take me shopping and would give me a few hundred bucks to go have dinner with him at a restraunt. I never did anything sexual with him but I always felt awkward going out with him, not so much because of looks, although I am a young tall white girl and he was a short 50 somthing year old asian guy. The awkward part was that he spoke very broken english. When we would order our food, I would have to order for him because he couldn't say anything on the menu. Our conversation at dinner was almost non existent. He occasionally would kiss my hand and say "love you". I think guys are looking for that ego boost of having people stare. When a guy is with a girl way out of his league, other people assume "oh that guy must be rich/important/has a big penis/must be the most interesting man in the world/etc" . We are basically a status symbol to them. I think the key is to just not care if people stare, if they do make a game out of it. Own it. If someone stares at you smile and wink at them back. Act like you're really proud of the guy you're out with so people think you're just an unconventional couple in love instead of someone who seems stiff and must be getting paid to hang out with that guy. Looking back I wish I wasnt so awkward about it.
I had a couple of regulars that would beg me to go out in public with them. I already knew they wanted some arm candy, and possibly sex, but I didn't feel like meeting up with them because I didn't want them thinking I was going to fuck them later and also I knew people would stare and be like "oh that must be her sugar daddy" or "she's a total prostitute and that must be her client"
It's all about what you feel comfortable with. For me, sometimes I like to stick out and have all eyes on me but most times I like to blend in so hanging out with old dudes is not what I want unless they have lots of money to change my mind.
But if I were an escort, I'd hang out in public a little bit like quick lunch or shopping (places where I'm confident I won't be recognized) just so my dates would feel more like 'real' dates.
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Just pretend not to care with people think and just treat your "date" like you are proud to be with him.

Others always Stare at me anyway so I've kinda gotten use to that part. Most of the time I don't care, I really enjoy my Company, food and certainly the $. One Daddy however invited me to a party that took place every Sunday for Veterens the age range was 45-65 and I was 25. He would ask me to wear short tight dresses and act like I was all into him, hug him, sit on his lap etc. Many of the woman looked in disapproval and made snotty comments, and of course most of the men stared in Lust. This was probably the most uncomfortable I'd ever been, but For 1,000$ I kept going back!



Don't give a fuck.
That's the best advice I can give you. Wear your classiest get-up and hold his arm like you're his favorite darling! Keep a smile on your face, be sweet to the server, and make yourself seem as natural and comfortable as possible.
I go out all the time if the price is right (just in the next town over). I love good food, good company, and of course the $$$. Maybe its easier for me because in my RL I normally date much older men. I'm use to the shocked stares, but I have an appeasing nature, so people just assume even when I'm with a client that we're "together". Nothing about me screams whore, so I have that going for me at least.
People stare all the time. Walking down the street, shopping, going in and out of my building, at restaurants, etc. Have always gotten weird looks/comments when out with sugar daddies or clients. Shit, people stare me down when I'm with my boyfriend. The absolute worst stares were when I was with my long time, and most generous SD. He was 30 years older than me and very overweight. We'd go out shopping and people would assume he was my dad. This one college aged guy working in a high end sunglasses store said something along the lines of "Have a nice day with your dad!" and my SD turns around and says "I'm not her dad" hahaha. When I would go to his building and "sign in as a guest" (security was tight) the lady working at the desk would give me a look for sure.
But who gives a flying F what other people think or if they are staring. They want what you have!





I agree with others. People stare anyway. I'm no escort...yet but I do have some history (last Saturday being the latest) with being arm candy. Once when I was in college I met up at Capitol Grill with one of my ex-SDs who was about 78 years old. He even had parkinson's so people were like WTF and stared the whole time. Imagine this old white man shaking and barely keeping up and this busty, curvy black bbw in a tight dress and heels, lol. Oh, people knew and starred a hole in me but I didn't give a fuck. I was getting $300 to have dinner with him and the rolls at Capitol Grill are to die for.
Last weekend I went out and had a few guys take my arm and paraded me around. About 23 guys came up to me at this 'club' all trying to get my attention. They said I was arm candy and all eyes were on me (which they were). I didn't give a shit. I held my head up high and worked that shit. Trust me. Get your money and fuck what everyone else thinks. You WANT to be that bitch. Because with that responsibility comes that big fat paycheck. If a man agrees to pay me XYZ to be in my presence you're damn right I'm going to milk it and smile while sipping my champagne. Money is to be made and those other people aren't paying you. The client is paying you to be his arm candy so work it so you can keep getting it. If a client is paying me you're damn right I'm going to act the part. We all gotta eat and the other people looking aren't paying my bills.
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Last edited by lynn2009; 10-07-2017 at 06:06 PM.
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Thanks ladies. I'm normally pretty good at being engaging and tuned into whomever I'm with. I think because my last dinner date was sort of traumatic I'm letting it get in my head. It wasn't even that bad really, just the part where I almost had a panic attack trying to get through the crowd at LA Live.
This particular guy is also a sweet, small, round white man of 76 and there I was standing a foot taller than him looking like his mixed granddaughter with my big curly hair trying to make sure he didn't get knocked over. LOL. It sounds funny now, but in the moment not so much! Once we got inside I pulled it together and was so captivated by his expertise in geneaolgy that he wants to take me to Salt Lake City where they have a huge database to show me how to look up my ancestors and whatnot. (I really am curious, actually) But I've been hesistant because all I can think about are the airports and disapproving looks from the folk up in Utah. But y'all are right, I should just twirl on em.
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