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    Hi, I had been seeing a regular for few months now, twice or more a month. He spends in vip. Since two months we exchange numbers and I texted him regularly to have him coming back and it works. But in the beginning was easier when now I want to keep it professional, he always text me filthy text.. Saying this because I noticed that, in the last months he stays maximum 1 or 2 hours in vip, while before 2-3-4 hours.
    ... Any suggestions? Or any old post to advice? There is another bit... Recently we went bit further... Yes.. Ops.. I stroked his thing and about two times he came on his pants by touching himself. Yes... I am wondering now if this is happening because I didn't keep up with seduction instead... Btw.. Any idea about how go back to no coming... Yesterday I told him, I think someone saw us and I may have some troubles.. Just to have an excuse in the future, to don't do it again and keep him longer in vip. Any brilliant ideas? Thanks

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    Default Re: How to keep interested a regular and what to text him ..

    All regulars have a shelf life. It sounds like this guy isn't going to keep seeing you much longer unless you keep upping the ante. Once you've offered more (be it extras in the club or extra attention outside via texting or whatever), it's very hard to scale it back and maintain the same level of spending -- form his perspective, why would he keep spending $x on y if you let him have y + z for $x once? And it sounds like he's been spending less and getting more, so the odds are pretty low that you'll be able to get him to not only spend 3-4 hours in VIP again, but also not expect any extras to boot.

    The one possible way you may be able to salvage this is to drop him. Sometimes, that makes them crawl back and behave -- not always though, so you have to be prepared to lose him if that's the case. IMO, if you're not comfortable with the level of contact and attention he now requires, that may not even be a bad thing. It will open you up to cultivating new customers who you can establish firm boundaries with right from the get-go.

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    Default Re: How to keep interested a regular and what to text him ..

    Thanks, that make sense. To be honest he is a nice costumer, polite and fun. (is bit boring entertaining him, need to say tho in the other hand, even if is lovely, as have no ideas this days what to talk about more to keep the trill going).. We also have hobbies in common. Giving extras it's ok too, as I am willing till a certain extended. But want to be sure to don't overdo, so can keep control. Want him to spend on me a part the business friendship... ! At one point we even talked about meeting outside for £xx, which if would be a very occasional thing only and worthy, while I make clear we will no do all, ... I would really consider it. But having seen how things are going, looks like a red flag now! And probably last time I would see him again!! Maybe as u advised, i should rather try to create distance. Don't reply to texts, maybe two three texts per week maximum. Yes is difficult to accept that he will go soon or later (last time he told me 'i would no swap you for nothing ever'.. And I felt like 'why u saying this now??' ... But the good things is to open up more and concentrate on finding new clients without counting so much on him .. Thanks very much Shanna Dior, really helpful your post

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