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    Default So how do us with little kids manage things then?

    After an imposed break caused by crazy ex and court case I am getting back in the swing of things after being just stuck with texting for weeks.

    I am just wondering how we all do it with young kids? Mine are only out of the house a short amount of time during the week and can wake up in the night. I'm a single parent so no break at weekends either I have to just make do with what I've got.

    I have quite a lot of eggs and some like texting that can be done when they are here but i'm more struggling with tips about the camming side of things which is where I make the bulk of my money.

    What do you do if they wake up? Do you cut the customer off?

    I would love to have a room that I could use but they way the layout of my house is I have to get everything out and put it away again which is a real pain so again so any tips to maximize time? I've experimented with day time but it makes nothing like nights sadly.

    Mine are too young to understand at the moment but the chat at nursery about my mummy in a wig in the night could be a bit awkward i'm thinking! Just wondering how others manage it? Maybe it would be easier to try and build up my phone sex custies instead or look at moving somewhere which has a separate downstairs space maybe?

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    you might be better posting this in verified as people tend to reply to more personal questions in better detail, many wont reply at all in public xx

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    Default Re: So how do us with little kids manage things then?

    Quote Originally Posted by Horny View Post
    After an imposed break caused by crazy ex and court case I am getting back in the swing of things after being just stuck with texting for weeks.

    I am just wondering how we all do it with young kids? Mine are only out of the house a short amount of time during the week and can wake up in the night. I'm a single parent so no break at weekends either I have to just make do with what I've got.

    I have quite a lot of eggs and some like texting that can be done when they are here but i'm more struggling with tips about the camming side of things which is where I make the bulk of my money.

    What do you do if they wake up? Do you cut the customer off?

    I would love to have a room that I could use but they way the layout of my house is I have to get everything out and put it away again which is a real pain so again so any tips to maximize time? I've experimented with day time but it makes nothing like nights sadly.

    Mine are too young to understand at the moment but the chat at nursery about my mummy in a wig in the night could be a bit awkward i'm thinking! Just wondering how others manage it? Maybe it would be easier to try and build up my phone sex custies instead or look at moving somewhere which has a separate downstairs space maybe?
    Unless I'm reading this wrong, it sounds like your kids are too young to be in a room by themselves, and it sounds like they sleep in the same room where you cam? I don't wanna tell you what to do, but if this is the case, I would only cam during times when they're not home, which I know you said is only a short time. But if those times are pretty much the same times every week, you should put that as your camming schedule on your camming profile(s) so that customers know when they can expect you online. Consider splitcamming on 2 or more sites, if you're not already. That way, if it's slow on one site, you still have the chance to make money on the other site. And of course, be sure to post on Twitter when you're on cam.

    I can only speak for myself, but I know that I wouldn't be able to cam in the same room where my son sleeps. I just wouldn't be comfortable with it. If I were in your situation, I would only cam during times when they're not home, or times when they're asleep (and that's only if they have their own room, and aren't sharing a room with me). If you ever move into a place that allows you to have your own room to cam from, that will be great. My son is about to be 13 and has his own room, so none of this is an issue for me. But when your kids get older and are in school for 6 hours or whatever, this will be a GREAT thing for you work-wise!

    With your situation, what I would do is - while they're sleeping at night - go to the opposite side of the bedroom with your computer and headphones (you don't want them hearing your C4S clip), and use that time to edit one of your Clips4Sale clips. Other work you can do from that same room is texting/sexting and posting tweets on Twitter. I would not recommend you do any phone sex during this time.

    If any of your eggs happen to be selling on eBay, Amazon MTurk, or some other non-adult thing where you don't have to talk aloud, then you should be able to do this in the same room where your kids sleep. I'm just curious when YOU sleep?

    And if you ever need to add any more non-adult eggs to your basket, check out this thread for some ideas:
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...From-Home-Opps
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    Default Re: So how do us with little kids manage things then?

    My child has school then after school daycare for only 136$/wk...so I've got 8-9 hours a day to make money distraction free,but on weeks like spring break it almost doubles but I do profit from it...so I would def look at daycares n babysitters..depending on what you make weekly to see if you make enough to profit from it.although in my experience daycares have better deals most babysitters want a good hourly like 10-15$ /hour !!!!

    Btw camming the same room as your kid is in.. Not a good idea..since it could be used against u as kinda exposing ur kid to adult stuff and your ex could use it against you as endangering an underage child.
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    Default Re: So how do us with little kids manage things then?

    Definitely see if you can organize a separate room for camming and other naughty biz. If they wake up at a certain hour every day avoid taking privates around that time, but I think you may also be able to get them used to not waking up. If they're used to getting up every night and coming to you then you'll have to set some boundaries there and explain to them that you're not going to be "waking up" every night for them. Kids tend to have strange sleeping habits but they can be reversed.
    I have a 5 yr old who used to wake up, but once he realized he wasn't getting any attention from me at night he stopped waking up, surprisingly. Night time is your best bet anyway (and when they're out of the house of course), so I would say stick to a night time routine and you'll be fine.

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    Oh no the kids are asleep upstairs but I don't have a separate room downstairs I can leave set up all the time thats what I meant! No I could never and would never do it in front of them!

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    Maybe you can improvise a room downstairs? A huge styrofoam wall? haha just brainstorming here. I was in a similar situation a couple of years ago so I created my own DIY room basically, you may have to take it down at the end of your cam session and put it back up but hey it's just an extra few minutes of your pre-cam routine

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    Default Re: So how do us with little kids manage things then?

    Maybe look into making clips. THat way you can pump out a shit ton of clips when they are gone and then when they are there spend the time editing, uploading and promoting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Horny View Post
    Oh no the kids are asleep upstairs but I don't have a separate room downstairs I can leave set up all the time thats what I meant! No I could never and would never do it in front of them!

    Ahh okay lol..well in that case you should buy a baby monitor with the video camera ..so u can set it up next to ur computer and u can turn the volume down but you can see ur kid sleeping or when they start moving about getting up way before they hit downstairs and u can throw on a robe and exit or pause out ur rooms...just cam straight from the living room couch
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    Good ideas thanks ladies. Its all open plan downstairs its such a pain and upstairs they are far more likely to hear me. It can be done taking it all down but it makes things so much more complicated and isn't very professional. I'll give the improvised room some thought there is a utility room i'm wondering if that might work with a heater or two!

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    just wanted to say.
    .camming after kid(s) is harder.with separate room, daycare and all those things that could make it easy, it is still hard.
    I feel you.. just do the best that you can, with what u got and thats all you can do..

    the models without kids have no idea how good they have it.. lol

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    I have kids. They know I work from home. They do not know I cam. We do not share a room. The way I do it is when they are asleep I cam in my own room alone. BUT it sucks because I cannot be loud in privates. A lot of guys ask me to moan and scream there name and my excuse is...I can't I have roomates so I have to be quiet. for now it's working but I feel like I would make more if I could actually scream but I gotta do what I gotta do. Mine wake up but they do not come into my room. My rule is when I am working knock on my door and ill come to u when I'm done. It's hard as a single mom. My little one goes to school but my oldest does virtual school so she is home all day with me. so I don't really get time alone.

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    ^^ I feel ya!! This is exactly what I do!

    Even though it's harder as a single mom though you get to enjoy your time together with less worries cause you know you have extra money to treat them to what they want or need. It's harder but more satisfying in the end, if that makes sense.

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