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    Default Haven't started yet, but advice please!

    A very good friend of mine introduced me to her stripper friend. A few nights ago I checked out the club and met her and a few of the other girls that work there. The club checked out okay In reviews left here; and security and staff checked out in my book.

    I would feel comfortable working there.

    I learned that the girl who would be showing me the ropes; the "stripper friend" I was introduced to is a pretty big extra girl. Granted I don't approve because it's entirely illegal (it is her body and her choice), I'm concerned with being labeled as such by association.

    basically I'm a bit nervous about that. I met another girl she trained, she just turned 21. She doesn't do as many extra bits but is headed in that direction. It makes me sad. BUT I know I'm not going there to make friends; I'm going there to make money.

    I know it's a lot to ask, but please help me ease my mind. I already know the things I will/won't do. But I don't want to get caught up in a whirlwind of nonsense as a newbie dancer. I don't want to be written off as an extras girl. It could mean legal trouble for me later and even conflict with management (from what I gather here), and I don't want to deal with that. What are the chances of that happening if I associate with them?

    Also: I know I'm probably making a big deal out of nothing; but this is a big change for me and the industry is completely alien. I just want to cover my bases. And I'm incredibly grateful for this forum. I have NO ONE to talk to about any of this stuff.
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    Default Re: Haven't started yet, but advice please!

    I think you should just try it on your own. I didn't have anyone help me. It was alot of learning while working but it's best to be exposed to it. I worked in my 1st club 9 out of 10 girls did some type of extras. I didn't. I stood out. Some customers loved I didn't, some wanted nothing with me. Both are fine with me. I had seen girls go from being no extras to giving extras when money was tight or the right price. I have danced for almost 9 years and still don't. Its a personal choice. But honestly, just try. It's really not that scary!

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    Default Re: Haven't started yet, but advice please!

    Quote Originally Posted by ladyambition View Post
    I think you should just try it on your own. I didn't have anyone help me. It was alot of learning while working but it's best to be exposed to it. I worked in my 1st club 9 out of 10 girls did some type of extras. I didn't. I stood out. Some customers loved I didn't, some wanted nothing with me. Both are fine with me. I had seen girls go from being no extras to giving extras when money was tight or the right price. I have danced for almost 9 years and still don't. Its a personal choice. But honestly, just try. It's really not that scary!
    Thank you. You helped more than you realize!

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    Default Re: Haven't started yet, but advice please!

    In this industry you just have to put on your big girl panties and go for it. So what if she does that? If YOU don't do extras,fine. Not every dancer does extras,but nowadays it's basically the "norm". Most guys already assume we're just these low self esteem women who take off our clothes for money so who cares about what she has going on? Yeah,it may be fucking up money in the club...but just worry about your pockets. You stated you know what you will or won't do and that's what matters. Good luck!!

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    Default Re: Haven't started yet, but advice please!

    Why does she need to train you? Assuming it's not a club norm, management could lump you in the extras category for being her protege. Just go in and learn on your own from clean girls, not someone who will likely put you in a position you don't want to be in your first night.
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