I called the manager and he was very awk. He told me good for you when i told him the bouncer gave me his number. Then he told me to text him pics.

I called the manager and he was very awk. He told me good for you when i told him the bouncer gave me his number. Then he told me to text him pics.
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uhh idk why you were texting him in the first place, that's kind of odd, you should have just shown up to begin with. maybe called to ask when they take auditions.. not gotten his personal number from the bouncer? how did that happen?
anyways, he also sounds like he might be an asshole.. but if i were you i would probably show up and ask for an audition anyways, assuming you already have everything you need to start work and it's not crazy far out of the way or something. the worst that can happen is you get turned away..

I went to the club and the bouncer guy said he wasnt there at the moment but gave me the managers name and number and to tell him i wanted to dance.
So i call that number, introduced myself and asked if its *his name*, and that the bouncer gave me his number which he said "uhh thats good for you, *my name*." I told him i was interested in dancing and he asked if ive ever danced before. I said no. He told me to text him my name and a picture of myself which i then did.
He sounds like a high functioning autistic guy or someone with aspergers.
Everything like what?
Last edited by Destinyfulfilled; 03-29-2016 at 10:57 PM.
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Everything as in shoes, outfit, and ID/Social Security card. Depending on where you are, your city/region might require you get licensed and registered as an adult entertainer/erotic dancer/etc. In Phoenix, AZ, one license is good for any club in the city, so you can get your license and then apply anywhere. In Dallas, you need to get a new license for each club, so you typically get hired first and then go get licensed. All depends on your area. A quick google will probably give you the right info for your location.
You might try calling again at a different time on a different day of the week and ask whoever answers when the club typically holds auditions/when would be a good time for you to come in. If they just give you the manager's number again, you're no worse off. If they actually give you the information you need though, then awesome! Don't mention that you've called before -- let them think you're someone new if possible. Then just go ahead and show up at the day and time they gave you. Ask the door person if they're hiring dancers, or tell them you were told to come in today for an audition. They'll most likely call down a manager who'll either get you started on the audition process, or ask you to come back later/say they don't need anymore dancers right now/suggest a different club. Either way, at least you'll have gone in and gotten some concrete information.

I still say just go in.. don't bother trying to text or call him anymore he seems unprofessional. And I've never heard of anywhere requiring 7 inch shoes or anything like that. 6 inch dancer shoes should be fine at any club in any city. You could try wearing normal heels but some places wont let you work in those


Am I reading the text messages right - it looks like he asked you to come in for a meet and greet, and then you didn't show up and texted him the next day saying that you'd come tonight? Or are those messages both from the same day?




The no call no show probably made him feel like you're unreliable. Some managers are weirder about certain things than others. If he was big about wanting to talk to you on the phone first he's probably one of the more high strung types.
Its always worth a try at least but if there are other clubs in the area don't get too discouraged if he won't give you another chance. Just take this as a lesson and make it a point to deal with the managers in person only or make sure you're communicating clearly. If you would have mentioned having to take your car to the shop the same night and asked to reschedule in advance he might have responded better.
There's also a possibility he's just an ass. If that's the case count your loss as a blessing
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Yes, he asked you to get there and you didn't tell him you needed until tomorrow. He might be really busy / looking to work with girls to who can really make things smooth for him . I'm not trying to spook you or lecture you but you also asked what a meet and greet is which should have been self explanatory . I'm a manager at my day job and I would have filed you in the " high maintenance " category for asking questions that didn't need to be asked / not making things fast / smooth. You are probably ok to work , just make things FAST for him by finding out another way ( call the club, not his cell ) to come in at the best time and be completely ready to audition and work.
When you meet him, just indicate you are now READY to work !


Ok, that's what I thought. While he may or may not be awkward, he's of course not going to be happy that you didn't get back to him and didn't show up after he asked you to come in that night to meet. You could let a few days go by and then go in at around 8 pm, when he's most likely to be there, maybe on the same day next week. Make a good impression and then apologize for that night at the end, unless of course he seems to not realize it was you.


You already showed him you were unreliable by not texting back to say you couldn't come in that night so he doesn't want anything to do with you. Managers don't want girls that aren't going to show up and aren't going to let them know they can't come in. If you couldn't make it that night you should have just said so and organised another night. Is there another club in town? I once missed a meeting with a private agency coz I slept in and didn't let them know I wasn't going to be there, they said because of my no show they weren't going to hire me. You can be the hottest stripper in the world but it means nothing if you're not reliable.
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