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    Default Handsiness -- Is it still forbidden by default?

    The stripper who doesn't physically invite me to put my hands on her during a dance seems to be rare, which has surprised me given what I read online (and what I would have thought common sense if you'd asked me before I became a frequent customer)--that touching is a big no-no.

    Lately, I've taken to just going ahead and explicitly asking: "What are your rules for my hands," and I don't know if the women feel pressured or really don't care but they _claim_ they're cool with whatever, as long as I stay away from direct breast or vaginal touching.

    Is this becoming "industry standard" so to speak, or am I somehow, well, lucky?

    (And does asking about the rules like that make me a jerk?)

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    Default Re: Handsiness -- Is it still forbidden by default?

    In my club, you CANNOT touch the dancer on the main floor. Security will put a stop on the customer. I especially hate it if I'm dancing for someone on main floor and they want to touch me over 20 bucks. Fuck no.

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    Default Re: Handsiness -- Is it still forbidden by default?

    On your end, you're doing everything right. Customers who keep their hands on the chair and who actually ask before trying anything are definitely up there with the best kinds of people. It allows me to give a proper dance instead of spending the whole song dipping, dodging, and blocking, or wondering how long you'll stay sitting back before you try something I'm not okay with. Mostly because you set the tone that I'll have warning (and a say) before anything like that would happen. A guy who asks me what my rules are for his hands is most likely not a guy I need to worry about trying to pull my panties aside to give me an un-gloved cavity search on the fly, or lunging in uninvited to slobber on me.

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    Default Re: Handsiness -- Is it still forbidden by default?

    Asking is always the best route. My club is zero contact for table dances, and lap dances my rules are no crotch area, touching boobs is ok but you play with my nipples I'll punch you, and keep your mouth off me. Pretty par for the course in NOLA.

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    Default Re: Handsiness -- Is it still forbidden by default?

    It really just depends on the club. Asking is always the safest way to go about it.

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