I am an escort but most people would consider me a sugar baby because I favor multi hour appointments and have always dated wealthy men for money. I call myself an escort, but most would say I fall more into the sugar category. I saw on this website that sugar websites seem to have all these big spenders, so I decided to try it out for myself once again, but this time I used my knowledge of escort marketing to make different personas.
I decided to treat it like I do escorting, which means multiple profiles. I am part Asian and look Asian in the face, so I made a happa profile, a white profile (I'm blonde), and an Asian profile. One was 19, one was 23, and the other was my real age of 27. My results were that the 19 year old happa profile received the most messages, followed by the 27 year old working professional Asian, followed by the 23 year old white woman.
*Although it got the most messages, most of the men tried to manipulate me as the 19 year old happa and this is because I tried to seem really young. I also attracted pedophiles
*The 23 year old white woman profile was the least responsive, but I was using professional modeling photos so men may have thought I was a fake? I also kept getting asked if I was "a transvestite" and had one guy tell me that "most blondes on this website are transvestites" which was odd. Men kept fetishizing me as a model because I have long lean legs, and when I told some of them I worked a day job they would say things like "that's not glamorous" as if because of my shape I am supposed to have a pampered lifestyle
*Despite getting the least amount of messages, my most successful profile was the 27 year old working professional nerdy Asian woman. I found some generous sugar daddies with this profile, but nothing more than I could have made escorting. They also kept commenting how everyone was woman from the site was out for their wallet and how I wouldn't be because I'm a hard working Asian woman. These stereotypes were annoying. They also fetishized me much more than average, calling me docile and submissive when that's not really how I am. They wanted me to be this way, so I pretended
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I've tried doing it two ways. The first way was being upfront about money. 90% of the men ignored me after that, and many said they were reporting me for being "an escort" because they "don't want this to be a monetary transaction" so they want everything for FREE instead?! LOL no
The second way was to not mention money until they had begun texting me and we had set up a time and place to meet. Men were really excited and 100% of them text me after I said I wanted to meet and hadn't discussed money yet. This is proof that they are scammers because after we set a place and time to meet I would text about my financial expectations in a very nice way, even if I had said its negotiable, only about 10% or less actually said they wanted to meet. Many of them called me a whore or gold digger.
Most of these men think you'll meet them FOR FREE. You can forget any men under 40 too because they are by far the ones most often who expect you to meet them FOR FREE. I was appalled.
Its no coincidence that almost every guy throws out the SAME monetary compensation number, which is IRONICALLY the average going rate for 1 hour of escort's time in my area. The difference is that these men wanted to meet for much longer than one hour. They are trying to find deals and that's gross so I'd rather just be an escort.
Most of these men agreed to an arrangement, and then I never heard from them again. I was in character the whole time, and in a natural way since I have lots of experience doing this from escorting. This would cause someone looking for only a few partners to become distraught. These men will lie and say they will meet you several more times, but most of the time they don't because they are looking for a cheaper deal. I know this because I contacted some and they said we could meet if they paid me less, or they flat out tried to pay me less without permission. "Sugar daddies" on sugar sites are the new TER hobbyists. They would do things like try not to pay me, cut my pay in half, try to force things I already said I was not comfortable with, and force bareback by taking off condoms or saying they are allergic or "snipped" which is terrible, unsafe, and would get you blacklisted on any escort database. Who knows how many women they have done this to. If you tried to fight back, they would say "hot girls will do this for $150 you're lucky you're getting this much" just like the hobbyists I refuse to see as an escort, only worse.
VERDICT? Skip sugar sites. It was so much work to filter through these messages and most men weren't serious. I've met men at exclusive places who were real sugar daddies, and much more generous. For the time you spend, you will make much less than an escort.



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