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    Default Convincing my regular to stay

    I only have one more month before I quit dancing, and my favorite regular just told me today he will not be in anymore because his health. This is selfish of me, I know, but are there any good ways to try to convince him to stay. He says his health is not good and he can't keep drinking :< I said that I would drink water with him but I suppose he can't control his urge to drink at the club. I'm so bummed because not only does he always spend a lot of money on me, he's attractive, has a really sweet personality and is Spanish speaking, so it's like a vacation for me when he comes in. I'm selfishly trying to convince him to keep visiting me until I'm done dancing 😁 any ideas?

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    Default Re: Convincing my regular to stay

    Well, you can send him sexy photos of yourself to entice him to come back, text him often about non-club stuff so he feels like you actually care about him, guilt trip him since you're almost done, etc.
    Or you can make an alternative plan if you're comfortable with that such as dinner for payment or Skype for payment, etc. IDK why you're quitting but if you could get him hooked on an "alternative to the club/drinking", then you could possibly keep him as a financial contributor long after you quit.

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    Default Re: Convincing my regular to stay

    I'm quitting dancing because I'm going to graduate from University and move far away. Last night he said he can't keep falling in love with me. Since that's the case, I'm just going to back off. I've drove enough men crazy in my lifetime, I don't need to add anyone else to that list, especially someone whose only been good to me.

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    Default Re: Convincing my regular to stay

    I still think you should try to keep him for the long term even if you are moving far away. He seems to like you enough to help you out after you move away (outside the club). IE keep him as a "friend"..

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