
Originally Posted by
Layla.00
Maybe I'm really lucky but I've became friends with plenty of dancers at work. There's a couple of girls who I have become close to and we have spent a lot of time together in our "real life". We know each other partners and families, we have gone on vacation together, we can call each other up when we need a favour and do things like drive each other to the airport when need be.
Some of girls are my friends only at work and we don't hang out outside of the club. Not intentionally but because it just doesn't sense due to our schedules or lifestyles. A lot of the girls are mothers, which means that while I'm sleeping all day and catching up on SW, they are busy parenting and balancing the lifestyle of a stripper. We watch each others backs, help each other out when we need baby wipes or tampons, keep each other posted on customers who are gross or aggressive and keep each other in the loop when there's a customer who isn't into my look but is totally into whatever the other has going on. We hustle together when it makes sense, complain to each other when management is being unreasonable and listen to one another about our day to day personal problems.
It takes a while to get to that level and it takes me some time to read a person. But I think it's a nice thing to have at work and generally I prefer this to open hostility or not talking to anyone else. I'm an extroverted person and I imagine that working at a place where I view everyone as competition and a bitch just wouldn't be fun for me. Of course the number one thing reason for going to work is making money and I always keep that in mind and no one gets in the way of that.
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