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    So this morning I get a text from a friends with benefits dude I haven't seen in awhile. Word for word the text goes like this "baby I am dying to fuck you...I'm begging you...please". Since I like sex, and I like sex with this particular person I write back "what are you doing tonight?" Seems reasonable right?
    A full 6 hours go by and he just now texted me "working". Not, "working, can I see you tomorrow" or "aww, bummer I'm working" or even "whoops I sent that to the wrong person".
    It just kinda baffled me. What the hell is going on in his head? (I know y'all don't know what is going on in his head but I though I'd ask for some insight from the peanut gallery)

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    He is not talented at communicating by text message. Why not call?

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    He could've just been horny at the moment and was hoping you would sext him. Guys are dumb.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Barbie666 View Post
    He could've just been horny at the moment and was hoping you would sext him. Guys are dumb.
    Yup. Ive run into this too..you'd think @ least w/sex they'd be more responsive, but short attention spans I guess..


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    Yea he texted back like 15 min after I posted this with "but I reeely want to fuck you" I think sometimes (always) I think to much into stuff. And no he will not be getting the kitty tonight. Don't leave me hanging for six hours and then expect to get laid

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    A comedian once said....."Ladies when you ask your man what he is thinking and he says nothing. Believe him."
    He is texting just to see if you will still fuck him. Not that he wants to get off of his lazy ass to actually come and fuck you but just making sure you are on the hook. We make a lot of money in the cam business based upon that premise. The men are too lazy to actually get off their ass and find a woman but rather pay us to get them off in the comfort of their own home. It always amazes me that a man will spend $300 to watch me masturbate while he jacks off. I thank God that he made men so stupid. Like herding goats.

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    Yea he texted back like 15 min after I posted this with "but I reeely want to fuck you" I think sometimes (always) I think to much into stuff. And no he will not be getting the kitty tonight. Don't leave me hanging for six hours and then expect to get laid

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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerstcyr View Post
    It always amazes me that a man will spend $300 to watch me masturbate while he jacks off. I thank God that he made men so stupid. Like herding goats.
    Joke: Adam to God, "Why did you make woman so beautiful"?
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    Yea i think you are right, because that text was quickly followed by, "send me a picture of your pussy" and "do you have skype" i really wanted to say to him, you have a credit card, they have sites for that stuff. No way I'm doing that for free
    Lazy men, putting dollars in the pockets of sexy women since the Internet

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    I was going to say maybe he was all about the chase?

    But yeah above explainations make sense.

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    He wants to fuck you, but he wants you to do the work...Plan the meet up, and maybe drive to his place. He's horny and lazy. If he was really working, he was probably just busy too.

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    Could he have been high or drunk?
    I know a person who acts exactly like this when he's high on coke.

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    Nope. If they want to do anything, they will find a way ti do it, w whether it's being w/someone or wht/ev..by making excuses for them, they're allowed to act irresponsiblely. Probably making other plans & waiting on sme other flakes
    Smh, pretty soon we'll have to show em how to get it up, AND wipe ther ass too
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    I'd personally get a new guy who is more organized / smooth.
    Could be work / could be another lady / texted wrong person . It could be whatever ... What is lacked was smoothness ! I hope you have other options ( I'm sure you do )!

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    It didn't occur to me either he may have wanted naughty texts . Haha. I just thought " wow, bad way to set up the sex date !"
    Quote Originally Posted by Barbie666 View Post
    He could've just been horny at the moment and was hoping you would sext him. Guys are dumb.

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    Yea, any and all of these explanations may be true, but bottom line, it's just lazy. If you want hot, no strings attached sex from a pretty girl, at least put in SOME kind of effort. It's to bad too, we had really hot sex, but it's like really, come on dude.
    I wonder if this kinda half assed shit works with other girls and that's why they do it? Or do they really not understand?

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    If you like fucking him, tell him you'll do the work and pop by, but you'll need a couple hundred in gas money. May as well get some long term benefit.

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    My guess is that he sent that text to multiple people and already found a fuck buddy, but didn't want to let you know that he was getting sex elsewhere.

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    He enjoys making you jump through his hoops, clearly sending you a message to EXPECT nothing from him in return.

    Time to ask yourself what do you want? Not just out of him but men in general? Why would you be in such a one-sided relationship? He gets what he wants, to use someone without a thought or care about them as a person. Why would you want to be involved with someone so uncaring & thinks it is okay to use ANYONE in such a manner?

    No matter what you say, or do he will NEVER love you.. It is NOT just a booty call situation or you would have never posted here.
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    You deserver better.
    Ignore him or if you have to text back "Busy" you don't owe him any explanation.

    We all connect during sex, even men. Anyone that selfish doesn't deserve one more moment of your time.

    What do you want? Why should respect, love, caring, kindness but shoved out of the way for sex at anytime?

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    Best way to get rid of a beggar is to get expensive, cause what he did worked before so he will be back around.

    Sweet words mean nothing without actions.

    Demand Roses, jewelry, expensive dinners. One, you deserve them. Two, men with bad intentions HATE spending money on those they do NOT respect.

    A man who wants more, like love a relationship will pay for those things & do right.

    You have the pussy, time to flip the script.

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    You don't pull punches Sam. But you are absolutely right. I do like this guy more than he likes me, and I would like something more with him.
    I am also just getting over having my heart seriously broken by this guy I was in a terrible, off and on again relationship, where I did all the loving and caring, and he just used me.
    I wanted distraction from all that with this guy, but a meaningless fuck is just gonna make me feel worse, not better.
    I need to channel amazing women who know their worth and demand respect. Like you
    No more fuck buddies. I love sex, but I really love sex in a loving, respectful relationship better. I can see I'm never gonna get there if I keep letting guys use me for sex.
    I am a wonderful girl that someone would be lucky to be absolutely devoted to.
    I'm glad I posted. Nothing like stripper web to keep ya honest

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    Well, Whirlerz contacted me to post here, so thank her.

    I find more you ignore men, more up your ass they want to be..
    Date, do lots & lots of dating. NOT sex but dating. Have a different date 3 to 5 times a week. And I'm talking about REAL dinner dates, not coffee, not lunch.

    Go out and have a wonderful social life, go out to drinks with friends, take up a new hobby or sport. Get out in real life & LIVE... that attracts the right kind of guy. It works.

    Think about what you do want out of life, out of a man then put it out into the world & let it go. Stop pondering past mistakes. Ignore all text, you are to busy living a life. Get all dressed up, go sit at a bar in the most expensive steak house in the area & treat yourself to a nice drink & salad. Smile like you have a secret. Go on a week night, not the weekend. Wont be to long & a man will be offering to buy the full dinner & the drinks. It works.

    There is nothing wrong with wanting love & marriage. Don't let losers who just want to use you tell you any different, they are just on another journey.. AWAY FROM YOU!!! State what you want, what you expect. The minute they don't give it to you, move the fuck on, so fast it makes their heads spin.

    Dont' have sex until you are sure he wants the exact same things in life that you do. Otherwise you will get emotionally invested into someone who isn't into you. Which steal time away from finding the one who will.

    Any guy who pressures you to have sex within 3 dates, cut loose. Nice try, but you are looking for love. Dating as in going to the movies, going out to dinner, meeting their friends. Do NOT let them into your home unless you are ready to fuck them. Don't go into their home until you are ready to fuck them. Otherwise, a hot kiss at the end of the date is all that is needed.

    If they hit you up for a booty call, just say good bye. Men do NOT make investments of time or money into someone they NEVER plan to marry or have a relationship. He might buy one dinner, but rarely more than that to tap that ass.

    Make a game of it, how many dates at nice places before he gets frustrated about not getting laid out fo the deal. Honestly, one of my favorite games to play. I always meet them there so I can make a clean get away. This is qualifying your buyer, making him chase you. About the 3rd date or so, act all offended that he didn't bring you roses. Doesn't he like you? Aka making him step up his game.

    Keep in mind, who is training who? Those booty call guys where training you. They will testing the waters of how much they could disrepect you & still get exactly what they wanted. Doesn't that make you mad? What girl in her right mind gets involved with a guy like that? Want to know the kind of girl they date & marry? The one who made them jump through the hoops right off the bat.
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    A guy who wants loves goes out of his way to make your life better to make you happy. Just like you were those men. Have enough value in yourself to demand out of them as much as you give if not more.
    If the guy is poor, but ambitious with a great work ethic, he will get creative to date you. He will take you to the park for a picnic he cooked. He will bring you a little present, the best he can afford. He would go without food rather than to have you pay for anything. He takes you to the parents house for a free meal. Pot luck parties with the friends. He is a diamond in the rough, so they all don't have to be rich. They do have to want to work at winning you over and just not lip service to it.

    Good Luck,
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    Some of my closest friends have been married now 20 years plus, their husbands all dote on them.
    They all set the standard of how they wanted to be treated from the start. Those men work to keep their wives happy each & every day. NOT the other way around.

    Those guys are HAPPILY married & would never risk cheating & losing their wives or with a few of them fear of death, now they she has him trained just how they like them. LOL

    Don't waste tears or wondering if a man is into you. They aren't worth it. Cause a man who is,he will go the distance to make you happy.

    Next time that guy text you & he will. Text back "Who is this? Is this the guy who sent me 2 dozen roses yesterday? Cause I love them?" He will know someone else is willing to buy you roses & just being a booty call isn't good enough for you. Then if he text you back, say 'Not interested'. 3rd time wait a few days, "busy". Then wait a few days again for the 4th text "Dinner next weekend & name the most expensive place in the area?"

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    FYI: How do you girls think I got so fat? Lots and lots of dinner dates at fancy places. LOL

    Anytime a man text, calls or talks to you in general, he is thinking at all times.. "What is in it for me? Will I get laid? How can I do this with the least amount of time, effort or money?"

    A men know who they want for the rest of their lives & have no problem being what you need.

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    What I find interesting is not one male response here..but the other stuff they're all over it


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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    What I find interesting is not one male response here..but the other stuff they're all over it
    My guess is they don't want to be in hot water. lol! The harsh reality is "he's just not that into you." If a man wants you then rabid hyenas won't keep him away. When they're not that into you, they get lazy, and make no effort. Better to just move on to a guy who actually likes you and leave this one alone. If you have feelings for him, don't let yourself be a booty call. You're just setting yourself up to get hurt. (I'm not picking on you OP; a loooot of my friends do the same thing.) I'm guessing you're way too pretty for this. Sounds like it's time for an upgrade.

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