After 2 years, reading stripperweb up and down. I think i get it.
I was naive in thinking that none of the advice/threads would apply to urban/black clubs but indeed it does. I worked this past thursday at my club ace of spades and i dont know what was different about that day but i woke up refreshed, and just feeling great sll together.
ive dealt with body issues my whole life, being compared to others by my mom and having self esteem issues in general but this past year ive become to love myself(plus me teaching pole dance has boosted my confidence since i can dance my ass off).
1. I had confidence out this world, it was like no other girl was in the club. I dressed how i wanted to and wat i was comfortable in. Im not big/fat but compared to other girls im a little above average (36-30-48, 5'im all muscle plus i wear 7 inch heels. I walked the floor like i was theeeeeeee SHIT!!!
2. I talked to everyone in the place. 25% of the customers were rude but i didnt take it to heart i just turn3d there attitude around on them and got spicy back with them in a nice way.
3. I only stayed and talked for 3 songs unles it was slow. It was really slow for abot an hour and i stayed and drank and talked with a custo for like 15-20 mins. He bought me drinks, and tipped me for my time. A vet dancer kept intercepting my sales do i chuncked him up as a loss and walked away.
It rained 200 on me on stage in front of her face so forget it.
4. Personality wise i was me in the real world x100. Silly, funny, sexy, cool. Really confident, not scared or intimidated AT ALL.
5. I RARELY WAS IN THE DRESSING ROOM. I only went to change, take a wash up, freshen up, and stack my money.
6. I never stopped dancing. When it was slow and no one was on stage i went on stage to dance/practice.
7. Shy guys- i was open with them to get them comfortable.
8. Instead of saying do u want another dance i would say "you dont want me to stop do you?" Or i would ask u want me to keep going?" All while grinding on their dick.
The only bad part of the day is the vet dancer who tried to latch on to me but later i found out she got in trouble for selling pussy. She came over to my first customer and sat in my seat while i went to get the bartender. When i came back she said she just wanted to talk to him because he was an old friend. Fuck that, i got my drink and left which i shouldnt have done (but he made it clear i wasnt gonna dance for him in so many words). The second cust was in a booth i talked to him, sat down got tipped for talking and as she was walkin by she stopped and said hi to the customer and told him to take good care of me bcuz i was her cousin. I kinda played into it and when she came back she told the customer she never seen me a day in her life. played me lmaooooo
But the day wad great
I stayed 2 hours into the night and i could not figure out the hustle, it was so fast. Girls were hopping tables and collecting cash piles like no ones business. But i was nervous so i stayed in the background to get a feel, because it 2as almost like they knew the guys.
Any advice on night shift would be great.
p.s. i think i did bad on night shift because i was tired from day shift, and i didnt eat all day



im all muscle plus i wear 7 inch heels. I walked the floor like i was theeeeeeee SHIT!!!
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