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    Default Re: Getting gossiped about? Accused of being on drugs and doing extras.

    You earn great money and can hustle. They were never going to like you.

    It's over. Forget it. Let them talk shit. You will make your money and move on.

    The I won't spend money coz your on drugs line is bs. They just don't want too. No comes w a generic insult alot. Distract from They are cheap pervs.

    You probably won't lose her as a friend. Ignore it or tell her if people spread rumors about you - ignore them.

    Ime ppl respond well to calm I don't give a fuck, I'm awesome, next topic.

    Justify/plead your case and its all bitchy drama. Maybe it looks weak? Don't know. Now I just sweetly say "believe what you want." Bullies back off at a lack of reaction too.

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    Default Re: Getting gossiped about? Accused of being on drugs and doing extras.

    Get used to the fact you may have to loose her as a friend.

    This is why dancers shouldn't make friends at the club. It's easier to just go hustle for money and leave after your shift but you're all caught up in rumors and fake friendships.

    I would ditch these superficial sh*t starters asap if I were you. They're not real friends anyway.
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    Quote Originally Posted by amberlly View Post
    You earn great money and can hustle. They were never going to like you.

    It's over. Forget it. Let them talk shit. You will make your money and move on.

    The I won't spend money coz your on drugs line is bs. They just don't want too. No comes w a generic insult alot. Distract from They are cheap pervs.

    You probably won't lose her as a friend. Ignore it or tell her if people spread rumors about you - ignore them.

    Ime ppl respond well to calm I don't give a fuck, I'm awesome, next topic.

    Justify/plead your case and its all bitchy drama. Maybe it looks weak? Don't know. Now I just sweetly say "believe what you want." Bullies back off at a lack of reaction t
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    It's said there's no friends (or rarely anyway) & this's a perfect example..good luck & just keeping doing you & make your $.


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    Maybe Ashley and/or Katie do extras low key and started rumors about you so nobody suspects them of doing any? Just a thought. Anyway making $$$ is the best revenge. Let those bitches talk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by culitos View Post
    Maybe Ashley and/or Katie do extras low key and started rumors about you so nobody suspects them of doing any? Just a thought. Anyway making $$$ is the best revenge. Let those bitches talk.
    I agree with her^^
    If you're not actually on drugs or doing extras who gives a shit. Just make your money, and don't respond to them. Let them see you count all your cash and let them bitches hate!
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    Default Re: Getting gossiped about? Accused of being on drugs and doing extras.

    Girls accused me of all kinds of shit if I started doing good at a new club. My last "first day" I made $700 in 3 hours on day shift and all the day girls gave me death stares. One approached me and was like "I understand you gotta do what you gotta do," admitting to doing extras sometimes. I just started laughing. Eventually they got to know me and knew I'm not like that...but even if they never warmed up to me, who cares? You're there to make $ not friends. Let them keep talking because the more they gossip the less time they have to hustle.

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    Fuck em.

    Also, don't count your money in front of girls. It's none of their business.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wednesday86 View Post
    Girls accused me of all kinds of shit if I started doing good at a new club. My last "first day" I made $700 in 3 hours on day shift and all the day girls gave me death stares. One approached me and was like "I understand you gotta do what you gotta do," admitting to doing extras sometimes. I just started laughing. Eventually they got to know me and knew I'm not like that...but even if they never warmed up to me, who cares? You're there to make $ not friends. Let them keep talking because the more they gossip the less time they have to hustle.
    Yeah, this is usually how it goes. You start knocking it out of the park & other girls notice, not in a good way.

    You have to be in good with the management (I don't mean "blowjob in the closet" good, I mean keeping them happy) .......They all know certain girls will throat-cut/undercut other girls.

    BTW a way to help with the smack talk & bullying is to keep an assertive posture & walk slowly. That way if someone gets any cute ideas about getting in your face, you look able to kick them with your stripper shoe. (I don't advise actually hitting a betch because the managers will pawn the liability onto you if you injure someone in a fight. BUT a lot of women are easily intimidated by the threat of violence or disfigurement.)

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    Default Re: Getting gossiped about? Accused of being on drugs and doing extras.

    You have to shift how you saw these people. Now you know how petty and jealous and untrustworthy they are. Reclassify them and shove them back out of your heart and good graces. You judge them even harder than they judge you. They are not worthy of your trust or friendship. It's possible to treat this job coldly and just go in, work, and leave without substituting their judgement of you for your own. This means you don't raise their opinion of you above your OWN opinion. Your truth is LAW in your heart and mind, not theirs. You can emotionally handle working shift after shift without their support. You can be there for yourself and you don't have to take in their rejection of the fake you they created in their petty minds. You know who you are. Be proud of your success at selling and go do it again.

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    Default Re: Getting gossiped about? Accused of being on drugs and doing extras.

    as the Taylor Swift song goes "haters gonna hate"

    They can't make the money so they get jealous and hate who can! Simple.
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    Idk how strict your club is, but my concern would be.. what if those cunts tell management stuff to get you fired?

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    Default Re: Getting gossiped about? Accused of being on drugs and doing extras.

    I have a low tolerance for bullshit so if it were me in your situation and in the dressing room, if girls were throwing out statements obviously directed at me I would just interject and be like "how about one of you go run up to CVS and bring me back a drug test and we'll set the record straight any time you want. "

    One night I had been in the champagne room with one guy all night. At the end of the night my friend was like, "damn, how many hours where you in there? " I answered her question and another girl overheard the number of hours and made some "Pinocchio" comment. By that I gathered that she thought I was lying. I said to the girl that "oh I'm Pinocchio? Go ask our manager how Pinocchio had to get special approval by him to run the customers card for the high credit card amount." She checked with our manager and he confirmed my numbers were true lol. He also told her to stop being bitter.

    Sure you can ignore people, I just find more pleasure in seeing the look on their faces when I prove people wrong.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NakedNicole View Post
    One night I had been in the champagne room with one guy all night. At the end of the night my friend was like, "damn, how many hours where you in there? " I answered her question and another girl overheard the number of hours and made some "Pinocchio" comment. By that I gathered that she thought I was lying. I said to the girl that "oh I'm Pinocchio? Go ask our manager how Pinocchio had to get special approval by him to run the customers card for the high credit card amount." She checked with our manager and he confirmed my numbers were true lol. He also told her to stop being bitter.
    Awesome. I wish more managers would put sour bitches in their place.

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    I also love that my club has cameras that are constantly monitored in every dance both/champagne room because then you don't get girls speculating that so and so is doing extras because no one is getting away with shit.

    It always makes me laugh when customers try to say that they just got a BJ in there by a different girl. Then I go asking my manager if he saw anything out of the ordinary on camera for that room and he says that he didn't see anything like that going on. It cracks me up how customers think they can minipulate us by making up obviously false stories.

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    Default Re: Getting gossiped about? Accused of being on drugs and doing extras.

    Oh pshh ignore it! Jealous people or threatened people will say whatever they can to make others hate you. If it's not a fact or experience they had firsthand then I take it with a grain of salt. Even then, people make things up in their head all the time. Those girls tend to have psychological problems too. It does make it harder that you dance and those girls could try and bait you into getting fired for something untrue, but just ignore them and defend yourself by verbally picking on things they wouldn't like when they pick on you about lies. That's probably just about all you can or do they'll walk all over you. Strip clubs aren't exactly the healthiest environment so make of it what you can!

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    Quite honestly, one of the perks of being a socially awkward wallflower is that I avoid hearing what people are saying behind my back. Usually someone will bring it up to me much later, or I'll put two and two together... But it's not worth it to worry about gossip. Screw the haters. Especially at the SC, talk about a toxic environment!

    You do you, and keep to yourself if it helps for the time being.

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    Quote Originally Posted by culitos View Post
    Maybe Ashley and/or Katie do extras low key and started rumors about you so nobody suspects them of doing any? Just a thought. Anyway making $$$ is the best revenge. Let those bitches talk.
    I completely agree with that statement. I think that they took their own shit and dumped it all over you! Hang in there and keep your distance from them and just do your job.

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