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    I was hesitant to post this but just wanted to get some opinions. My favorite dancer who I've know over a year was fired over a month ago. (I have a wrestling fetish and she fits the bill). We were close to meeting in a hotel for a otc session but I looked up the local spots and they seemed dirty so I offered to met her in a nearby park where I'd give her a donation. We did some dirty/fetish talk and regular conservation. She said she's looking into other clubs but couldnt wear heels for awhile. She thanked me for the $ and said it helped with her electric bill. A few weeks later she texted me again and asked if I wanted to meet which I agreed. We talked for awhile and she said she just got over a cold but knows the dj to a club where she'd like to work.
    If she doesnt want to dance anymore I respect that but feel like I sort of got played. She's in a relationship and I realize we cant be best friends but maybe its because i was in "awe" of her and have somewhat low self-esteem that she got the money. (almost $400) I have a feeling we wont speak again. The money lost wont hurt me financially, its more of the idea.

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    How exactly did you get played? And how did she get the money the second time? Did you really expect her to wrestle you in a park?
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Didn't expect to wrestle in the park but she got paid well basically for 30 mins of conversation. I met her a second time and paid.
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    No one forced you to give her $, so no I don't think you got played. She took a huge risk by meeting you otc at all, with no bouncers or anyone to protect her if you happened to be a serial killer or rapist (not saying you are but it happens.) She gave you her time and attention which you paid for. You can always stop talking to her and spending on her, but she doesn't owe you anything for free.

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    Yeah, her time isn't free. If you didn't get what you wanted the first time, why risk a second time?
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    I guess so, just wish she would send a smiley face or nice text in two weeks. I think she knew I was/am harmless. I heard her bf is a big guy so I was taking a risk too. lol

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    It sounds like you caught some feelings and you want things to be more than what they are. In that case it might be better for you to just move on. Obviously she doesn't want any kind of friendship...if she's not getting paid, she doesn't want to talk to you. If you're texting her a lot it's probably annoying her because she feels like she's always on the clock. This is exactly why I stopped giving regulars my #.

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    ^Why would she do that? She's not in a position to make money off of you after two sessions weren't what you wanted and cuz she's no longer dancing. She'll text you once she's in a club again, she isn't able to do what you want due to lack of facilities, so she's not able to profit financially, no matter how many texts she sends. If I were her, of ask for a large loan and not pay it back. I got ten k from a customer I hated and never paid him back. It was very well deserved.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    I haven't texted her in 2 weeks, she texted me last time.
    Anyway, if she gets to a new club, i'd be right over.

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    10k? ouch......must have been a millionaire.

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    Ps. Sort of changed my mind.........shes sweet.

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    No, if anything he would have spent it on call girls and booze.
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    Yay, Julia!!


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    codered, did you really expect her to roll around in the grass with you at the park?

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    CodeRed-

    You should spend some time over at TUSCL where they will knock some sense into your head. Sheesh!

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    Yes, I'm a member there too lol.

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    To "Emma" from WWE. If you read this, I retract my statement and will make it right.

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    You totally got your value, you have endless fantasy material about a real woman! Strippers are essentially in person cam girls. No, your not getting screwed, but you had many wonderful erotic experiences. You went into this expecting something unreasonable, and your upset because you super high expectations weren't met. You need to realize how much value you recieved, and be incredibly grateful she met you at all. That was really a dangerous thing for her to do. Take your memories, wash out the salt, and lock them in the spank bank for years of good fantasizing.
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    You didn't get played. You got exactly what you agreed upon. You told her you'd give her money on the meet.

    The park jokes are hilarious.

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