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    Angry one of the top girls came at me for "looking at her" last night

    So I'm not a newbie dancer (been stripping five years) but im new to this club..and this situation.
    I'm the kind of dancer who doesn't make friends, talk about other dancers, get into drama or fight. I make my money and keep my head down. I've been dancing at this club since the fall/winter an I've been cool w everyone so I'm just confused cause I've never had this happen!

    last night one of the top girls (she's ALWAYS there) came at me like "can I help you with something??" And Im Totally confused and tell her no. I'm sitting w a customer making money. She then goes upstairs to the dressing room and starts absolutely SHRIEKING so everyone in the club can hear "what are you looking at??? I'm gunna fuck you up bla bla" obviously directed at me. Now I've always been cool w her so now I'm just totally confused and taken aback, this is not a girl I want on my bad side. So i make sure to not look at her the rest of the night while she's muttering threatening words under her breath.

    Just wtf!! I feel like she's coming down off a coke bender and I was an easy target being the only white girl in the place , no friends, relatively new. Just wanted to vent and ask advice I guess lol

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    Default Re: one of the top girls came at me for "looking at her" last night

    shes probably jealous

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    Default Re: one of the top girls came at me for "looking at her" last night

    scream back at her and ask what her problem is. if its about who screams louder, u can beat her good. lol
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    Default Re: one of the top girls came at me for "looking at her" last night

    That sounds irrational AF. So u know whatch your back around irrational people. I wouldn't go off on her but I wouldn't avert my gaze either. If she thinks you're staring at her then point out that if she wasn't so busy watching you then she wouldn't have noticed you noticing her. haha confuse that bish. Just keep smiling and making your money. Hopefully management will get sick of her shit and send her packing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by We had a rabbit like you View Post
    So I'm not a newbie dancer (been stripping five years) but im new to this club..and this situation.
    I'm the kind of dancer who doesn't make friends, talk about other dancers, get into drama or fight. I make my money and keep my head down. I've been dancing at this club since the fall/winter an I've been cool w everyone so I'm just confused cause I've never had this happen!

    last night one of the top girls (she's ALWAYS there) came at me like "can I help you with something??" And Im Totally confused and tell her no. I'm sitting w a customer making money. She then goes upstairs to the dressing room and starts absolutely SHRIEKING so everyone in the club can hear "what are you looking at??? I'm gunna fuck you up bla bla" obviously directed at me. Now I've always been cool w her so now I'm just totally confused and taken aback, this is not a girl I want on my bad side. So i make sure to not look at her the rest of the night while she's muttering threatening words under her breath.

    Just wtf!! I feel like she's coming down off a coke bender and I was an easy target being the only white girl in the place , no friends, relatively new. Just wanted to vent and ask advice I guess lol
    i don't think you should yell back or really say much of anything. hopefully she wouldn't actually come at you but if she does, unless your management is really shitty, she will get in trouble and you won't. i had something similar happen to me and the girl got fired and i didn't because i just kept to myself and let her act crazy and didn't react. it helped that the manager and another girl had my back since they knew me as being quiet and never causing problems. idk how it is at your club tho

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    Default Re: one of the top girls came at me for "looking at her" last night

    Avoid her, ignore her, forget about her as much as possible. As far as you're concerned, she no longer exists. She's not even there.

    It sounds like she's trying to throw you off your game. It's easy to say "don't let her", because of course someone screaming and acting crazy and angry at you is going to throw you off your game at least a little...but understand that this is likely her goal, and do your best to at least appear unruffled and unaffected. Hopefully she moves on to another target once she fails to get any rise out of you.

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    Default Re: one of the top girls came at me for "looking at her" last night

    Wtf. It's a free country you can look wherever you want to look.

    Now it's one thing to stare (aka looking at someone for more than a few seconds) but you can look or glance at whoever whenever.

    Some people are just weird like that.

    If you weren't staring a hole through her with a death glare then she is over reacting and acting like a shit starter.

    You could tell the manager to say something to her to make her back off, you could tell her to quit looking at you and stfu and sit down somewhere (how the hell she know you're looking at her if she's not looking at you) but be ready for resistance and consequences if you stand up to her, or you could ignore her and hope she goes away and self destructs.

    Me personally I would carry a small weapon in my bag, or be ready to grab the nearest makeshift weapon, just in case a b*tch tries to run up on you.
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    Most likely just feeling out the new girl. She's jealous and wants to see how far she can push you, and if you will be a threat to her. I DOUBT she would do anything (I was in a similar situation years ago. She was snobby and insecure over her wrinkly boob job, lol. Never turned into anything.), but remember those stripper heels can make great weapons if you find yourself physically threatened.

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    Why's she that worried? If she's really full of herself, you're jealous. If she has a fucking brain, she'd realize you were new and maybe someone was pointing out where the bathroom is so you can take care of basic human needs after selling overpriced drinks all night or where an exit is in case a fire breaks out.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Make sure you stay cool as a cucumber if she shrieks at you again. Let her make herself look insane. Let her see that she can't shake you. Everyone will see your class, strength, and that you can hold your own without stooping to her tactics.

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    Default Re: one of the top girls came at me for "looking at her" last night

    These types of girls are usually all bark and no bite. If she tried you again, I would stay calm and firmly tell her "Dont fucking talk to me".

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    This has happened to me when I danced. A lot of dancers have mental illnesses they may not realize they have.

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