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    Anyone? how do u do? Im getting crazy right now with my 11 months baby, he wants attention all day, if i need to clean the house, do whatever, he cries for attention and crawls after me, i have to stop all im doing to sit, tell him i love him but i still need to clean, cook, cam to make money (calm down girls, i dont get naked ok? before this turns in to a drama, lol), and many other things. I also have 2 grown ups, girl and boy, 18 and 20 yrs old. So i must split attention by 3. I already tried everything; peppa pig, and there he gets calm for like 2 hs and then he starts crying and craving for attention. He doesnt sleep at all during the day, probably just 1hr at 9am and of course that gets him tired etc etc...Im so tired and losing my patience all the time, i sleep only 6 hs per nite coz he still wakes up a lot, my hubby is sleeping in the couch....augh! anyone to split my misery? lol
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    Umm, Cam at night? Your baby needs you during the day. I really hope you're not camming in the same room as him whether you're naked or not! WTF? It isn't good for babies to put them in front of a tv for hours at a time either. He needs human interaction, active play time, and a schedule. I honestly can't tell if you're serious or trolling.

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    Wow, I think SyIvy's question is perfectly valid, what's with everyone just shitting all over posts recently? I'm sure their are cam mommies on this forum who could sympathize.

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    Could you enlist the 18 and 20 year old kids to help with the baby? They are old enough that they should be helping you out, not adding to your burden. IMHO if they are still sleeping under the roof you pay for and eating your food then they need to take shifts with the baby. For that matter, they can clean and cook too.

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    Pay a trust worthy qualified person to help you. $8-10/hr and voila! Couple free hours for you!
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    To make it clear, i play a lot with my baby....We laugh a lot together and i go to the park with him, and we do a lot of things. But he wont stay with anyone else, he wants me and me. My 2 grown up, one lives far away, he is going to college in another state and the girl she works from 10am to 4pm, but even if she wasnt, she wont help. I always get upset at her as she doesnt even wash her dishes. I do all at home for everyone, my hubby works all day, so its just me. I saw some kindergartens today, i dont want a nanny coz first of all, my apartment is really small and another person inside would get it crowded and i think he needs interaction with other kids to be more independent. Like i said, i dont get naked nor i do cam, so my main thing is DirectIM, from where i make the money to help my hubby which alone is not being able to support everything. My money helps the 3 kids and they need me. I usually can do cam when he sleepsat night, like 6:30pm until my hubby arrives and that is more or less 2hs per day. My main issue is, does anyone have a baby that wont go with anyone except u, doesnt anyone have a baby which cries a lot if u live him for 2 mins, does anyone have a baby that craves so much for ur attention? if u do or did, what did u do? how did u cope? what did u try? how can u help him being more independent?
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    Well babies can go with anyone you want, if you train them to do so. If you are the only one holding your baby then they get spoiled (they are so precious at that age so it's hard I know first hand). Babies that age have short memories, after 15 min, they will be playing and forget you're even gone. Does the baby run the house or you? Trust me, as long as the person is trustworthy and qualified your baby will be fine and he'll get used to whatever agenda you set.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kitcatt View Post
    Wow, I think SyIvy's question is perfectly valid, what's with everyone just shitting all over posts recently? I'm sure their are cam mommies on this forum who could sympathize.
    Well she didn't make it clear that she was IMing. She said CAMMING. You're okay with parents camming with their baby around? If that's "shitting" on her then sue me. Also letting an 11 month old watch hours of TV every day can cause developmental and speech delays, but y'know whatever. I guess that's not important.

    Anyway OP I do know what it's like to work from home with a little one (not camming though.) There's really no easy way to deal with it. I would play with him for a while and then set up an activity that he can do on his own for a few minutes, but usually have to wait until my husband gets home to take over and entertain him so I could get some stuff done. Otherwise I have to get it all done while he's asleep. You need to get your husband to step up. If you both work, then you should both be doing equal shares of the house work, cooking and child care. He can't expect you to do literally everything by yourself. If the baby won't go to him, that's a sign that they need more bonding time anyway.

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    I suppose he runs the house, lol - anyway, i talked to my hubby and we both prefer the kindergarten, as we think that the things they offer such as music classes, interaction with other kids (understand hes not the center of the world), that he needs to wait and ot want all when he wants, play with other kids, eat with other kids and etc, are better than a nanny could offer as for activity. I also will leave him only part day, in the afternoon, so in the am we will stay together, play, and do our stuff. In the afternoon i will do my stuff at home, and he will be back at 17:30h. Now we will visit some schools and see prices. Wish me luck girls!
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    Quote Originally Posted by wednesday86 View Post
    Well she didn't make it clear that she was IMing. She said CAMMING. You're okay with parents camming with their baby around? If that's "shitting" on her then sue me. Also letting an 11 month old watch hours of TV every day can cause developmental and speech delays, but y'know whatever. I guess that's not important.

    Anyway OP I do know what it's like to work from home with a little one (not camming though.) There's really no easy way to deal with it. I would play with him for a while and then set up an activity that he can do on his own for a few minutes, but usually have to wait until my husband gets home to take over and entertain him so I could get some stuff done. Otherwise I have to get it all done while he's asleep. You need to get your husband to step up. If you both work, then you should both be doing equal shares of the house work, cooking and child care. He can't expect you to do literally everything by yourself. If the baby won't go to him, that's a sign that they need more bonding time anyway.
    My hubby helps me a lot, he cooks a lot for me when he gets home and he loves the baby and be with the baby, the baby also loves being with him. On weekends thigs are easier as hes home. During the week its more complicated as i stay alone with the lil one. Im very tired, but if i figure the part time school thing, things will get better. Now is just a matter of money and how much it costs to leave him few hs.
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    As a father to 3 kids, IME the baby will become accustomed to someone else if you push the issue and stay out of sight, even if it takes a couple of bad episodes before the baby becomes adjusted.

    But I still say that you have some live-in help with an 18 year old daughter. She works 6 hours in the middle of the day - not exactly a killer schedule. IMHO you're letting her get away with too much. She is 18 and, at least in this country, you are no longer obligated to provide for her. If she doesn't want to pitch in, start tossing her shit out the front door. She will come around. She's only pulling crap like not washing her own dishes and refusing to help with child care because you let her.

    In any event, good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    As a father to 3 kids, IME the baby will become accustomed to someone else if you push the issue and stay out of sight, even if it takes a couple of bad episodes before the baby becomes adjusted.

    But I still say that you have some live-in help with an 18 year old daughter. She works 6 hours in the middle of the day - not exactly a killer schedule. IMHO you're letting her get away with too much. She is 18 and, at least in this country, you are no longer obligated to provide for her. If she doesn't want to pitch in, start tossing her shit out the front door. She will come around. She's only pulling crap like not washing her own dishes and refusing to help with child care because you let her.

    In any event, good luck.
    You are totally right, i get upset, we argue and never nothing changes. I agree her schedule aint kill her and i agree she should help at home at least. she loves the baby, but hardly does anything to help me with him. not even changing his diapers. I feel like a maid, lol. She wont even cook her meals, i have to do it for her or she wont eat right. There were few issues between us few yrs ago and i guess for this reason i feel guilty and thats why i dont push her more, anyway, shes wrong to not help me and im wrong to not ask for more. Anyway today im gonna take the baby for a long walk in the park, its sunny here and he loves his lil pool which i always carry with me everywhere we go.
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