Hi everyone! I recently decided to dance in Guam (after reading tons of forums in here and speaking one on one with other dancers and club owners/managers) and now I feel like I'm stuck in a pickle.
In a private Facebook stripper group I'm apart of a club owner (Roxanne/Club 4play) posted she was looking for dancers a month or so ago. I asked her questions and did research and 4 days later I agreed to it and came up with a date (April 15th) and she said that was okay. The week of rolled around and I tried contacting her via Facebook and she didn't message me back. I tried again this weekend and same thing occurred - no response. I got worried and emailed/applied to 3 other clubs starting last Thursday. (Club USA, Vikings, Club Foxy) and the only response I heard was from Patrick from Club USA and that's because my picture didn't go through. I sent 8 other pictures showing my face and body, but he didn't reply back to that either. That was Thursday, the 14th.
Im starting to get very worried because I've already put in my 3 month leave of absence in at my (waitressing) job. On top of that I've gotten a 3 month supply of my meds, and tied up all loose ends where I live and found someone to pet sit my dog. I am 100% ready to hop on a plane and work for a club somewhere else. Not to mention I've gotten really excited about it since I've never been this far away from home ever.
Anyways, you can see the dilemma I'm faced with. I have bills that are about to be due soon, no feasible means of creating an income unless I start driving 3 hours to dance at my home club in New Orleans, get another job, or try to return to my current one which would be problematic because my manager already hired new staff to take my place.
I really don't know what's going on and it's really starting to bother me. I'm well spoken, smart, respectful, gregarious, responsible, attractive, young, in good shape, have 3.5 years of experience as an entertainer and 5 years experience as an at home pole dancer. No kids, so nothing to tie me down to one area, and yet all the clubs keep ignoring me.
I thought at first that maybe all the clubs have a sufficient amount of dancers but I don't know why the two managers I spoke with (Patrick/Club USA and Roxanne/Club 4Play) would of inquired more about me/planned to make arrangements with me if they had enough dancers to begin with. Now my anxiety is kicking in and I'm starting to contemplate that it may be because I'm black and am being stereotyped once again, or maybe the ticket prices where I live (Jackson, MS) are too high or what?!
Has anyone experienced anything similar? If so, what was the outdone of it? Or maybe if anyone has ever done the Guam trip themselves before did you hear about things like this happening? Thanks so much everyone. My anxiety is kicking in, and my excitement is turning into despair and sadness.



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