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    Default Ex-Strippers fitting in in the real world *sigh*

    I haven't danced for more than 3 years now and work as in Art teacher. I know where's my round of applause? =)=)

    But i got my feelings hurt pretty bad today. A coworkers ex- customer contacted me on FB. I didn't meet him at work, but she'd brought him over to our house.

    We started texted alot (we live in different cities)

    We exchanged naked pics and I tried getting him to sext me a few times. And texted saying he was a jerk when he took too long to respond once when I'd been drinking.

    I guess I scared him cause he sent me angry messages in paaragraphs for the next 40 min saying I'm still a stripper and probably used to hook and I can't survive outside of Vegas and I'm not pretty now that I'm 30. Really ripping into me!!!

    So I'm over this now but my question is how can I handle a dude who's suspicious of my past whule still being myself?

    Like..I don't dance anymore...but I still like drinking too much and am wayyyyy more comfortable than the average girl talking about sex...

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    Default Re: Ex-Strippers fitting in in the real world *sigh*

    He is not worthy. Block him and move on.

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    Thanks!! You're right I think

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    Why do you want to handle this piece of shit?

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    Default Re: Ex-Strippers fitting in in the real world *sigh*

    Bullet dodged. What a crazy douche. Sometimes, when a certain kind of person despises me, I take it as a sign that I'm doing everything right.

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    Default Re: Ex-Strippers fitting in in the real world *sigh*

    That guy is just pure crap, just flush him down the toilet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zofia View Post
    He is not worthy. Block him and move on.

    HTH
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    Exactly this

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    Default Re: Ex-Strippers fitting in in the real world *sigh*

    Hey ex stripper teachers unite! Haha. I work as a middle school English teacher now.

    Guys like that aren't worth your time. If they're going to be suspicious of you and your past and attack you, it's a warning sign to drop them and move on. Find a guy who will accept you and compliment you and love you and enjoy you for who you are and were, not insult and attack you.

    And I totally hear you about being more open about sex etc. I'm the same. The teachers I work with though are crazier than I am! Which is totally awesome but unexpected.
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    Not a teacher, but I used to work in education as my day job, and holy crap. "Things heard in the Teachers' Lounge" could at times feasibly compete with the "Things heard in the dressing room" thread -- teachers party hard. Of all the "vanilla" jobs/fields I've worked in, teachers are easily the craziest party animals. Conservative field op.

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    Oh yeah, you suck-after all, you pay pretty girls you have no chance with to pay attention to you. Oh wait, that's him. You came out of this with a degree and a bunch of money. He came out with intangible attention and a savings account in the negatives. Block him and move on.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Candycups View Post
    Not a teacher, but I used to work in education as my day job, and holy crap. "Things heard in the Teachers' Lounge" could at times feasibly compete with the "Things heard in the dressing room" thread -- teachers party hard. Of all the "vanilla" jobs/fields I've worked in, teachers are easily the craziest party animals. Conservative field op.
    Hahaha truth! Crazy topics during lunch hour! Makes me feel right at home haha
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    This super cheered me up thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_Red View Post
    Bullet dodged. What a crazy douche. Sometimes, when a certain kind of person despises me, I take it as a sign that I'm doing everything right.
    THIS^, big time.
    & pretty much everything else everyone said.


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