My best friend came to visit for a weekend earlier this month. We've known each other for close to 15 years, although we lost touch for a while shortly after we both got married.
I don't know if he's changed over the years, I've grown a backbone and won't put up with the same bullshit I used to or if he's always been this way and I never got a large enough dose to see how bad it was, but he's a total asshole. He treated me like shit and bordered on being downright abusive, at times. At this point, I want nothing to do with him and figured that I wouldn't hear from him after he left.
He's been calling every few days and I've been ignoring his calls, but I feel like a short, politely worded "fuck you" email is probably a good idea. Something like:
Shitbag,
I have received your calls and voicemails. At this point, I have little to say to you, other than to express shock and disappointnent at your behavior while you were here. After some reflection, I am of the opinion that there is no way to continue this friendship. I wish you the best, but insist that you stop trying to contact me as I have no desire to discuss this any further.
Kira
I'm not sure if I should elaborate on some of the more offensive things he did. I really don't want to invite discussion or do anything more than to tell him, in no uncertain terms, to fuck off, but this is a longstanding friendship and it may not be that easy. I have a feeling that he's not going to take this well...



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