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    In your experience..what's more important, cute face or hot body in the stripclub? I'm not a believer that looks always equal success, I feel like sales, personality, magnetism, etc is what makes a good dancer but looks obviously play a part in getting your foot in the door,let's be honest.
    I'm much more gifted at one-on-one,conversation, and cultivating regulars and I honestly have a much cuter face than body but I feel like it helps me being that kind of stripper. Men that usually won't go for thicker girls will still spend money because of my face, The thicker I am the younger I look in the face so it's always a toss up, it's like I can't have both lol. (Not that I have a fat body, just a bit of puppy chubbiness haha, it would just be awesome to have both!).
    Anyways Idk if this is a stupid question but it's been on my mind.

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    I don't think anyone can answer this because it depends solely on the custie and sometimes their mood. Some guys will go for girls that aren't that good looking at all (in my opinion) but are super fun, some just want natural/fake/big/small ass/titties. Some want the whole package (in their opinion) and won't buy if they don't find it. I've got face and pretty good body, I'm good at dirty sexy talk, but I admire the girls that just seem Fun to be around, the girls that always bring the party. I can fake it for a bit but it requires too much of my energy. If I get to pull another gal into a doubles dance or VIP I look for the qualities I lack.
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    My face is definitely not my best feature but my body is hot. Honestly in a dark club on a stage the body tends to be showcased so I don't have feelings of insecurity.

    I have noticed that girls with super pretty faces attract the creepiest guys (customers who turn into stalkers.)

    BTW on that topic my mom was beautiful in the face (think Liz Taylor) but she was icy cruel to men because her beauty usually attracted the wrong kind of attention. I used to be hurt I was no where as beautiful as my mom but now I realize it was probably for the best. I've had a more interesting life with a hot body and a "meh" face.

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    ^haha you may be onto something about the creepers, it's funny cause society always says it's the opposite and guys who only like your body are the creepers but u may be onto something!
    I also find it so rare for a girl to really have both, I've only met one :/ at least without surgery

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    There's a crude old saying that men want to "marry a face but fuck a body".

    In my (long long) experience men who fixate on being married have control issues and/or are needy. & Just because a guy really wants to be married doesn't mean he intends on being faithful.

    Back on topic, women's faces often change with age (loss of baby fat) so I always advise women to wait until their mid 20s if they are gonna consider facial plastic surgery.

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    Default Re: Face or body more important ?

    In my experience having a good body is always more important. I see butterfaces banking all the time.

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    Face IRL, body in the strip club, IMO. Face gets you far IRL moreso than body since different men like different body types but strip clubs are stuck with 90s values.

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    I think both can bank. I've seen stunning face with boring body always banking, and butta face with hot body always bank too. I guess it depends what mood the guy is in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    There's a crude old saying that men want to "marry a face but fuck a body".

    In my (long long) experience men who fixate on being married have control issues and/or are needy. & Just because a guy really wants to be married doesn't mean he intends on being faithful.

    Back on topic, women's faces often change with age (loss of baby fat) so I always advise women to wait until their mid 20s if they are gonna consider facial plastic surgery.
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    Face IRL, body in the strip club, IMO. Face gets you far IRL moreso than body since different men like different body types but strip clubs are stuck with 90s values.
    There is actually research to back this up. I can't be arsed, as the English say, to look it up, but it exists. The dark side of that is men want to own and lock down a pretty face, hence the creepers, and want to bang a good body. I'm sure both can make good money.
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    Ok, at work I really thought about it this last night... Hot body, butter face.... BUT great hair. Seriously.
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    As long as you at least have one, you'll be ok.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Velveteen.Rabbit View Post
    Face IRL, body in the strip club, IMO. Face gets you far IRL moreso than body since different men like different body types but strip clubs are stuck with 90s values.
    This ^^

    Was going to add for hiring body is more important... I've worked lots of clubs where a butterface will get hired with a good body, but a girl with a stunning face will get told to go home if she's carrying a little extra. With strip club lighting, hair extensions, distracting outfits and makeup, face becomes much less important.

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    ^What she said. I had a four hundred pound, waitress fingering manager tell me the only thing I had going for me was my face. At 125, most of which was boobs. Well, karma is a bitch and his last four businesses went into foreclosure-noticed that as I drove past in my sportscar

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    I too think body is more important when it comes to strip clubs. Men who go to clubs are usually more physically oriented and need a hot body to get them hard. A pretty face is nice to look at, but that alone won't get the job done! Plus, as someone else mentioned, makeup and dark lighting in the club can hide most imperfections.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    There's a crude old saying that men want to "marry a face but fuck a body".
    In my limited experience, this is very true with escorting. You never read reviews that say "pretty face", "cute smile" it's always "big tits", fine ass".

    Sorry for intruding into a stripper thread.

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    ^oh not at all, I welcome and appreciate all input from everybody!
    Hmm, maybe this is why my entire stripping career I've attracted the creepos who like long conversations and like to think I'm their gf and shit like that. I always thought it was cause I'm more introverted and good at faking personal connection but it may have smthg to do with the face

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    Your body is more visible / obvious in a dimly-lit club from afar. Your face is more obvious in one-on-one interactions (when hustling). Your body will draw people to you from farther away, and a beautiful face will keep them hooked once they've gotten closer.

    Where you put your money (investment-wise through PS, exercise, etc.) will partially depend on how you like to make your money and how good you already look. If you have a single feature that, if changed, would significantly upgrade your look (e.g. huge nose that doesn't fit your face, very saggy breasts from nursing, love handles that throw your proportions off), then it's clear where your efforts should go. But little tweaks can make a huge difference, too (e.g. investing in yoga or healthy foods).

    Try standing across the room and glancing into a mirror quickly, then glancing away. What did you notice? What features can you recall? Hair color, hair length, overall proportions...did anything stick out in a negative way? Taking a full-body nude picture is a good way to get the same information.

    Lastly, experiment with contouring before you touch your face surgically. I got my nose done during a period when I wasn't dancing because it's something I wanted since I was 14 (and I love the results). But if you want more of a temporary change (for work), contouring can work wonders. And, it's slightly less expensive.

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    I think it changes also depending on the dancer through the years. When I started everyone said that I was so young, pretty face, nice skin, nice natural tits. Then I changed so the compliments changed. I was working out a lot so I got wow! You have the most toned stomach ever and you're so nice. But I didn't really hear the earlier compliments anymore. Then I went through a super thin phase. I don't think as many men liked me. But the other dancers thought I looked amazing. Then I got big boobs. And I would only get big boob compliments. Now I think it's not so much my looks. I think guys like me for my personality first. And they're like well you're hot too. Interesting how it changes through the years. And this society is so age oriented. This country is full of ageists. In other countries, age and experience are respected. But the ageists don't realize that they will be old sooner than later. That's life!
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    Quote Originally Posted by LilLadyLux View Post
    Ok, at work I really thought about it this last night... Hot body, butter face.... BUT great hair. Seriously.
    This is so true now. I've noticed this since I started dancing 20 years ago. The look of dancers has changed dramatically. I have my theories about it. But I won't go on about it on here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nyla19 View Post
    I think it changes also depending on the dancer through the years. When I started everyone said that I was so young, pretty face, nice skin, nice natural tits. Then I changed so the compliments changed. I was working out a lot so I got wow! You have the most toned stomach ever and you're so nice. But I didn't really hear the earlier compliments anymore. Then I went through a super thin phase. I don't think as many men liked me. But the other dancers thought I looked amazing. Then I got big boobs. And I would only get big boob compliments. Now I think it's not so much my looks. Even though I look decent for a woman in my 40s. I think guys like me for my personality first. And they're like well you're hot too. Interesting how it changes through the years. And this society is so age oriented. This country is full of ageists. In other countries, age and experience are respected. But the ageists don't realize that they will be old sooner than later. That's life!
    This is important. A dancer's opinion on what matters most is heavily skewed by her own experience, since she gets complimented and makes money off of her unique set of features. So really none of us can provide an objective answer to this question.

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    That's a good point Charlie. And I don't think looks really matter to guys in the club. I've seen dancers with every different body type, look and ethnicity making tons of money. So I think guys care less than many think.

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    Body. You can do a lot with hair and makeup to overcome what nature didn't give you in the way of facial beauty. Also, personality is important if you don't have looks going for you. However, personality is unreliable. We all have days when we are feeling "off." If you have a hot body and work hard at getting your hair and makeup looking good, you don't have to put as much effort into personality.

    It's funny because guys will say things like "she's too stuck up" and talk shit about the hot girl who doesn't smile, and yet they still buy hours in VIP with her. If you are relying on personality to win customers, you have to be on your game most of the time. You have to get the customers to fall in love with you.

    You just have to decide what is more important to you, to put forth the effort and expense to keep yourself in the best possible shape or to keep up the personality hustle all the time? This is your career, work it the way that works best for you.

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    I mean, they both have their merits. But if you consider how the bulk of profitable dancer-customer interactions are based off of split-second emotional reactions (buying a dance after a few quick sales lines, throwing money on stage), then I would say that a dancer's body has greater value in general. For example, when I'm watching my co-workers on the floor, the girls with amazing curves or legs are the ones that are the most captivating. The only time I've ever noticed another dancer's face is in the dressing room, and customers aren't in there.

    If you already have a solid conversation/face-based hustle though, that's what matters. Just because the "typical" path to success lies in having a conventionally attractive body doesn't mean you can't find your own way -- and clearly you already have! Besides, imo the MOST valuable thing is finding out what works best for you.

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    I've always believed in the idea that when it comes to relationships, men are like taxis, and when the light is on and they are ready for a passenger then they will pick someone who matches then even a little. I think it's 70% in the club too. A guy came into spend money, if your one of the first couple to approach him and you've got a feature he likes, boom. Otherwise your pulling teeth for one or two dances.

    The vips I've had were so fast to take me up, these guys knew they were going to do it and were just waiting to be approached by an acceptable candidate. It could be been another totally opposite broad freeing the money that night lol.
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    When I look at my body in a side mirror I feel like it's kinda of stocky but I mean my bone structure is very.."young" or "boyish" as I like to say to make myself feel better..Small boobs no matter my weight/short waisted/straight hips. Very straight up and down body that gains weight evenly so every pound is more magnified than if I was built curvier..it sucks but aside from plastic surgery I can't change it. So idk whether I just prize the face more in general or whether I feel it's my best feature so I lavish more time on it. I'd love to have both

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