
Originally Posted by
Nilah
Thank you girls so much for the insight! Before our second meeting, he sent me $1600 to cover my bills for the month. We went for dinner, then hung out in his hotel room for a bit (which I texted a safety the hotel name, room number, and his name and phone). We were not intimate, I told him I wasn't ready, and he said he doesn't mind waiting, but when we are, he wants to finish inside. He said he's been tested recently and is clean. He's been honest about everything else (it appears) but honestly, I just don't think I'm willing to take that risk, no matter how much the money. He says he's fixed, but I have known of "fixed" pregnancies to still occur. He has made partner at his firm, and has a few side businesses, so I know he is established and published numerous times. He said he absolutely can not wear protection. Am I crazy for calling it quits for that, or should I give him the benefit of the doubt and trust him, as he has (apparently) been honest about everything else?
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