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    Uggggh honestly it's the classic "eyes too big for stomach" situation. He sees something he likes, the small head thinks, not the big head.

    & I know there's a trendy cultural narrative of the "misunderstood sensitive guy" or the "geeky guy who would treat a beauty like a queen if given the chance" ha ha. Everyone has sh*t that stinks. & Everyone knows douchey attractive males & females who go through partners as fast as they want because they can. Just because less attractive people don't have the chance to date a lot doesn't make them more virtuous. Ugly people can be mean shitty partners too, I jokingly think it's cause they are more impatient to pass on their genes & think they have less chances.

    This is honestly my hard earned dating experience, not anything I learned in the adult biz.

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    Default Re: Unattractive Men who think they have a chance

    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    Uggggh honestly it's the classic "eyes too big for stomach" situation. He sees something he likes, the small head thinks, not the big head.

    & I know there's a trendy cultural narrative of the "misunderstood sensitive guy" or the "geeky guy who would treat a beauty like a queen if given the chance" ha ha. Everyone has sh*t that stinks. & Everyone knows douchey attractive males & females who go through partners as fast as they want because they can. Just because less attractive people don't have the chance to date a lot doesn't make them more virtuous. Ugly people can be mean shitty partners too, I jokingly think it's cause they are more impatient to pass on their genes & think they have less chances.

    This is honestly my hard earned dating experience, not anything I learned in the adult biz.
    Yes, thank you!! Everyone always assumes that unattractive, un-masculine, or geeky guys are sweet and loving partners who will treat you well because they don't have as many options. This is SO false! From observation I've noticed that a lot of those types of men tend to be really immature on a personal level. They don't know how to treat women well because they don't have as much experience, and they are usually bitter and insecure about it. Reminds me of the assholes I have encountered at the club who were rejected by women all their lives, so they end up hating and disrespecting them.

    Also, a big part of attractiveness is how you carry yourself. Even if a guy is not physically attractive, he can make up for it with confidence, a good personality, style, taking good care of his body, etc. I find that a lot of unattractive men are unattractive because they lack those qualities and are unattractive on the inside too.

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    "I bet you have tons of sexy women lusting after you..."
    "Actually, I don't!"
    "Then what makes you think I'm any different?"

    (I'd never say it. But...I wantssss to.)

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    I got over the looks thing, long ago, and age, but I make sure the men know that I have other men to see, and usually the older men surely understand. Im no babe or Bimbo, but men have tried to 'buy" me a couple times.. When I started dancing, the second Amateur night I found out that this job is about 75% THERAPIST .. I dont do love or romance really aside from Family and friends, so I dont need a date for him to get a relationship... I will be what I am, just an Object, and Men can get over an Object, way easier than a girl they have dated.. ... in the "zone" baby.. always in that Zone

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dancer_maria View Post
    I got over the looks thing, long ago, and age, but I make sure the men know that I have other men to see, and usually the older men surely understand. Im no babe or Bimbo, but men have tried to 'buy" me a couple times.. When I started dancing, the second Amateur night I found out that this job is about 75% THERAPIST .. I dont do love or romance really aside from Family and friends, so I dont need a date for him to get a relationship... I will be what I am, just an Object, and Men can get over an Object, way easier than a girl they have dated.. ... in the "zone" baby.. always in that Zone
    So true.


    Also, I'm older than the average dancer today so I try to keep in mind that only recently have cosmetic expectations for both genders leveled up. (Back in the 60s-80s it was very common for the "ugly manly man gets model girlfriend" schtick to be part of movies & pop culture.) IMO because of Internet culture a lot of the "nerd" dudes who never learn social skills are extra hostile about their feelings of being inadequate to women.

    edit to add- one of my favorite musicians pointed out that the unrealistic male role model of the early 1980s was the "New Romantic" man. I learned from hard experience that those type of guys usually have the most bulletproof ladykilling game. In short a great stripper helps her regulars understand that the path to a beauty's heart is about grace & honesty.

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    I have more regulars, made more money then you ever will and been doing this a lot longer than you have hun.


    Quote Originally Posted by cassie22 View Post
    Pretty hard. I'm assuming you don't have regulars? Most of my customers are regulars which is why I can go in on a Tuesday night and still make AT LEAST $600..regulars like to believe you're single and have a chance. That is why as soon as you tell them you lose these obsessed regulars in an instant........

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    Default Re: Unattractive Men who think they have a chance

    We all have different preferences for how we make our money and different approaches that work for us and may not work for others.

    The end.

    Moving on.

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    The importance of physical beauty is overstated for girls and most of us grew up with this being pounded into our heads. Physical beauty becomes the most important thing for a girl and the greatest aspiration.
    Boys are given much more slack AND they are also told about all the other ways in which they can become valuable adults who attract women. This is why many guys don't think they need to put effort into their appearance , and they still deserve the hottest girls. Also why you see the ugliest, most repulsive men being the most harsh towards women's appearances.

    I am in the middle of reporting a neighbor in my building for harassment. He is ugly, a drunk, works at a grocery store - yet he really thought I would drive along with him to walmart when he asked at 11 o'clock last night. He really thought I would go out with him. He is absolutely fucking delusional. I need to make some sense of it.
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    I went out with a very unattractive man assuming he was ugly so he would treat me well. He did. At first. Then it became apparent I was dealing with a malignant narcissist. Told me I wasn't good looking, didn't want to sleep with me, I was fat (I weighed 114 at the time) all in an attempt to destroy my self esteem to make his pathetic, loser self feel better about himself. I told him he was ugly inside and out, and I never wanted to lay eyes on his grotesque looking ass again.

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    Yes! one time there was this guy at my club i had seen him before but never talked to him. Extremely ugly and unkempt, he summoned me over and i talked to him about 3-5 minutes, conversation was going well. Then when i asked him if he wanted to go somewhere more private he reacted like I had just asked him to kill a puppy.
    Like dude... this is my job, im here to get paid. Not talk to your ugly ass for hours on end with no money involved

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    Quote Originally Posted by maggie82 View Post
    I went out with a very unattractive man assuming he was ugly so he would treat me well. He did. At first. Then it became apparent I was dealing with a malignant narcissist. Told me I wasn't good looking, didn't want to sleep with me, I was fat (I weighed 114 at the time) all in an attempt to destroy my self esteem to make his pathetic, loser self feel better about himself. I told him he was ugly inside and out, and I never wanted to lay eyes on his grotesque looking ass again.
    I'm glad you did that & told him that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KikiGem View Post
    The importance of physical beauty is overstated for girls and most of us grew up with this being pounded into our heads. Physical beauty becomes the most important thing for a girl and the greatest aspiration.
    Boys are given much more slack AND they are also told about all the other ways in which they can become valuable adults who attract women. This is why many guys don't think they need to put effort into their appearance , and they still deserve the hottest girls. Also why you see the ugliest, most repulsive men being the most harsh towards women's appearances.
    Yes this is definitely true! This reminds me of this really ugly guy I know who feels the need to critique me whenever I see him. Analyzing my body and telling me I'm 'losing my ass' and don't look as good as I did. Mind you this guy is literally SO UGLY. He's a promoter so I think he has this idea that he's a big deal and can say shit like that to women.

    I'm not even a shallow person at all. A good personality and sense of humor can make any guy hot to me. But being ugly inside AND out is just unfortunate lol.

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