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    What is the polite way to decline alcohol from an escort customer? I don't drink at all due to a mild heart health issue, but occasionally customers will bring a bottle of wine and want to drink with me. What should I do or say the next time it happens?

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    Default Re: Declining alcohol from escort customer

    Politely turn it down & tell them you don't drink alcohol.

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    Default Re: Declining alcohol from escort customer

    You could say you're allergic (which isn't rare in folks of Asian descent). It also helps to cut short the why not/ just this one time etc. and keeps them from getting offended.
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    I'm going to tell them I'm allergic. If I politely decline, I feel like they always resent me.

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    Could you claim you had a glass or two at the hotel bar before he arrived? You could even agree to have a bit with him, pretend to sip on it, and distract him with your mad skillz before he notices you haven't had any. You could carry the glass with you into the kitchen/kitchenette, pretending to get some snacks, and pour some of your drink out, take it with you to the bathroom and pour some out, pour some into the plant while he's adjusting the music, etc. Or just sit there with your glass, pretend to take a sip (while keeping your lips closed), and make conversation about whatever. Move the glass around (set it down in different places) while you pretend to drink so it's harder for him to tell whether you've consumed any or not. Mention casually that you have the perfect buzz going, or whatever. "I need to...keep my focus...you know?" ::sultry smile, wink::

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    Tell him it will irritate your stomach & you will throw up. That should shut him up.

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    If you can think of any way to get around declining the drink, I'd go that route (is it safe for you to take a single sip of wine?). Drinking with customers - specifically, accepting their offer - is a serious social thing. My first four years of dancing, I always declined drinks with the "I'm allergic" excuse, or whatever, and it was never received well. Even if they seemed cool with it, their spending and tipping habits said otherwise. Accept the drink = $$$. Decline the drink, and you're declining them.

    That's just my opinion based on my experience. It seems like there are ways that you could accept the drink (accept him) and not have to actually imbibe. I think that'd be ideal.

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    Default Re: Declining alcohol from escort customer

    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    If you can think of any way to get around declining the drink, I'd go that route (is it safe for you to take a single sip of wine?). Drinking with customers - specifically, accepting their offer - is a serious social thing. My first four years of dancing, I always declined drinks with the "I'm allergic" excuse, or whatever, and it was never received well. Even if they seemed cool with it, their spending and tipping habits said otherwise. Accept the drink = $$$. Decline the drink, and you're declining them.

    That's just my opinion based on my experience. It seems like there are ways that you could accept the drink (accept him) and not have to actually imbibe. I think that'd be ideal.
    A couple nights ago the bar manager & a dancer had a talk about how some bar workers will openly discuss "fake drinks" too loud at the bar. Like, derp! In some states it's illegal to do that so if it's done it has to be hush hush.

    A lot of girls dump out the drinks.

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    I always say I need to drive or that I've already had enough to drink. I have once seen a stripper projectile vomit because she was allergic to vodka and someone gave her a drink with vodka in it. Not sexy

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    I understand wanting to be polite as good manners make good money. But, I don't see where you owe them an explanation beyond "No thank you, darling. I don't make a habit of drinking." There could be a hundred reasons why a person abstains from alcohol. Questioning them about it or resenting them for it is more rude than turning down an unwanted offer could ever be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BombshellBelle View Post
    I understand wanting to be polite as good manners make good money. But, I don't see where you owe them an explanation beyond "No thank you, darling. I don't make a habit of drinking." There could be a hundred reasons why a person abstains from alcohol. Questioning them about it or resenting them for it is more rude than turning down an unwanted offer could ever be.
    You don't get repeat bookings that way and they take it personally anyway

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    Quote Originally Posted by red.velvet View Post
    You don't get repeat bookings that way and they take it personally anyway
    Maybe its a cultural thing. I live in the south east and its rude to push the subject of alcohol. Its rude to push most things really. No means no. Its no different than sex acts. I wouldn't want a repeat client who didn't respect me enough to accept my simple request at face value no matter how much he paid me. That's what is about... respect.

    Let him take it personally. I'm not his mother and I'm not there to coddle his feelings. This doesn't mean I'm rude or anything less than pleasant. You can get your point across and be a sweetheart about it. But if he still doesn't like it and won't see you because of it... well, I'm sorry but that's rude as fuck and we deserve better.

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