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    Dizzy How to deal with older men

    Okay so I'm a newbie I have not gotten hired yet but have an audition tomorrow at Peaches of Atlanta very nervous not sure how to dance. But on to the point so I'm cute and very nice but I have resting bitch face which makes everyone think that I'm mean but I am the nicest person like fr. And usually if an older man looks at me for a long like or is checking me out I automatically mean mug because I'm like eww I'm 20 and you're like 50 you can be my dad, but I know while stripping there will be older men there watching and staring at me so how can I prevent myself from just mean mugging him and making him feel some type of way?

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    Well, he is being that creepy older dude preying on younger females, strip clubs are the place for it. Keep the look on your face & make them pay more for being the creepy old dude, be the brat that gets all their money without fucking them. Cause they are more experienced to the game they will be trying to get over on you first.

    Keep in mind there are plenty of guys from 24 to 36 who have money that will be in the club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sexy_boyshorts View Post
    Okay so I'm a newbie I have not gotten hired yet but have an audition tomorrow at Peaches of Atlanta very nervous not sure how to dance. But on to the point so I'm cute and very nice but I have resting bitch face which makes everyone think that I'm mean but I am the nicest person like fr. And usually if an older man looks at me for a long like or is checking me out I automatically mean mug because I'm like eww I'm 20 and you're like 50 you can be my dad, but I know while stripping there will be older men there watching and staring at me so how can I prevent myself from just mean mugging him and making him feel some type of way?

    If you are grossed out by that you cannot be a stripper.
    There's this girl at my old club who was mixed and she is gorgeous...she looks like a model and easily a 10/10. However, I always made a lot more than her and so did a lot of the girls. Why? She had that personality that made people steer away. She thought she was better than everyone else (she was, looks wise) and she was grossed out by older, unattractive men (customers would complain about her to me). Her attitude was so bad that even though she was the hottest girl in the club, she didn't make anywhere near the amount other less attractive girls did.

    Get rid of that attitude and learn to enjoy old men's company - they're the ones with the money, not the young guys. Just start seeing them as wallets and that may help

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    I'm not grossed out I can dance and stuff because like you said they have money. Plus it's not an attitude just how I look at older men I'll get over it

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    If you don't like them don't force yourself to entertain them just for the money. Like mentioned above there are plenty of younger men spending money in the club - you never know whose got stacks of money from their rich parents or happened to luck up on really high paying careers. The beauty of self employment is choosing your customers and clients.
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    If you're like most of us, you'll find that you're able to segregate the world of the strip club from the outside world. They're two completely different places with completely different rules. Old men will be (presumably) paying you for the privilege of pretending you'd ever be even remotely interested in them, and that's why it's work. Think of it as work, do a good job, then mean mug the shit out of the guy leering at you on the way home.

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    After working as a stripper for 5 seconds, you'll learn to love the older men. They know what they are there for, and will pay you handsomely for your attentions. The young guys are (generally, not always) time wasters and usually broke as fuck.

    Just remember, you are there to make money, not friends. In fact, try really hard to not make any friends while dancing. It will generally just backfire into money-killing drama, anyway. If you keep that in mind while dancing, you'll do just fine.

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    ^^I have this ongoing fantasy of opening a strip club that doesn't allow any customers under 35. And I feel like 35 might be too young.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tourdefranzia View Post
    After working as a stripper for 5 seconds, you'll learn to love the older men. They know what they are there for, and will pay you handsomely for your attentions. The young guys are (generally, not always) time wasters and usually broke as fuck.
    Exactly! I prefer older men now because they usually have money, and tend to be more respectful and not as grabby.

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    Older men will be your bread and butter in the strip club. Remember that.

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    I have never met a stripper who doesn't like older men. Oh wait, yes I have...they were the ones who quit after a day and never went back! You don't have to really like them, obviously, but in a strip club we don't make decisions based on our feelings.

    We use our business and street smarts to sniff out which guys will spend the most money on us, and be a source of income for us. Dancing for them, talking to them, etc will come naturally once you start seeing them as nothing but wallets. If you cant get used to interacting with people you otherwise find disgusting, then stripping is definitely not the business for you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_Red View Post
    ^^I have this ongoing fantasy of opening a strip club that doesn't allow any customers under 35. And I feel like 35 might be too young.
    THIS^! All day long!


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    I think of them as ATMs, that helps

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