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Last edited by BambiCutie; 05-22-2016 at 02:13 PM.





To ur ?, yea it sounds like he was carrying w/her, big time. Sorry, & you deserve so much better..you're still there looking to move out? Yea, try to gtfo as soon as you can (don't rush tho, get a decent place) In the meantime, try to be around some decent people (if you feel up to it, but don't isolate too much).
Reminds me of the saying, "he who excuses himself, accuses himself". Fuck all that.
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt





Oi girl...that is so rough and totally hurts. I'm really sorry to say, but what you listed are definitely common signs that things were going on. They might not always have been physical things, but it seemed like he had an emotional connection there too. A relationship should enhance your life, it doesn't sound like he made much effort for you at all and that sucks.
The best thing you can do now is get yourself together, get as far away from him and this as you can and once you are away, begin the healing and grieving process. It will take a while and it will hurt, but eventually, it will get better. Focus on yourself, you are enough for you right now. xx









Well, I'd broken up with him over not taking me to the beach. What guy refuses to take his girl to the beach? The fact you had to go to such lengths to have a therapist get your guy to take you to the beach is incredible.
He would go with others but NOT you? He makes every lame excuse to go but not include you doesn't make sense unless he wants to hit on girls and not be seen as having a girlfriend.
This girl isn't your real issue, staying in a relationship with a guy who doesn't want to be seen in public with you is, if I am reading this correctly.
I don't know why you didn't just show up at these happy hours at the beach place & join in on the drinking. Why did you need to be invited? You are his girlfriend that is an automatic invite itself.
If you are still with him, develop a guy friend & see how comfortable he is with that... Invite that guy to the beach to hang out as friends, see how well that goes over.
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