never thought I'd get married, let alone to a dude
I loved being single and figured if I ever ended up with anyone it would be a hard core political chica, instead ended up with a warrior for the status quo with a dickgranted, it's a fine one, but still.
never been happier. together for 10 years, married so far for 2 and change. have had I think 2 fights during our time together, if you and your partner both want to make each other happy it's honestly not all that complicated to share a wicked life together. just don't stop laughing or fucking.
honestly got married legally for immigration purposes (easier for me to enter the Caribbean being married to a Caribcomm) but it was still pretty awesome. got married in our hoodies and jeans spur of the moment in a minus-20 snowstorm in TO, bunch of LGBT activists at city hall protesting Rob Ford were our witnesses. we got fried chicken grease (his) all over our marriage license and drank champagne in the snow as the sun set, twas awesome.
he's my best friend, laughs with me every day and we don't get too comfortable with each other so the sexual chemistry is still killer.
it's the person, not the institution. don't marry for the sake of doing so but if ya find someone you can't live without don't let em go. you don't need a marriage license to do that though.
either way, just never fall into bullshit marriage husband/wife roles, that's the death of happiness.


granted, it's a fine one, but still.
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