i feel like i'm ready to dance... what steps do i take to get started I've never danced before and i'm very nervous
i feel like i'm ready to dance... what steps do i take to get started I've never danced before and i'm very nervous





The only way to get over newbie nervousness is to just walk into the club and get up on that stage. Everyone is nervous their first time, it's normal. But don't let fear stop you. You gotta conquer that shit. OWN that stage. Dancing will help alleviate those jitters, because exercise releases stress and cortisol, the stress hormone. Just get it over with, and walk into that building. Once your first night is over, it will get easier, I promise. I used to have social anxiety disorder, so believe me, I get it.
Call some local clubs in your area and ask when you can audition. Make sure you have a good pair of Pleasers and a stripper outfit. There are lots of threads on here on how to get prepared for your first night. Don't wear any jewelry, as it will get in the way and may get damaged. Just keep it simple your first night, and go easy. Try to talk to customers on the floor when you are not on stage. Read hustle hut. Good luck! You can do this!
"Dancing tables, making deals with devils like a drunk beauty queen"
Well first, I would say is start investing in your self if you already have not. Outfits, shoes, hair, make up. Work on getting your looks ready. Then start working on your self mentally. Are you able to actually do this? Are you comfortable enough showing yourself? Is your body ready for this? I know, when I started I did not realize how out of shape I was. Keep that in mind that even if it doesn't seem like your doing very much at work, it can take a toll on your body.
What exactly are you nervous about?
No matter what remember that dancing is a JOB.
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Usually there are two reasons for nervousness: the feeling of being assessed nd not being good enough, and the nudity factor.
What I did against the first one is empowering myself and enjoying it; go there with a cocky attitude, something like "I'm gorgeous ad I'll give you, bunch of losers, to stare at me". It usually works; don't care to much on how well you dance, some basic moves are enough; regarding the attire, wear something that makes you feel sexy.
The nudity factor is funny; that is a pretty universal avoidance to being nude, even it is a sitcom cliche (the nightmare of being sen naked at school), turns out that it is easier than it seems, just jump into it (like jumping into a pool when learning to swim); actually, I would recommend you to enjoy and remember the thrill of the first time; tha awkwardness of it does not last long and eventually it will become a routine. Of course I don't know the code in the clubs you are planning to work, but if I knew how much I would enjoy working at full nude clubs I would have not spent years at topless places.
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