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    Default GFE vs PSE

    What are the main differences between GFE and PSE? Different websites are listing different information. Some websites say that the difference is only a marketing tactic.

    I list myself as doing GFE because I prefer a longer date (2 hour minimum), but I wonder if I'm missing out on money by not listing myself PSE as well? I have three personas so I can change one to be PSE if it means more money.

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    Default Re: GFE vs PSE

    PSE you are a personal porn star.. deep throat, gagging, COF, BBBJ and CIMWS, lots of hard and fast sex and clients usually expect mutual rimming and Greek.

    GFE you're a girlfriend for an hour. You talk and get to know one another, a lot of kissing. It's more sensual.

    You can command a lot more money doing PSE appointments but I would imagine that if you're strictly GFE at the moment a 2 hour minimum PSE would be grueling.

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    Default Re: GFE vs PSE

    You know the more I read on here the more I want to try escorting. Also is there a place where all of these acronyms are in a list so I can read through them in one go?

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    Default Re: GFE vs PSE

    I believe GFE doesn't necessarily include greek on the menu but for PSE greek should be an option. And also, PSE might have picture, sex film options. I could be wrong.
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    Default Re: GFE vs PSE

    Quote Originally Posted by Rispy_Girl View Post
    You know the more I read on here the more I want to try escorting. Also is there a place where all of these acronyms are in a list so I can read through them in one go?
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    0.5$ -- $50
    $ -- $100
    $$ -- $200
    $$$ -- $300 etc, etc.

    420 Friendly -- a provider that will smoke marijuana with you (see the Urban Dictionary - http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=420)

    A-Level -- Common in Britain, anal sex.
    Agency -- An organization or individual that manages many providers.
    Amazon -- A large woman.
    AMP -- Asian Massage Parlor.
    Anal -- Anal intercourse - penetration of anus with penis
    Around the world -- Anilingus and Fellatio.
    Asian -- Anilingus.
    Asian Cowgirl -- Woman rides on top during intercourse, squatting over the man on her feet, not on her knees.
    ASP -- Adult Service Provider.
    ATF -- All Time Favorite.
    ATM -- Ass to Mouth.
    Aunt Flo -- Menstruation, period, red tide.

    B&D -- Bondage and Discipline.
    B&S -- Bait & switch.
    Bait & switch -- 1) Ads, pictures that describe someone else, 2) Promised one thing or person, given another.
    Bareback -- Without a condom.
    BBBJ -- Bareback Blow Job.
    BBBJTC -- Bareback Blow Job To Completion.
    BBBJNSNQTC -- Bareback Blow Job No Spit No Quit To Completion
    BBFS -- Bareback Full Service.
    BBW -- Big Beautiful Woman.
    BCD -- Behind Closed Doors.
    BDSM -- Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism.
    BFE -- Boyfriend Experience.
    BJ -- Blowjob; fellatio; oral sex.
    Blackhole -- Anus.
    BLS -- Ball licking and sucking.
    Blue Pill -- Viagra.
    Blue Steel -- Viagra.
    Brown Eye -- Anus.
    Brown Shower -- Defecation on your partner.
    BS -- 1) Body slide, 2) Bullshit.
    BTW - boardspeak for "by the way"

    Canine -- Doggy style.
    Cash and Dash -- A rip-off where they take the money and run.
    CBJ -- Covered Blow Job.
    CBT -- Cock and Ball torture.
    CD -- Cross-dresser.
    CFS -- Covered Full Service.
    CG -- Cowgirl.
    CIM -- Cum in mouth.
    CL -- Craig's List. The newspaper want ads of the internet, and a free place for providers to advertise.
    Clockwatcher -- A term for a provider who counts the minutes until the session is over. Usually used to describe a provider who rushes and does not enjoy her work.
    CMT -- Certified Massage Therapist.
    COB -- Cum On Body
    COF -- Cum on face (see facial) Be careful performing or receiving this as it can lead to the painful CIE (Cum in Eyes) and the sticky CIH (Cum in Hair)
    Commercial Company -- Prostitution, normally a trucker’s term.
    Completion -- Orgasm.
    Cover -- A condom.
    Covered -- Use of condoms or dental dams.
    Cowgirl -- Woman rides on top.
    Crushing-- fetish relating to dominance and control; a desire to see small, defenseless animals crushed under women's high heels.
    Cups (cups of coffee) -- Orgasms.

    DATO -- Dining At The O, rim job.
    DATY-- Dining at the Y, Cunnilingus.
    DDE -- Doesn't do extras.
    DDG -- Drop Dead Gorgeous.
    Deep throat-- BJ where the penis is "swallowed".
    DFK -- Deep French Kissing.
    Doggy -- Woman on hands and knees with man entering her from behind.
    Doubles -- threesome with two providers.
    DP -- Double Penetration.
    DT -- Deep throat.

    ED -- Erectile Disfunction.
    Ellie -- LE.
    English -- Segment of bondage and discipline; including spankings/whippings.
    EOM -- End of Message.
    EOP Equal Opportunity Provider - a provider who does not discriminate on age, race, color or background of clients.

    Facial -- Man ejaculates on woman's face.
    FBSM -- Full Body Sensual Massage.
    Felching -- 1) Sucking semen out of vagina or anus; 2) Inserting animals into anus or vagina.
    FIV -- Finger In Vagina. Digital Stimulations.
    FJ -- Foot Job.
    Flake, Flaky -- Errant behavior, often used for providers who no-show.
    FOTC -- Fuck Of The Century.
    French -- Oral sex.
    FS -- Full Service; intercourse.

    GFE -- Girl Friend Experience.
    Golden Shower -- Urinating on your partner.
    Greek -- Anal sex.
    GS -- Golden Shower (either you urinate on her, or she urinates on you).

    Half and half -- BJ followed by FS.
    HE -- Happy Ending.
    HJ -- Hand Job.
    HM -- High mileage.
    HME -- Honeymoon Experience (sex like you'll never have again).
    Hostess Club -- A lower end strip club where bargaining for sex acts with the dancers is acceptable, and some activities may occur on premises.
    HR -- Hand Release.

    Incall -- You go to her place.
    Interpreter -- Condom.
    ISO -- In Search Of.
    Italian -- Penis between butt cheeks.

    Jack Shack -- Establishment (massage parlor, lingerie modelling) that is not FS
    John -- A man who patronizes prostitutes.

    K9 -- Canine, or doggy style.
    Kama Sutra -- Indian sex manual by Vatsayayana.

    Lazy Dog -- Doggie style with woman flat on stomach.
    LE -- Law Enforcement.
    LEO -- Law Enforcement Officer.
    LFK -- Light french kissing. (no heavy tongue).
    Little blue pill -- Viagra
    LMP -- Licensed Massage Practitioner.
    LMT -- Licensed Massage Therapist.
    LOL -- Laughing Out Loud.
    Lot Lizard -- A prostitute that works primarily in truck stop parking lots (usually soliciting from a CB radio).
    LTR -- Long Term Relationship. A provider who drops out of the business for a VERY SUBSTANTIAL stipend, paid weekly, or monthly for exclusivity.

    Madame -- Proprietress of an agency or bordello.
    Maid -- In a British parlour, the person who answers the phone and books the schedule.
    Mediterranean -- Anal sex.
    Merkin -- Pubic hair wig.
    MG -- Massage Girl.
    MILF -- Mom I'd Like to Fuck.
    Mish -- Missionary position.
    Missionary -- Man on top during intercourse.
    MMF, MFM, MFF -- Threesome designations. e.g. MMF = male, male, female, MFF = Male, female, female.
    MP -- 1) Massage Parlor, 2) Multiple Positions.
    MPA -- Massage Parlor Attendant.
    MPCFS -- Multiple Positions Covered Full Service.
    MPOS -- Multiple Positions Oral Sex.
    MSOG -- Multiple Shots On Goal: she allows you to have more than one orgasm during the session
    Multiple Pops -- More than one orgasm during the session.

    NCNS -- Escort or Client doesn't show up for the appointment, and doesn't call, either before or after.
    Newbie -- A novice hobbyist or novice provider.
    No-Show -- Escort or Client never shows up for an appointment.
    NQBC -- No Quitter But Covered, a CBJ to completion.
    NQBS -- No Quitter But Spitter, a BBBJTC followed by spitting out your ejaculate.
    NQNS -- No Quitter No Spitter, a BBBJTC followed by swallowing your ejaculate.
    NSA -- No Strings Attached.

    Out, Outed -- Private, personal info is made public.
    Outcall -- She comes to your place.
    OWO -- Oral With Out (a condom); bbbj.
    OWO to Completion -- OWO resulting in CIM.

    Pearl Necklace -- Man ejaculates on woman's neck and/or chest.
    Pegging -- anal penetration of a male by either but plug or strap-on.
    PIITB -- Put it in the bum/butt.
    Pimp -- A man who solicits clients for a prostitute.
    Punter -- a British term for a Hobbyist
    PSE -- Porn Star Experience.
    Puffies -- Breasts where the entire areola appears 'puffy', enlarged, or swollen.
    PV -- Private viewing: Dancing, modeling, perhaps a HJ; not usually FS.

    Raincoat -- A condom.
    RCG -- See Reverse Cowgirl.
    Reverse Cowgirl -- Woman rides on top, facing away.
    Rimming, Rimjob -- Anilingus
    ROB -- Rip Off Bitch - a sub-standard provider, or more likely, a cash and dash specialist.
    ROFLMAO -- Rolling On Floor Laughing My Ass Off
    RS2K -- Room Service 2000 - a Chicago-based referral service popular in the midwest, but also has national exposure. Google for more info.
    RTFF -- Read The Fucking Forum.
    Russian -- Penis between her breasts.

    San Juan Capistrano -- BBBJTC and she swallows.
    Salad Tossing -- Anilingus, tongue in the anus.
    Scat -- Defecation on your partner or feces play.
    Screening -- A provider or agency does a pre-session background check on a new client.
    Shemale -– A transsexual, particularly one who is living as a woman, but hasn't had SRS. The penis may or may not get erect or be able to ejaculate.
    Shill -- A hobbyist who writes or posts positive reviews in exchange for discounts or special favors from an agency or provider.
    Shots on goal -- Allows more than one orgasm per session.
    Sixty-nine or 69 -- Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously.
    Snowball -- Provider takes ejaculate in her mouth and returns it via kissing to the ejaculator.
    SO -- Significant Other.
    SOG -- Shots On Goal, attempts at orgasm.
    SOMF -- Sat On My Face.
    SP -- Service Provider, prostitute.
    Spanish (Australian) -- Penis between her breasts (also known as Russian).
    Spanish (USA) -- Penis, finger or toy comes out of her ass, and goes directly into her mouth.
    Spinner -- A very thin and/or petite provider (from the 1970's toy, "Sit 'n' Spin")
    Squirting, Squirter -- Female ejaculation, a provider who ejaculates
    SRS -- Sexual Reassignment Surgery.
    STD -- Sexually Transmitted Disease.
    STFU -- Shut The Fuck Up!!! If you encounter LE, you have the right to remain silent, and the cops have the right to lie!!! Get a lawyer, and don't answer any question without his/her advice. Unless you have been offered immunity, in writing, signed by the DA, and approved by your lawyer, your cooperation can only hurt yourself and others, no matter what the police tell you.
    Sting -- A female police officer poses as a prostitute to apprehend unsuspecting johns, or a male police officer poses as a john to apprehend unsuspecting prostitutes.
    Street action -- Prostitution that is solicited on public streets.
    Stroll -- A street, strip, or neighborhood that sees heavy street action.
    Summer teeth -- Her teeth, some are there, some are not.
    Sunshine, sunny -- Without a condom (i.e. no raincoat)
    SW -- 1) Street walker, 2) Sex Worker
    Sybian -- A mechanical sex device that is in the shape of half-barrel with a dildo attachment mounted in the middle.

    Teabag, Teabagging -- Man squats and dips his testicles into partners mouth.
    TER -- The Erotic Review, the best escort review board in the USA.
    TG -- Transgender, a catch-all term for TV, TS, Shemales, and CDs.
    Tipping required -- Hidden charges, provider demands more than the advertised price in order to perform, or bargains hard for various services.
    TOFTT -- Take One For The Team. A hobbyist sees a provider who has no (or scattered) reviews. He was ripped off, or his experience was very poor. Ostensibly, he has helped save other members of the community (the team) from making the same mistake.
    Toss the salad -- Anilingus, tongue in the anus.
    Translation, translator, translated -- Using a condom.
    Trolling -– 1) The act of driving around looking for a prostitute, 2) Posting to a discussion board with the intent to anger or incite others
    TS -- Transsexual.
    TUMA -- Tongue Up My Ass.
    TV -- Transvestite.
    Two Call System -- The general location is revealed during the first call; location specifics are revealed on the second call.

    Uncovered -- Without a condom.
    Untranslated (ie, untranslated French, or UTF) -- Without a condom.
    Upselling -- Payment of additional charges are required for some services.
    UTF -- Un-Translated French; a BBBJ.
    UTR -- Under The Radar; a provider who maintains a very low profile.

    VD -- Venereal Disease.

    WAH -- Wild Ass Humping.
    Water Sports -- Urination play.
    WG -- a British term - Working Girl, a euphonism for a provider.
    WTF -- boardspeak for "what the fuck"

    XOXOXO -- Hugs and kisses; x = kiss, o = hug, xoxoxo = hugs and kisses

    YMMV-- Your Mileage May Vary, a catch-all phrase to remind that tastes differ, and experiences may vary from person to person
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    WAH -- Wild Ass Humping.

    What is this?

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    Wow that was really complete. You used TER in the beginning of that post, so I used your post to figure out what that meant lol. Thanks so much for reposting this! I thought I was pretty in the loop, but I only knew about half of these O.o it's a whole different language.

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    Default Re: GFE vs PSE

    PSE expectations are generally about offering at least BBBJ, anal, CIM/facials, lots of dirty talking, and possibly super slutty outfits. You also won't generally get multi-hour appointments with PSE clients, though you could make up for that by charging slightly more for the experience.

    I personally do way better with GFE/GFE clients, and have felt icky just from some of the emails I've received asking for PSE and what they expected out of it. There's absolutely nothing wrong with women who are fine with being a personal porn star instead of a "girlfriend for a few hours," but some people (myself) just feel too gross about guys wanting to toss me around like that. I like my "boring" GFE clients lol
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    Default Re: GFE vs PSE

    In my experience, GFE can involve lots of crossover into PSE. Depends on the guy. Some guys love the idea of introducing an innocent, inexperienced GFE into the wild side of PSE. I just play along within reason. It's about trying to get repeat business. It's all part of the fantasy.

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    ^^^

    Okay, yeah. Thanks for that. I was wondering if the two were mutually exclusive. I borderline the two... I'll be your fucking sweetheart while I'm peeling you off my ceiling. lol.

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    Default Re: GFE vs PSE

    Quote Originally Posted by Elektra Luxx View Post
    In my experience, GFE can involve lots of crossover into PSE. Depends on the guy. Some guys love the idea of introducing an innocent, inexperienced GFE into the wild side of PSE. I just play along within reason. It's about trying to get repeat business. It's all part of the fantasy.
    This is exactly my experience with the topic, and why I'm asking.

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    Default Re: GFE vs PSE

    Quote Originally Posted by Elektra Luxx View Post
    In my experience, GFE can involve lots of crossover into PSE. Depends on the guy. Some guys love the idea of introducing an innocent, inexperienced GFE into the wild side of PSE. I just play along within reason. It's about trying to get repeat business. It's all part of the fantasy.
    PSE just has a lot more options. I could/would only do GFE.
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    Default Re: GFE vs PSE

    I offer GFE. I do pretty well since I went that route. I've also offered PSE but am more picky about who I'll go that route with. Never usually a new client. Has to be somebody you feel you can trust more.

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    Default Re: GFE vs PSE

    Clients will try to coerce you with the threat of bad reviews to do more than GFE without paying extra but you should know what's what. GFE is generally kissing dfk, bbbj, allowing finger conversation and cuddling. If you want to offer Greek for additional money that's up to you. But in my opinion PSE is a bit ore difficult. You should be charging more for PSE to begin with but it includes bbbjtc, cim, kissing, dirty talk, and Greek. the biggest problem to me about advertising as PSE is clients will expect Greek during the first meeting and a lot of them think they can drill you as hard as the guys do in porn movies. I know quite a few girls that have ended up in the hospital or had scarring. That's the reality of it.

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    BBBJNSNQTC -- Bareback Blow Job No Spit No Quit To Completion <-- This just made me exhausted reading it.

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