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    Default why not just get a surrogate mother?

    youre going to spend money on a mommy makeover anyways.

    tummy tuck: 5k
    breast implants: 3k
    breast lift: 4k
    bbl:14k
    9 months spend off of work: 10s of k



    besides the money theres also other downsides

    you save the pain of child birth. and if you do get epidural, thats a lifetime of backpain.

    stretch marks.
    no matter how much weigh you lose your body is still wider and different
    darker areolas

    not all surogates cost 100k. thats for celebrities you can get one for 25k..
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    Default Re: why not just get a surrogate mother?

    If you're not wanting to carry a child then why create a new child? Why not adopt a child in need of a home?


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    Default Re: why not just get a surrogate mother?

    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    If you're not wanting to carry a child then why create a new child? Why not adopt a child in need of a home?
    because she wants her own child. i have a condition which may cause me a lose of my kidney if i will be pregnant. so sometimes you want your child but you cant.
    Problem with adopted child/surrogate mother that health issue. If you adopt a child,well, you dont know his/her heritage,history of disease/what mother ate, if she was addicted to drugs, and very important moment for me what she ate during pregnancy. was she malnourished? was she vaccinated?also if surrogate will give birth vaginally child will inherit her vaginal flora, which is very important for a future life. that why i said to me is very important that woman is healthy not by doctor's standards but mine.

    damn celebrities pay only 100k. do they pay food and housing?

    if you eat well, you may not even have all those problems what you listed. my friend gave birth a couple of days ago. she gave birth naturally without an epidural or anything. but she is 27. she looked very good while she was pregnant and after birth.
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    Default Re: why not just get a surrogate mother?

    I would if I was really concerned about my physical health or I couldn't for medical reasons but I'd be pissed if the surrogate changed her mind and wanted to keep the baby.

    I would expect if I have a baby with a man he will adore my body regardless of stretch marks and saggy tits if not he'd be kicked to the curb. So I personally would not have a surrogate just to keep my body for my partner but I would do a surrogate only out of necessity.

    Also I know some moms what to know what it feels like to go through the changes that occur with pregnancy- not all of the pregnancy changes are bad. Some good changes are longer fuller hair, shapelier body, hormones that increase mood and libido, breastfeeding, respect, etc
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    Default Re: why not just get a surrogate mother?

    Is the 25 K figure for the Indian surrogates? There's a community in India where the industry for women is being surrogates for overseas women.

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    Well not all women need or want THAT much plastic surgery after giving birth. I have a little belly pooch (no loose skin though) that won't really go away unless I get super thin but that's the extent of the damage my kid did to me. I think there a ton of fear mongering in this culture about pregnancy as well as one-upping from mommies "oh u got stretch marks? My kid completely obliterated my lower half and now I piss in a bag!" also no way would I take the entire nine months off. In the end having your own child is mountains cheaper plus a lot of women want their own child and want that bonding experience. I'm with the above poster tho, if you don't want to give birth why not give an orphan or foster kid a great home?? A lot of them out there in need of good families.

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    I used to think I never wanted to have children, but now I'm having second thoughts. Even so, I would absolutely consider getting a surrogate mother. There is an option for a couple to have their own biological child by mixing together the man's sperm and the woman's egg and implanting it into the surrogate mother for her to carry. The surrogate mother would have no biological connection to the child whatsoever.

    I would do that if I can manage to save up the money. I have a low pain tolerance and I don't think I could handle the physical pain of giving birth. The though of being pregnant for 9 months does not appeal to me either. I'd be lying if I said that being able to keep my figure by hiring a surrogate is not a huge benefit for me. As shallow as it sounds, I love my body too much. If I decide I want to have a child, surrogacy would absolutely be worth it for me. My partner and I could have our own biological child and experience the joys of parenthood without the unfortunate downsides of pregnancy.

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    That would creep me out. You don't know what surrogate mom is eating or if she has any issues. It's a HUGE gamble and something could go medically wrong very easily. She could get exposed to bad pathogens and not even know it, which affects the baby... Zika virus? What if she and the baby don't have the same RH factor blood types and she doesn't get the shot? Things like that. It's really easy to fuck up. Scary. I'd rather my child's life be in my own hands rather than some woman who signs a piece of paper saying she'll do everything right.

    I don't have kids but I'm assuming if you take care of yourself and have access to plastic surgery, the sky is the limit lol

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    I would want to breastfeed and have my baby inside of me. Plus, I wouldn't mind more plastic surgery if I needed it lol.

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    Well some women do snap back to the way they were. Most of my coworkers are moms with NO mommy makeovers (breast lifts, lipo, and tummy tucks)and they look fantastic.

    All I know is that if I ever get pregnant and need a makeover after, my ass is flying straight to Colombia. Lol. For me tho. I'm vain like that. I'll admit.
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    i have 3 kids, and i would never, ever have a surrogate for pregnancy. i loved each and every moment of the 3, and it made me feel a superstar. The changes are natural and u just need to deal with it, but the baby growing inside u and starting to move and seeing him isnide u when u do a usg...man, there is no money that pays that. i would get pregnant other 10 times if i could.
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    In germany, there was this couple that wanted a baby. The Husband was Sterile, though (i don't know why). So they looked and looked and found some guy in a bar both of them liked. So they goes up to him and party and (well probably mainly drink, knowing the Germans). Befriend him. Well one night, while they are all partying down at one or the other's pad; they spring the question: Will you have sex with my wife until she is pregnant, and then go away forever.

    They guy, as you can imagine, agrees.

    Well, about a year goes by, she's not pregnant yet. The Husband is not too happy about this, as one could imagine, so he goes to confront the guy (I guess he figured maybe the dude was wearing condoms).

    Turns out the dude was sterile, too.



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    Quote Originally Posted by SylvySinclair View Post
    i have 3 kids, and i would never, ever have a surrogate for pregnancy. i loved each and every moment of the 3, and it made me feel a superstar. The changes are natural and u just need to deal with it, but the baby growing inside u and starting to move and seeing him isnide u when u do a usg...man, there is no money that pays that. i would get pregnant other 10 times if i could.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EastCoastDancer01 View Post
    I used to think I never wanted to have children, but now I'm having second thoughts. Even so, I would absolutely consider getting a surrogate mother. There is an option for a couple to have their own biological child by mixing together the man's sperm and the woman's egg and implanting it into the surrogate mother for her to carry. The surrogate mother would have no biological connection to the child whatsoever.

    I would do that if I can manage to save up the money. I have a low pain tolerance and I don't think I could handle the physical pain of giving birth. The though of being pregnant for 9 months does not appeal to me either. I'd be lying if I said that being able to keep my figure by hiring a surrogate is not a huge benefit for me. As shallow as it sounds, I love my body too much. If I decide I want to have a child, surrogacy would absolutely be worth it for me. My partner and I could have our own biological child and experience the joys of parenthood without the unfortunate downsides of pregnancy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by We had a rabbit like you View Post
    Well not all women need or want THAT much plastic surgery after giving birth. I have a little belly pooch (no loose skin though) that won't really go away unless I get super thin but that's the extent of the damage my kid did to me. I think there a ton of fear mongering in this culture about pregnancy as well as one-upping from mommies "oh u got stretch marks? My kid completely obliterated my lower half and now I piss in a bag!" also no way would I take the entire nine months off. In the end having your own child is mountains cheaper plus a lot of women want their own child and want that bonding experience. I'm with the above poster tho, if you don't want to give birth why not give an orphan or foster kid a great home?? A lot of them out there in need of good families.
    LOL yeah childbearing is the dick measuring of the female world.

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