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    Duh On seeing a person from your life outside the club

    So I am really new to this but I think I'm doing really well so far. I have a day job and only on my 5th day of dancing I saw someone from my other job. It was one of my customers and he was really cool about everything. But now I can't stop thinking that I am going to run into someone I don't want to run into and it freaks me out. The place is about 30 minutes away from my work and home. I love everything else, I'm extremely comfortable with everything lap dances, the stage, the outfits. I just can't shake that fear of seeing someone I shouldn't see. It also sucks because I already like the place I dance at and I don't want to go to a new one just yet. I go up and take a look at whose sitting around now right before i have to go up but the anxiety about seeing the wrong person freaks me out. I am not sure what to do.

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    Default Re: On seeing a person from your life outside the club

    You're certainly not the first dancer to worry about seeing people she knows in the club! If you browse through the forum, you'll see plenty of gals who've gone through the same thing.

    Short of not dancing, you essentially have three options: (1) if the damage caused by getting "caught" would minimal on your life, you can accept that you my run into people you know and own it; (2) if the damage would be big but not life-ruining, you can make yourself look as different as possible in the club and avoid shifts where you are more likely to run in to people you may know (if you work in an office, perhaps avoid the day shift; if you are a student, perhaps avoid weekend nights); or (3) if the damage would be significant, work as far away as possible, perhaps even only on strip trips out of the city/state.

    Good luck with whatever you decide!

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    Default Re: On seeing a person from your life outside the club

    Thank you some really good tips there. I think im just gonna try to get the latest shifts i can

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    Default Re: On seeing a person from your life outside the club

    Honestly, if you run into someone you know at the club... consider that they too are at the club. Depending on the situation they may not want someone (wife, gf, etc) to know they were there either. I wouldn't stress too much about it, it's almost like an inside secret no one has to talk about unless something happens. Keep it casual and move about your business. Guys (more than women) are much more open to girls dancing to make money and give 0 fucks about it. IF you ran into a lady friend from work that might be a different story or you could make a cool new friend out the deal. I think it's all about how you perceive it and react / handle it. No need to go off the deep end. good luck!

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