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    Default What do you think about when giving a lapdance?

    I'm curious what other girls do during lapdances mentally, I feel like my brain has gone to mush since I spend all my freetime in the club.

    What I do:

    If I don't know the customer personally and I'm not focused on my movement and eye contact I just zone out and think about nothing except the song count...
    What do you you guys think about while dancing?

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    Default Re: What do you think about when giving a lapdance?

    When I was busy with schoolwork I was always thinking about research papers I was working on or foreign language vocuabulary. Now I've been done with school for a week, most the time I'm thinking about what i'm going to eat later or what I'm going to wear tomorrow.

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    I think about whether or not I can get them into VIP.

    Or if they're gross and grabby I think about the song taking forever and who I'm going to talk to next.

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    Default Re: What do you think about when giving a lapdance?

    I think about money and let that translate to looking like I'm enjoying it. I also think about making the customer happy with my service.
    "Rather have my feet hurting than my pockets."

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    I'm usually thinking about customer-related things. What move I'm going to do next, what I'm going to say next, how long I should keep doing whatever it is that I'm doing, and what line I want to use to upsell.

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    Money and paying attention to the customer's reaction.

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    If it's a one hit wonder guy (one or two songs), I usually find myself thinking about food lol. If we go further, I try to engage in some sort of sexual chat. Sometimes I think about how long the song is taking and other times I find myself thinking about which bills to disperse my money to. I usually always think about what I want to eat later though.

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    Paying a lot of attention to what cues I'm getting from the customer, what they're enjoying so I can do more of that so they'll get more dances. I'm also always watching them. I can't usually let my attention wander too far because I have to keep an eye on keeping their hands away from my no no zones and their mouths away from my nipples. Even the nicest seeming guys are capable of "forgetting" to behave so I dance defensively and if they seem like their hands are starting to stray I have to be ready to shift position in a way that doesn't make it obvious that I don't want their fingers too close to my cooch. I'm also usually in the moment. I'm essentially acting so my thoughts are usually focused on my performance as my sexy stripper character. Even if I'm tired I just try to put it aside so I can keep up the fantasy until I'm done with them. I can't make money if I focus on my real life too much. Even just during conversation I'm thinking about using flirtatious body language and keeping the conversation entertaining but still moving in the direction I want it to go in, making them fall in lust, keeping out of the friend zone, and always, always moving towards closing the sale.

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    Money and how can i get this guy to stick around buy more.

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    Depends on the customer. If they are gross and grabby, I think Omg will this song just hurry up and be over??? If he stinks and has bad breath, I think oh Jesus please don't let me asphyxiate...I need to take super deep breaths when I'm not facing them lol. If he's a polite angel, I try to be as sexy and attentive as I can to keep him going since he is tolerable, and other times I think oh lord my back hurts, my feet are sore, I can't wait to go home and shower, etc.

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    Depends on the customer as well! If they are bearable I try to do a good job to get them to VIP and if they are grabby I pray the song is short. But I pray the song is short regardless and that's usually all I focus on. I'm sure you can tell in my face too a lot of times

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    Lol I calculate how much money I've made so far and how much more I think I can make. I think it makes for a better dance

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    LOL thats so funny. I just got done with school this week. Please Pray for me I need all the luck I can get dealing with this one teacher I have. She likes to keep us waitting on our grades and does not like to grad till litarally the last min.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tatiana_vislovic View Post
    I'm curious what other girls do during lapdances mentally, I feel like my brain has gone to mush since I spend all my freetime in the club.

    What I do:

    If I don't know the customer personally and I'm not focused on my movement and eye contact I just zone out and think about nothing except the song count...
    What do you you guys think about while dancing?
    Lol recently I've been closing my eyes and if I'm feeling a bit sexually deprived I think of it being a hot guy I'm crushing on atm. Usually though I think of how much money I've made,how much more I need to go, and other things financially related.

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    Quote Originally Posted by littlelizard View Post
    Lol I calculate how much money I've made so far and how much more I think I can make. I think it makes for a better dance
    Yes! I think that's what most girls think of

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    Default Re: What do you think about when giving a lapdance?

    Quote Originally Posted by littlelizard View Post
    Lol I calculate how much money I've made so far and how much more I think I can make. I think it makes for a better dance
    yeah actually i think that's what i do too lol! i go like 'well, i already have the house money, if he gets another dance then i have x amount, if we go to vip that already puts me at X...' and the worst part is i already count on the money lol

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    Default Re: What do you think about when giving a lapdance?

    The food I'm going to eat when I get home, the movie I'm gonna watch, how much money I've made, how much till my goal.... anything to pass the time. Cheeseburgers usually does it for me

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    How I'm going to up-sell him another dance.

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