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    Default First club worried!

    Hey ladies so..I apologies for creating an additional thread from whats been posted however, I'm very nervous about going to a strip club for the first time alone. My plan is to just visit, look around and see if any woman want to rip my head off before taking on another part of the adult industry however, I've always been curious by closely reading both stripper/cam threads. Is it possible to do both camming/stripping and remain stable? Do the club lights harm your skin? As some may know from previous threads with driving I've found a club less than 14min straight there, my fear is that once I move it will become difficult to drive to them again. (Terrible with directions, I'd be fucked without a map or GPS and have to learn the routes prior..may seem ridiculous trust me I'm aware.) They seem to have a 4 star rating and like most strip clubs reviews there are some bad and good, generally people seem okay with it.. Should you call prior or just show up? Wouldn't you technically still work for yourself? As they claim to be hiring, which leads me to think they take out for taxes.

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    Just show up on a slow night or a dayshift if they are open for it. If you have a little cash to spend thats best. Your first step is to scope it out and see if this is where you WANT to work. Go in on a Monday or Tuesday an hour or so after they open in full makeup with a sexy but not a "dancer" dress. Sit, have a drink, watch how the girls dance. Ask one to sit and tip her the cost of a dance to sit and tell you what she thinks of the club and the audition process. You may also have luck at that time sitting more towards the bar, which is totally "stripper row" at my club. You'll always find some sweet girl that will share info, and then slip her money for her time. Ask the bouncers to talk to the manager and introduce yourself and ask when you can come in for an audition. The lights don't hurt your skin (?). Your first dance you will be super crazy nervous, even girls that are pros are nervous at a new club. They expect this. They are just looking to see if you can move to the music, if your beautiful and if you have potential.

    I'm sure you will be wonderful!! I've actually thought camming and stripping might be a great way to really retain regulars. You could after someone has spent a lot of money in the club on you and if you feel interest start to wane, slip them your cam girl URL. That could however encourage obsession so maybe be extra careful.
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    Default Re: First club worried!

    ^^ I agree, but if I were you, I'd skip talking to the dancers and just talk to a bouncer or manager instead. A dancer might pretend to be sweet, but may give you bs info just so you aren't going to come in and take a piece of the pie.

    The lights don't hurt your skin.

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    Yes, that is always a possibility. At some clubs the ladies can be super competitive!!
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    I'm very respectful and not the type to get into face to face confrontations, I wouldn't know what to do other than stay silent or walk out. Thanks for all the insight ladies!!

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    Every club I've worked at I've called ahead to ask when auditions are and just gone straight for an audition. Personally I don't see the reasoning behind scoping out the club first. You'll know if you want to work there after you've been hired/during the hiring process.

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    Default Re: First club worried!

    scoping out the club isn't necessary, but does make sense. i always prefer to check out a club i want to work at if i can. i never go alone though- always with either my boyfriend or a male friend. i like to send them off for a dance (alone) so they can let me know what the dances are like, contact wise and all that.

    TBH unless you have a guy to go with you, don't bother. just show up and ask to audition. going by yourself is kinda weird and more importantly, most places won't even let you in without a "male escort". if you really think it'll make you more comfortable to personally get a feel for the place.. i say go in and check it out. but you can get all the info you need from yelp/tuscl/stripperweb

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