Hey all,
Hope you're having a good Friday the 13th.
My question of the day is, how do you, personally, deal with members/clients/freeloaders annoying you? Not "what do you say to the customers", but what do you say to YOURSELF to keep yourself from going completely crazy?
The amount of freeloading, dick-pulling bullshit I get from guests/members/skype users recently is making me go fucking mad. I don't have trouble with the sex stuff or people's weird fetishes but the sheer disrespect for my time and work consistently shown is driving me crazy. Why do they think they're entitled to treat me like that? Like why do they think I'm some kind of showhorse that exists to do tricks for them for free? Lastly, in what other business except for sex work do people think it's okay to approach people and pretend genuine interest when they have absolutely no actual intention to buy anything?
One guy even went as far as to make THREE different skype accounts where he pretended he was going to buy something, "Oops - payment declined - I have no money now - can I pay you on Monday"... THREE times. What makes them think this is okay???
As you can tell this is getting to me, and I'd really appreciate any advice you have for keeping cool and staying focused on the money that you may have, because right now every shift I do feels like a war between me and potential clients and it's making this job way harder than it has to be.



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is topnotch when i know i will be earning more. I just wanna please them so they please me



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