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    Default Re: How to deal with members pissing you off without going crazy

    awesome words, milarky.

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    Default Re: How to deal with members pissing you off without going crazy

    I just pick someone annoying in my room and make fun of them. Yep. Brightens my day every time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinklemonade0 View Post
    Like AngelMari and Magical_Hoohah I used to try to explain to them why something wasn't ok, why what they said was really offensive, or horrible or whatever the issue was. I felt like I wanted to, and I also wanted them to understand why it was upsetting.

    However, I've had to completely change that strategy now to literally no response. I don't have time for it. Even when I explained things, very few of them 'got it' and it dragged me down. It's not up to me to have to educate them, and I imagine that most of the time they know they're being offensive anyway and they don't care.

    So now I try to float along on a cloud... when someone says something offensive I think "oh, that's nice" and I simply don't respond and silently block them. "That's a nasty person" - block. End of thoughts. At first it felt weird - like I wanted them to understand why what they said wasn't ok. But now I realise it's best for me not to even say anything and just cut it off.

    I also find listening to music (in general, not on cam) helps a lot. Sometimes it totally takes my mind away from things, especially when it's stuff I really enjoy. When you come off cam, maybe get changed, take your make-up off, move to a different area of where you live if you can and completely decompress. They're people who live in the computer... that's where they should stay.
    I agree some of the guys on CB just say the most out there things or the first thing they say to see is something asking me something that makes me think "what the fuck why would you ask me that ? THATS ur opening line? Is that how you pick up chicks at a bar?" i go and look at their age and most of the time the guys are in there late 30s early 40s and i just think to myslef "if they dont get it by now they never will" and block them . It might be a negative way to think but it makes me feel better and i never have to deal with them again .
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    I'm glad I came across this thread. I used to be the girl who bit her tongue and let things slide because I was not allowed to express anger in my youth and this carried over into adulthood.
    But it was eating me up inside. Now, when I'm offended/pissed I will go off on the person to whatever degree feels good. And I'm so much happier. I never dwell on what I dislike - letting it all out the second it happens, and saying what I need to say, actually let's me move on pretty much immediately. I'm healthier already!

    I think anyone who says women who express anger are bitchy can go fuck their sexist selves. I've been called it, I don't care. I'm betteroff this way.
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    I channel that shit. If they start getting too pushy and pissing me off, I go put on all black, smokey eye and kinky boots and start pulling bitchy domme angry black bitch face they demand I demand. Sometimes it works and I get a domme show. Other times it doesn't. Part of my personality is take no shit. I started off trying to be nice but I'd someone said to me in person what some of these guys say online, they'd get a tongue lashing and a drink to the face. Now I just tongue lash enough to keep them on edge and make Em come off them tokens.

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