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    Do any single cammers wish they had the support of a significant other or close friend?

    I'm pretty much a loner. I'm introverted but can be extroverted when wound up. I don't plan on having kids (ever), but I like the thought of being a wife or long-term partner. Even at my vanilla job it seems that even in the chaos, everyone who's attached are able to make it through the day. I'm the only single one in the office of males and females, and I slightly envy the support they get at home. I wish after a BS day I could vent to a loved one. I hope I don't feel that bad after a chaotic day of camming - it's been a while since I've cammed. I suffer from mental health disorders on top of that.

    How are you loner cammers able to push through without that close support? What are the things that motivate the hell out of you? One of my main "loner" motivators is being able to buy a one bedroom condo/loft close to the city and live swanky.

    BTW: I'm posting a bit more recently because I found my login info.

    ETA to say I don't mind becoming a spinster if the loneliness didn't get to me at times.
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    Ive been camming for going on 7 years. Before camming i was a party girl,outgoing,had lots of friends .7 years later all i do is stay home and freaking work.Its super lonely.I love camming but its turned me into a hermit.Also i moved to a new city so its harder to meet friends and men.

    Starting this summer i'm gonna make it my bussiness to go out more.My friends from back home tell me to try online dating but im not ready to meet with a whole bunch of thirsty motherfuckers.

    I love camming but its so lonelyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.Tears.I'm ready to date again,i just hate how having a boyfriend effects my money cuz all i wanna do is lay up and cuddle instead of work.I guess thats my biggest fear, i dont want to mess up my work flow with dating.but im knocking at 30 i need a life partner/husband in the next 5 to 10 years.
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    Work just becomes my life and I get so involved in whatever I do. I love my job, so it's not a bad thing. When I need support I turn to my spirituality. I'm close to my God/dess and I meditate through any of my issues.

    I'm like you, very introverted. I love my alone time and keeping lots of friends is exhausting! My support often comes from within.

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    I often think about how I would make alot more money if I was single only because I would have way more time and mental/emotional energy to throw into camming. The grass is always greener & all that.

    That being said, as a fellow introvert I know how lonely and isolating camming is get and totally I feel for ya. Have you tried online dating? I feel as though you would be way more likely to meet a like-minded introvert that you click with online as opposed to out at a bar or however people do it quote-unquote normally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigbootyjudy1 View Post
    I love camming but its so lonelyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.Tears.I'm ready to date again,i just hate how having a boyfriend effects my money cuz all i wanna do is lay up and cuddle instead of work.I guess thats my biggest fear, i dont want to mess up my work flow with dating.but im knocking at 30 i need a life partner/husband in the next 5 to 10 years.
    This is also how I feel about the boyfriend thing. I don't want to mess up any opportunities just to have a relationship. Hopefully I'll get to the point where a bf couldn't deny the the success of what I do, give me my props, and let me do me while being my bf.


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    Work just becomes my life and I get so involved in whatever I do. I love my job, so it's not a bad thing. When I need support I turn to my spirituality. I'm close to my God/dess and I meditate through any of my issues.

    I'm like you, very introverted. I love my alone time and keeping lots of friends is exhausting! My support often comes from within.
    It's a funny something how being in the adult industry coincided with my journey in spirituality and the esoteric. I need to get back to that as well.


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    I often think about how I would make alot more money if I was single only because I would have way more time and mental/emotional energy to throw into camming. The grass is always greener & all that.

    That being said, as a fellow introvert I know how lonely and isolating camming is get and totally I feel for ya. Have you tried online dating? I feel as though you would be way more likely to meet a like-minded introvert that you click with online as opposed to out at a bar or however people do it quote-unquote normally.
    I'm on and off with the online dating. I'm keeping at it because I know just like in offline dating, nothing happens over night, and EVENTUALLY I will see the profile of someone interesting to me. I really agree with the first half too. Not to down anyone in relationships, but there are benefits to being single. Maybe I should find a sugar daddy. There's some support right there
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    Most of the men I was involved knew about my on-and-off work in camming and while they were awesome and supportive, they didn't feel comfortable with me camming while dating them. So I LOVE being single and camming/doing adult work! I too turn to spirituality when I don't feel loved or like I'm enough.

    The only problem is I am am introvert and I wouldn't know where to find men or women to date when the time came.

    But I want to be a mom someday, but I wanted to work full-time in this industry first so I am financially able to provide to my child one day.



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    Quote Originally Posted by idgaf_luvr View Post
    It's a funny something how being in the adult industry coincided with my journey in spirituality and the esoteric. I need to get back to that as well.

    I felt the same way!! You'll feel so much better. Just like you have to take a shower every day, it's also good to find some connection everyday too.

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    Personally I embrace being single to the point where I'm not sure I'll be able to be in a relationship while being a camgirl. But I gotta say its made me more introverted...when I had a vanilla corporate job, parties and social events were my jam both in work and out of it, but now that my life has revolved around being at home for the last year and a half, I find that even doing one social event every two weeks is a stretch.

    I am also very self sufficient and independent and for me, keeping people around is really hard. My bff wants to move in with me but I always shut that convo down cos as much as I love her and she's like my family, I LOVE my solitude all the more.

    I realise its not the healthiest way of being though so I make sure I go to weekly dance classes and get out to the gym at least once a day with a friend or something just to make sure that I don't fade away from my life outside my home entirely.

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    The grass is definitely not greener. And if it appears to be, there's usually more shit over there. I bet you wouldn't envy the issues they have.

    I personally love being single. My cambbs who work daily along side of me on skype are my outlet and occasionally if a camgirl lives near me we'll hang out. I found that when I was in a relationship my spouse or partner wasn't very supportive at all of camming. I know there are some women with the support from their spouse but that wasn't the case for me. Perhaps adding a cammodel to skype or an instant messenger will make things a lot more better for you.




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    OP, I can relate to how you are feeling.
    After 2 marriages, one good, one bad, I love being single.
    I personally don't think camming and relationships mix, but that's probably just been my experience.
    After all of the entertaining I do on cam for thousands of men everyday, I really don't have any energy to 'give' to anyone.
    Any other profession..yes.
    I was away for my birthday, relaxed, open, and Bam!!! Met 2 guys who I'm actually interested in.
    Now that I'm back home and in work and 'doing life' mode, ugh, ....it seems like work just to plan a date.
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    I was just thinking about this last nite ..haha.. I was thinking that anytime I had sex with a guy and then went on cam .. I felt disgusting.. like I was tasting him on me everytime I played.. NOPE don't want a relationship til I don't have to cam full time anymore haha,..... it's to difficult.. fuck it!

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    I could do with some love and support/help of a good man in my life but at this point my priorities are my health & work, i simply dont have the time & energy to deal with dating plus i dont feel comfy to tell about my job, i also dont wanna lie about my job as i consider it's not fair towards someone u wanna build up a relationship with.
    I have my son's support (limited of course as i cant talk everything with him) & online friends's support including SW's ladies, in rest nothing, it's not the ideal situation but it's what i got.
    Maybe one day, i dont wanna get old all alone lol.

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    I have the support of my bff and her fiance. I spend at least one evening a week at their place shooting the shit. We're all pretty cool like that, but she cammed for a brief while and he's just totally unfazed by the whole thing. It's nice. I have one other friend (and her fiance as well) who know and are super supportive, but--again, understanding from experience--she's an erotica writer.

    My late boyfriend was a good man, but I can't imagine dating men as a camgirl ever again. Even if my partner understood that it was just a job, I'd still need to carve time out of my schedule and then deal with their friends/family wanting to know what I did. Just....so much nope. Relationships are just fucking draining to me.

    I'd definitely consider dating a woman though. I think other chicks have a much easier time understanding that it's for the money, not the sex. Even so, I've dated some batshit crazy chicks, camming aside.

    Also--and this is just me--I've gotten really used to camming being my own little secret. Sure, I've got a literal handful of friends who know, but they'd never out me. Bringing other people into the fold? Too much trust required for my tastes these days.


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    Read the book get the guy by Matthew hussey it actually has nothing to do with actually getting a s/o it's all about working on yourself, hobbies, friendships, and your career.

    you make yourself so busy you do not have time to compare your life to someone else's.

    You basically make yourself the partner you want to be attracted to you.
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    Kinda like the book All the rules? I think that's what it's called.. I have it haven't read it yet.. since I am not bothering to date right now.

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    Update: Well, that didn't take long...After writing my post above, date number one just texted to cancel our date tomorrow. Oh, f..k! Why do I even try?
    NEVER again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    Update: Well, that didn't take long...After writing my post above, date number one just texted to cancel our date tomorrow. Oh, f..k! Why do I even try?
    NEVER again.
    I had two dates this month , one idiot says my low income and having bipolar disorder is a deal breaker for him

    and the other idiot was too busy saying anything and everything he thought would impress me but hasn't set up a second date with me.

    There is a lot of frogs a lot frogs but some where in there is a prince.

    What keeps me sane from all this dating non sense. is actually diving into company events for my internet business. I am meeting a lot more people in my new career that are finding their s/o's being at company events.

    Plus luckily there is a service out there for single women so I am not worried about this whole I am alone and others around me are not . I got a empire to build.

    If I want a one nighter those are easy to find but i know if i want a long lasting relationship that will happen when i least suspect it.

    plus that is what matchmakers are for anyway. they get paid to find my "Charming" so i can make my money.
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    Quote Originally Posted by minniesoporno View Post
    I had two dates this month , one idiot says my low income and having bipolar disorder is a deal breaker for him

    and the other idiot was too busy saying anything and everything he thought would impress me but hasn't set up a second date with me.

    There is a lot of frogs a lot frogs but some where in there is a prince.

    What keeps me sane from all this dating non sense. is actually diving into company events for my internet business. I am meeting a lot more people in my new career that are finding their s/o's being at company events.

    Plus luckily there is a service out there for single women so I am not worried about this whole I am alone and others around me are not . I got a empire to build.

    If I want a one nighter those are easy to find but i know if i want a long lasting relationship that will happen when i least suspect it.

    plus that is what matchmakers are for anyway. they get paid to find my "Charming" so i can make my money.
    Okay, hijacking for a second - I have bipolar disorder, too! Not that it's awesome for us to have, but ... OMG, so nice in the 'we are not alone' way!

    ETA: I'm a single lady. Single momma. I just got out of a relationship about two weeks ago (fucked with my head mentally more than usual - I have bipolar disorder and anxiety). I'm not looking for anything right now, but not closed off to anything, either. I'm just trying to go with the flow, make as much money as I can, and provide the best life for my bébé (and myself) as I can for the time being ... set us up a future!

    I've basically lost both of my best friends over the past couple of months - but I think they have toxic-ish personality traits and I might be meant to just be 'alone' for a while. I have several online friends, and other IRL friends that are sort of at an arms-length away. I'm very introverted as well, but I'd like to start going out a little bit, if only to experience LIFE while I'm still alive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by minniesoporno View Post
    I had two dates this month , one idiot says my low income and having bipolar disorder is a deal breaker for him

    and the other idiot was too busy saying anything and everything he thought would impress me but hasn't set up a second date with me.

    There is a lot of frogs a lot frogs but some where in there is a prince.

    What keeps me sane from all this dating non sense. is actually diving into company events for my internet business. I am meeting a lot more people in my new career that are finding their s/o's being at company events.

    Plus luckily there is a service out there for single women so I am not worried about this whole I am alone and others around me are not . I got a empire to build.

    If I want a one nighter those are easy to find but i know if i want a long lasting relationship that will happen when i least suspect it.

    plus that is what matchmakers are for anyway. they get paid to find my "Charming" so i can make my money.
    He said that? That's whack!
    I don't look for guys, but these 2 were my type, so when they hit on me, and asked me out, I said yes. He doesn't really want to drive out to where I now live(I'm guessing that's the reason He cancelled). BUT< if I said I wanted him to come over for a free f.ck, I'm sure he'd be here right now. lol!
    I'm like You..too busy building my empire to be bothered.
    Actually, I was really wanting a mini vacay this weekend, before Memorial day crazy next weekend, so I'm happy that i'll get to go off by myself and have a relaxing and much needed rest.

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    I am too driven and happy to be building my businesses right now. I can't think of one man who I have met or been involved with, that would understand and accept what I do. I would rather spend my energy making money!!
    Money and security and good health brings me more happiness than most men I have been in a relationship with.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SimoneGray View Post
    Personally I embrace being single to the point where I'm not sure I'll be able to be in a relationship while being a camgirl ...
    I am also very self sufficient and independent and for me, keeping people around is really hard ...
    I realise its not the healthiest way of being though so I make sure I go to weekly dance classes and get out to the gym at least once a day with a friend or something just to make sure that I don't fade away from my life outside my home entirely.
    I've been meaning to take lessons/classes in random things like playing pool, which I know would help with my social life. I feel like the sims 3 sims where all I need is enough action to get the green bar full again, then I'll be good for a while.

    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    OP, I can relate to how you are feeling.
    After 2 marriages, one good, one bad, I love being single.
    I personally don't think camming and relationships mix, but that's probably just been my experience.
    After all of the entertaining I do on cam for thousands of men everyday, I really don't have any energy to 'give' to anyone.
    Any other profession..yes.
    I was away for my birthday, relaxed, open, and Bam!!! Met 2 guys who I'm actually interested in.
    Now that I'm back home and in work and 'doing life' mode, ugh, ....it seems like work just to plan a date.
    #StayTuned.
    I hope to be lucky enough to just run into an interesting guy and not have to make effort to search. But, if I'm going to be single, I want to love it too.

    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    OMG! I LOVE this thread! I'm very lonely, the only limited contact I have is one very casual friend (that's an early bird, so there's that, since I'm up l8r usally..
    & the sd, which, really my houseplants have more personality, charm, & intelligence than him..
    I didn't read thru this thread completely, cause I'm so excited to see it!
    Glad it made your day. I hope you find your match too!

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    I was just thinking about this last nite ..haha.. I was thinking that anytime I had sex with a guy and then went on cam .. I felt disgusting.. like I was tasting him on me everytime I played.. NOPE don't want a relationship til I don't have to cam full time anymore haha,..... it's to difficult.. fuck it!
    Oh girl, I feel you a little about waiting to be at a point in your life where you don't have to cam before getting into a relationship. Sometimes it seems like it's gonna be one or the other. Maybe I will get it good and have both. But I definitely understand your perspective too.

    Quote Originally Posted by KatM View Post
    I could do with some love and support/help of a good man in my life but at this point my priorities are my health & work, i simply dont have the time & energy to deal with dating plus i dont feel comfy to tell about my job, i also dont wanna lie about my job as i consider it's not fair towards someone u wanna build up a relationship with.
    I have my son's support (limited of course as i cant talk everything with him) & online friends's support including SW's ladies, in rest nothing, it's not the ideal situation but it's what i got.
    Maybe one day, i dont wanna get old all alone lol.
    Hey mama, glad you have a little one there to instantly put a smile on your face. You remind me that those life priorities are the reason I back to camming. I guess if you build it, they will come.

    Quote Originally Posted by Issabelle View Post
    I have the support of my bff and her fiance. I spend at least one evening a week at their place shooting the shit. We're all pretty cool like that, but she cammed for a brief while and he's just totally unfazed by the whole thing. It's nice. I have one other friend (and her fiance as well) who know and are super supportive, but--again, understanding from experience--she's an erotica writer.

    My late boyfriend was a good man, but I can't imagine dating men as a camgirl ever again. Even if my partner understood that it was just a job, I'd still need to carve time out of my schedule and then deal with their friends/family wanting to know what I did. Just....so much nope. Relationships are just fucking draining to me.

    I'd definitely consider dating a woman though. I think other chicks have a much easier time understanding that it's for the money, not the sex. Even so, I've dated some batshit crazy chicks, camming aside.

    Also--and this is just me--I've gotten really used to camming being my own little secret. Sure, I've got a literal handful of friends who know, but they'd never out me. Bringing other people into the fold? Too much trust required for my tastes these days.
    I hope to find open-minded people, and on top of that be able to vibe with them. I've probably only had 4 female friends I could relate to. I'm still cool with 2 of them, but I've moved away from them. It's good you have friends like that.

    Quote Originally Posted by minniesoporno View Post
    Read the book get the guy by Matthew hussey it actually has nothing to do with actually getting a s/o it's all about working on yourself, hobbies, friendships, and your career.

    you make yourself so busy you do not have time to compare your life to someone else's.

    You basically make yourself the partner you want to be attracted to you.
    This book is going on my list. Thanks.

    Quote Originally Posted by avalon_rose View Post
    I've basically lost both of my best friends over the past couple of months - but I think they have toxic-ish personality traits and I might be meant to just be 'alone' for a while. I have several online friends, and other IRL friends that are sort of at an arms-length away. I'm very introverted as well, but I'd like to start going out a little bit, if only to experience LIFE while I'm still alive.
    I'm sorry to see what you've been through, but at least that knocks a few problems down. Here's to building a good life.
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    He said that? That's whack!
    I don't look for guys, but these 2 were my type, so when they hit on me, and asked me out, I said yes. He doesn't really want to drive out to where I now live(I'm guessing that's the reason He cancelled). BUT< if I said I wanted him to come over for a free f.ck, I'm sure he'd be here right now. lol!
    I'm like You..too busy building my empire to be bothered.
    Actually, I was really wanting a mini vacay this weekend, before Memorial day crazy next weekend, so I'm happy that i'll get to go off by myself and have a relaxing and much needed rest.
    The way I see it is my income is temporary - my bipolar disorder is for life.

    and guy who can actually last 6 months or more if they can get the approval of my financial planner then we can have a solid relationship.

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    Ha Ha! I love it! If they have any chocolate daddys that make the trek out to the country, I'm down.

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    Ha Ha! I love it! If they have any chocolate daddys that make the trek out to the country, I'm down.
    You pay for their travel.
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    I am generally pretty good at being alone but not lonely. However I moved overseas and lost touch with everyone (not from lack of trying on my part) from "back home" and then I moved BACK, but to a different city, 2 years later. In this city I am struggling to meet people because unlike where I lived before I don't have a vanilla job. I'm also living in an area that requires a car to do lots of the hobbies I enjoy (going to sports games, horses, etc) but I am carless. I thought living downtown would mean I had access to transport and people, but most of the people live outside the shady downtown core and just drive in to shop and such. I am working hard to save up for a car so I can have access to some of my old hobbies, but I also joined a gym on a bus route and am working to get outside more, even just to have a coffee at a local shop.

    Have camgirl friends. I chat with mine on Skype all the time, and it helps to have people who understand what happened in your work day. Sometimes you just need to be able to talk to someone about that time you bled through your sea sponge on cam!

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