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    Are any of you guys friends with older customers (40's-50's)? Would you find it strange if you met a customer who was a lot older than you but somehow only related to younger girls? Does this come off as strange?

    Are any of you guys friends with customers in general?

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    It is not at all strange for older men with money to only relate to younger women. And yes, I have several good friends who are much older customers (they are in their 50's and 60's but look younger).

    A lot of times these men become bored with women their own age once they get older. They have the money to afford young hot women who give them the fun and excitement that they crave (which older women often can't give them).

    I have become friends with a select few of my customers who I genuinely like & they pay me for my time. One of them is my f*ck buddy lol so he doesn't pay me. But he buys me stuff when we go out (which I expect of all men).

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    Quote Originally Posted by EastCoastDancer01 View Post
    It is not at all strange for older men with money to only relate to younger women. And yes, I have several good friends who are much older customers (they are in their 50's and 60's but look younger).

    A lot of times these men become bored with women their own age once they get older. They have the money to afford young hot women who give them the fun and excitement that they crave (which older women often can't give them).

    I have become friends with a select few of my customers who I genuinely like & they pay me for my time. One of them is my f*ck buddy lol so he doesn't pay me. But he buys me stuff when we go out (which I expect of all men).

    Would you ever befriend them without them paying for your time?

    I've befriended one guy but it's starting to hit me, he doesn't pay at all and I've been charging others for my time. He even has the audacity to say that he doesn't understand why people would pay for my time...I guess that's a sign I've given him too much attention for free.

    Bye Felicia lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by cassie22 View Post
    Are any of you guys friends with older customers (40's-50's)? Would you find it strange if you met a customer who was a lot older than you but somehow only related to younger girls? Does this come off as strange?

    Are any of you guys friends with customers in general?
    Yeah there's guys I'm friends with but they still have to pay me. When they come in the club I change up my persona and I'm less sexy stripper and more friendly girl next door. I complain about university, talk about the new movie I saw and just try to relate to him on a more personal (though still fake) level. They know my fake real name and they feel like they get to see a side of me other guys don't.

    They usually don't want dances but if they do, we just go in the back and goof around for a bit. I'm still flirty and all that stuff (because they're still looking for that) but I don't do the overt sexy thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cassie22 View Post
    Would you ever befriend them without them paying for your time?

    I've befriended one guy but it's starting to hit me, he doesn't pay at all and I've been charging others for my time. He even has the audacity to say that he doesn't understand why people would pay for my time...I guess that's a sign I've given him too much attention for free.

    Bye Felicia lol
    The only time I would ever befriend a custie without them paying for my time is if it's a fuck buddy who I'm insanely attracted to. And I have to like him as a person and be able to have lots of fun with him. In short, someone who I could potentially see as being my boyfriend. My fuck buddy who doesn't pay me for my time is like this. But I rarely, if ever, meet customers like this.

    And yeah, you need to cut ties with the guy you mentioned. Unless you are genuinely attracted to him and could see him as being boyfriend material, I would never give him anything for free. He sounds pretty disrespectful too. Drop his ass!

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    I've had customers who I genuinely enjoyed spending time with but they invariably end up asking me out after spending a lot of money and I've never had one that I'd actually become friends with outside the club. At the end of the day they're very nice, pleasant rent money.

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    Default Re: Friends with (much older) customers?

    I have always been attracted to older guys, and in this business it works out well. I have a few much older customers that do tip and pay well in a club, but we are fuck buddies outside once in a while and there is Zero romance or love stuff, so it works for me.

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