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    Mind Blowing having a stripper talk with my boyfriend tonight!!!

    Ok so im not telling him I strip I'm telling him I want to strip. He knows that I've done it before in the past but honestly he doesn't know it's my passion I've wanted to dance ever since I was a little girl. I thought I would get over it but I haven't I thought ok maybe it's just a long phase but it's not. This is really what I want to do for a living. Recently ive just been crying and crying for the past two weeks im tired of waking up sad because I have to live by stupid standards. I've just really had it for right now dancing makes me happy and I'm extremely sad and depressed if I'm forced not to do it.im just going to tell him all that I wrote here and then some...

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    Quote Originally Posted by shanell View Post
    Ok so im not telling him I strip I'm telling him I want to strip. He knows that I've done it before in the past but honestly he doesn't know it's my passion I've wanted to dance ever since I was a little girl. I thought I would get over it but I haven't I thought ok maybe it's just a long phase but it's not. This is really what I want to do for a living. Recently ive just been crying and crying for the past two weeks im tired of waking up sad because I have to live by stupid standards. I've just really had it for right now dancing makes me happy and I'm extremely sad and depressed if I'm forced not to do it.im just going to tell him all that I wrote here and then some...
    How did he react the first time this topic came up?

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    im not a dancer, but i had almost the same issue when i told my hubby i wanted to cam again.
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    Always choose your happiness over other peoples feelings, no matter who they are.

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    I told my "boyfriend" I was thinking about stripping and got told to know my worth. He knows I've had sugars daddies but somehow he thinks that that's better
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    PS he also thinks sex for $ is dumb. I tried to tell him why it wasn't (ie marriage; women don't get married just to say they are)...needless to say we had to agree to disagree.

    Fast forward two weeks later and he was talking to cousin saying "anybody you get with has to be a HELP" that's basically what I told you 2 wks prior to ?!?!
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    If you can't be 100% honest then it's not going to last. You will get outed one way or another.
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    How long have you been together ? When and for how long did you dance?

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    My boyfriend doesn't know I dance either & I know when he finds out, he's going to break up with me or at least that's what he says (I've mentioned me dancing in the past and he told me he's going to leave me if I do become a stripper) .. But if I can keep lying to him and not get caught, I will, when he finds out (because he will) it will be what it will be. I need the money. "Love" isn't about to keep me from living the lifestyle I want to live. If we were married, I'd reconsider, but we're not and I have a lifestyle I wish to live that "love" unfortunately can't pay for.
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    I'm honestly shocked by so many women who feel the need to lie to a significant other. I've done this for a total of 4 years, and I've never encountered problems in my relationships. Ladies there are mature men out there who realize it's just a job. Don't waste your time on the jealous, insecure, control freaks. You're better than that.

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