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    When I first met this guy, he told me he's seeing a mental therapist. But he seemed like a normal & nice guy to talk to. I thought he was lying. Long story short, he came in yesterday and brought his cheap perfume mist and sprayed it all over me. The smell was so strong caused me a headache. Also upsetted me..I spent the whole hour in the dressing room crying. He's been texting me all night and leaving me voicemails. The club told him not to do it again but didn't kick him out. What should I do???

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    Did he stop texting you and leaving you voice-mails?

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    Nope. Is there anything I could do about it?

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    Block his number, or get a new number.

    You can call your phone service to request to block a number.





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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    Block his number, or get a new number.

    You can call your phone service to request to block a number.

    I thought you could block a number these days directly in your phone? Maybe I'm mistaken?

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    Default Re: A mentally insane stalker in the club

    But he would still show up at the club...

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    Just stay away from him... If he comes up to you say you're busy and walk away. If it gets out of hand ask a manager or bouncer to talk to him. And yeah block his number.

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    Did you tell the management about him spraying you? I would fib & say he threatened to come in & spray pepper spray or Mace ( which would shut the club down for a night.) Say he wants to "save" you from that horrible club & he thinks everyone there is bad for you. If you paint him as a threat to the business they will bar him for sure.

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    Default Re: A mentally insane stalker in the club

    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    Did you tell the management about him spraying you? I would fib & say he threatened to come in & spray pepper spray or Mace ( which would shut the club down for a night.) Say he wants to "save" you from that horrible club & he thinks everyone there is bad for you. If you paint him as a threat to the business they will bar him for sure.
    I agree. If you have to lie about it to get the club to do something, then do so. No one else has any idea what he's been telling you, and they would *hopefully* believe you over him, especially if he looks like a dangerous threat.

    You'll most likely have to take on the responsibility of communicating the problem to the club, as well as avoiding him/blocking his phone number/ensuring your safety. I would advise carrying pepper spray and having a male bouncer walk you to your car, if possible.

    My old club was awful about kicking out the crazies. They might be told to leave one day, but allowed back in the next day. I wish you luck... <3

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    Thanks to everyone for the reply. He's been texting & calling every day. He did stopped since my gf told him to. He barely comes in anymore. Thank god!

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    record the voicemails. if you know someone with recording equipment, you can record them (make sure the time stamp is announced as well) and save 2 COPIES (mp3 format) to flash drives. put one of the flash drives in a safe place, such as a safe deposit box. take screenshots of the texts. copy them onto the flashdrives (jpg format). this is proof of harrassment, should you need it. do not answer his calls or respond to his texts. you may need a restraining order down the line and this evidence will help.

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