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    Sooooo....youngin / mr. Funnyman looked me up on Facebook then texted me. To get to the point he asked me over to his new place. (I wasn't pressed about going but then again I was because I've had sex once this year and it was with him.) so I went over there. As soon as I got out the car it was on. I said hi and he said I missed you and we were naked. (This is not a bad thing) we 69d it for a second then he started fucking me. (Here inlays the problem) he might have gotten in 8 strokes before he literally exploded all over himself. Then he kissed me and apologized saying I was the last one he was with (2 months ago), proceeded to sit beside me still covered in cum and told me give him a few to get back up. I'm not helping you get back up/ sucking your dick while it's not only sooked in YOUR cum but literally 3 minutes later it's still leaking out of you. Gross. Maybe I'm wrong here but I started to look around the room and make conversation about things I saw. Should I have gotten up and left even though I didn't get mine? So he's like let me go clean up I'll be right back. So I stretch out on the couch and start to take matters into my own hands literally and start to finger fuck myself. He definitely noticed because he came back and started giving me head. Then he fucked me again. I still didn't quite get there but I was happy he tried...I think. I mean he literally was like I don't have any more to give and tapped out.

    I told this story to my bestie (straight male) and my female friend. My female friend looks for the positive in every situation and said him cumming fast was a compliment and I should fuck him 1 more time to see if he does better since the first time lasted a lot longer. My male friend however ....smdh.....he was clowning me. He questioned my womanhood for tolerating him cumming fast and said most women would have left after the first time. He also said he doubts I'm the last girl he was with and going without doesn't make men cum fast and if he wanted to he could have given another round.

    What do you think? Should I give him another chance?

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    You should do what you think would make you most happy. You shouldn't let someone else tell you what to do.

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    Shit happens, I'm sure you're hot. As long as he tried to
    Make you cum, I wouldn't be mad at him. I just wouldn't necessarily fuck him again. fuck buddies are supposed to be good garenteed cums or it's not even worth it, right? Anyways, up to
    You if you want to engage in sexual activity again but if you do make him eat you out FIRST.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wish View Post
    Sooooo....youngin / mr. Funnyman ...

    I told this story to my bestie (straight male) ...

    .... He also said he doubts I'm the last girl he was with and going without doesn't make men cum fast...
    Not in my experience. Longer "abstinence" = quicker.


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    ....and if he wanted to he could have given another round.

    He's a young guy? Absolutely. Should have been able to reload easily. Strange that he wouldn't want to finish a 2nd time.

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    (Here inlays the problem) he might have gotten in 8 strokes before he literally exploded all over himself. Then he kissed me and apologized saying I was the last one he was with (2 months ago), proceeded to sit beside me still covered in cum and told me give him a few to get back up. .


    What do you think? Should I give him another chance?
    Why didn't he just keep going?

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    Hes a dweeb.

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    He might just not have known what to do after the first time.

    I thought sex was like the movies where they both orgasm at the same time, one orgasm each, then go to sleep. I didn't realize men and women could have multiple orgasms till I was like ....... Well, it was a long time before I figured out the concept of multiple orgasms and the woman coming first (or same time as her partner).

    I like giving oral but For young dudes I never give them head in the beginning because if they get oral sex for more than a few minutes that's just going to make them cum faster once they do start the sex session. So forget a 69, he should eat you till you cum or you're about to cum then fuck you.

    Also guys will cum faster if they go without condoms, if they haven't had sex in a long time, if they get really good head right before sex, etc

    Could this be a one time mishap or a continuous issue? Who knows. If you do have sex with him again, he's going to have to redeem himself
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    Quote Originally Posted by wish View Post
    Sooooo....youngin / mr. Funnyman looked me up on Facebook then texted me. To get to the point he asked me over to his new place. (I wasn't pressed about going but then again I was because I've had sex once this year and it was with him.) so I went over there. As soon as I got out the car it was on. I said hi and he said I missed you and we were naked. (This is not a bad thing) we 69d it for a second then he started fucking me. (Here inlays the problem) he might have gotten in 8 strokes before he literally exploded all over himself. Then he kissed me and apologized saying I was the last one he was with (2 months ago), proceeded to sit beside me still covered in cum and told me give him a few to get back up. I'm not helping you get back up/ sucking your dick while it's not only sooked in YOUR cum but literally 3 minutes later it's still leaking out of you. Gross. Maybe I'm wrong here but I started to look around the room and make conversation about things I saw. Should I have gotten up and left even though I didn't get mine? So he's like let me go clean up I'll be right back. So I stretch out on the couch and start to take matters into my own hands literally and start to finger fuck myself. He definitely noticed because he came back and started giving me head. Then he fucked me again. I still didn't quite get there but I was happy he tried...I think. I mean he literally was like I don't have any more to give and tapped out.

    I told this story to my bestie (straight male) and my female friend. My female friend looks for the positive in every situation and said him cumming fast was a compliment and I should fuck him 1 more time to see if he does better since the first time lasted a lot longer. My male friend however ....smdh.....he was clowning me. He questioned my womanhood for tolerating him cumming fast and said most women would have left after the first time. He also said he doubts I'm the last girl he was with and going without doesn't make men cum fast and if he wanted to he could have given another round.

    What do you think? Should I give him another chance?

    He did try the 2nd time. I would've just made him give me head until I cum (in his mouth)

    He sounds young. Maybe the second time he was all self conscious that he sucked the first time and it affected his ability to perform. If he started to get crazy from the car, he had built up sexual tension (either for you or he was horny) so it makes sense he didn't last.

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    Being that he's just a fuck buddy is this something I can talk to him about? I want to help him out but I don't want to over reach.
    Not like sit him down and go over sex tips 101 but actually tell him I need to cum first and this is how you do it faster.

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    Assuming there is a next time, when he cums just push him on his back, climb on and ride until you have had all you want.

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    Pokey the Perv weighs in!


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    I saw this post on Facebook but didn't want him to get in his feelings if he saw it lol

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    The number one thing that comes to mind is effort. Is he putting in a decent effort to please you? Or is it all about him? If he's taking the selfish side of things, than he's more concerned with his own pleasure; which for a fuck-buddy relationship, isn't all bad. You'll just need to communicate with him better and he'll have to comply. If you're enjoying the sex and enjoying his company than stick with it. Sex isn't going to be great every time no matter who you're with. You're guy friend (the one that you told the story to) sounds unsympathetic and out to defend his own sexual performance.

    There are a number of reasons why a guy might cum too quickly, missing out on sex for a while definitely does it for my guy. But, I try to be understanding about it, cause it happens, and he either recharges and lasts way longer the second time around... or, if he's not into having sex again (which does happen!) he'll still finish me off with oral or will let me finish myself if I prefer to let him watch. Some of my best orgasms have happened after he's cum and he takes the time to make it all about me and my pleasure.

    Just let him know that the relationship serves to be mutually beneficial and that you have no issue with staying in it, as long as he's putting in plenty of effort to please you too. Tell him what you like and suggest better methods for things you don't like, while in the act. Learning how to get a girl off is hard work and takes a lot of time and practice; as well having to learn how to be comfortable and confident in what your doing. Telling him your expectations, will only make things better for you. Also, if you're faking orgasms, stop. You'll only be rewarding him for poor performance. Bottom line, good sex takes communication and effort, and if you have a complaint... he should be more than willing to put in more of both. If not, he's being a selfish jerk.
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    Do you like him? If you don't, lose his number. If you do, maybe get yourself a nice orgasm before he does next time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by baer45 View Post
    Do you like him? If you don't, lose his number. If you do, maybe get yourself a nice orgasm before he does next time.
    I don't know him to say I like him or not but he seems nice. I'm just in a place where I want to have sex (but not with just everybody)but not be in a relationship.

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    If you had sex with him before and it was okay no biggie. But if he has a pattern of this then he is a premie that needs some help. It's easily addressed but it may have to be addressed.

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