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    Hi ladies, this is my first time posting here...

    I work in an "urban" strip club around North Hollywood and lately, I have been feeling dread going into work. I am a "clean" dancer and manage to make at least $1000 + a week for only 2-3 days of work.

    I get propositioned for Sex and extras every time I go into work. Men try to grab and grope my ass and tits for a $30 nude dance where my club takes 40% and most do not tip and will only get one dance. (I hold their hands down and dance evasively for these floor dances.) when I explain VIP is a better option for more "contact" whatever- then if they agree- have to deal with dodging nipple sucking, licking, kissing and aggressive groping and spanking etc.

    i have found myself enduring this and not walking out because management won't have my back and either not kick the customer out or make me give their money back or a "small" amount back because they don't want to deal with them.

    im making plans to move soon but having a hard time figuring out where that would be good for a clean dancer and still make $$$. Thanks for reading my rant and any suggestions or input is appreciated.
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    Default Re: Depressed or Burn Out?

    I can possibly direct you to a better club. Try clubs in Hollywood, they're more busy with travelers mostly drunk that'll drop money no problem. Or try divier places that aren't urban. Good luck
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    Default Re: Depressed or Burn Out?

    Goth Barbie - I was thinking of Cheetahs and Crazy Girls in Hollywood actually. My clubs address is north hollywood but it's closer to Van Nuys... It has a rep for being ghetto and is over run by extra girls.

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    Default Re: Depressed or Burn Out?

    Sorry to hear. It sucks dancing for guys like that. So if you do stay there - be ruthless with these dudes.

    Upsell and do not take guys back to vip for less than x amount. Once agreed to dances, then collect the money upfront, next explain your rules (hands to your sides, no licking, etc).

    If your boundaries are violated then walk away and if security doesn't back you then leave.

    No way a man (or woman) in a strip club should ever expect a refund. Maybe the bouncer or manager felt compelled to pay them to go away but that should not come from your wallet.

    40% fees is excessive to me but maybe that's how they do in that area.

    Probably be easier to try a new club.
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    Default Re: Depressed or Burn Out?

    North Hollywood/ VanNuys, heck the entire valley is depressing to me. I know, I lived in L.A. for over 30 yrs.
    Add trying to make a living as a clean dancer there, and it's a mix for disaster.
    Smart move going to Vegas.
    Can you break your lease and get the heck out of there now? Most places won't care because there's always someone waiting to rent your apt, plus the owner knows he can get more for it from the next tenant.
    Just make up a really good reason, be sweet as pie when you explain to the landlord, and you should be fine.
    Best of luck. The BEST thing you could ever do for your future is getting out of that hellhole city.

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    ^ I agree with Glam, it's def not for everyone. Hell, even I had my share of shittiness from over the last 10 yrs of living there & even when I go to visit I'm just like eh bleh haha over it. I don't think the mony is anything of what is was when I was working there full time a few years back.
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    Default Re: Depressed or Burn Out?

    Miss.a - yes those are good suggestions... I will try those out. I am usually assertive and will be firm and have even hit guys and physically kicked out the smaller ones lol. I'm just at the point where I'm emotionally tired and don't have the energy to fight them off anymore. I will be auditioning at some new clubs tomorrow.

    Glamour - I really want to try to break the lease a few months earlier. Ugh YES I cannot wait to get out of here! I don't know how I survived here for over a year ��

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