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    so i have been dancing for about 6 months, and nightly no matter how good my night is, i see almost every other girl bring home way more money than me. obviously this is bound to happen, but numbers im hearing every dancer in my club complain about are numbers that for me would be an amazing night. i cant figure out why. even girls dancing less time than me. i work my ass off on stage, pull wayyyy less than them. i work the floor, ive modified my hustle repeatedly, nothing seems to help. and i dont understand it. granted, some of these girls do extras, but most dont.... i hear complaining about a $400 being a dead night, when $400 for me is a kick ass night... help

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    They could be exaggerating their earnings. Those happens a lot more than you might realize.

    But it mostly just sounds like your envious of what you think they are earning and you want to earn more. There's not much else you can do except keep fine tuning your hustle.

    Is your club a big stage club? Do you get lots of tips on stage? If not, you should maybe focus less on stage and more on the floor. Save your energy for what makes you money. Do you have champagne rooms at your club or are you making money off of twenty dollar dancers? I would see what's the most common way girls make money in the club and focus on perfecting that one thing. For example, I'm not very good at selling champagne rooms but I can convince almost any guy to get a dance and I can convince most of them to stay for a few. I spent a year so perfecting how to do this and at my home club I can usually assume that I'll get at least 100 from any guy who agrees to go for a dance. I'm only now earning how to upsell to the champagne rooms.

    The main thing though is to not yet the other girls get you down. I don't discuss money with anyone and I try not to pay attention as to who is making what. It's none of my business and most of the time it just affects my mood.

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    A few times in my club, I've heard girls complaining about $1500 nights. Recently I heard a couple dancers talking about clubs (one of them wanted a change) and how $500/night was not going to cut it for them, and that was way too low. I can absolutely pull $500 in a shift -- I can make close to or over 4/shift on the weekends regularly. 5 is a really good night for me, and it's definitely not rare. But Jesus, it's not every single day, and it's certainly not the lower end of what I expect to pull. And I've never had a four digit night. If I made $1500, I would be through the roof.

    It can be a little discouraging to think the earning ceiling is so high at your club, but that you seem to be maxing out at the relative low end of things and that's the best you can do. A couple factors: 1) Exageration. Dancers exaggerate all the time, especially when they slip into the clique culture of the dressing room. Maybe they actually made 350 or so, but all their "friends" are complaining about "only 400." To be thrilled by an amount lower than what is apparently already an unacceptable number would suggest they were a crappy hustler with low/no goals. So they agree, 400 is crappy, more to save face than anything. It's not actually reflective of their earnings. After so long of that, 400 becomes established as terrible, so even when times change and everyone is *hoping* to make 400, they'll still have the expectation to talk shit on that number in the dressing room. All about saving face.

    2) Regulars. If there are girls who sell blocks of time for several hundred dollars at the time, and they have regulars they can count on to come see them, that can drive up your earnings really fast. It's possible in that case to leave with $400 and not give a single dance. So maybe they are making that much money, but they've adjusted their lifestyle to meet it. Better apartment, better phone, better car, better school for their kids... Now they have all these monthly payments where they actually do need $400+/shift just to make ends meet, or they'll fall behind on their bills. Or they might otherwise not be able to afford to maintain their current lifestyle of regular spa visits, massages, nice restaurants, etc.

    If you make enough for you, that's the important thing. Just do your best, and if you're happy and appreciative of what you earn, don't let anyone take that from you. Maybe try to copy the other girls and see if that works, but odds are high they're either BSing or have other methods of boosting their club income that may be unavailable to you at this time, or both.

    Their money or lack thereof is no ones business but theirs, really, just like yours is only yours. Only they know how much they really pull a night, and what they do to earn it. Any speculation outside of that doesn't really serve anyone. Just be the best you can be and do the best you can do and don't worry about anything else.

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    Girls who complain how their 3625 dollar night sucked are lying or exaggerating. Don't buy into it. Focus on yourself and your hustle and just do you.

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