Ok, so I work with this chick that made statements about having mental issues and whatnot. She's had issues with other girls in the past too. (She got into an argument with another dancer about "stealing her song") and mind you, she's newer than the girl she accused of stealing her song. She also accused other girls of stealing her cigarettes but the girls she accused literally just got into work so they started to not really like her.
What she does to me is more of a passive aggressive type thing cause she knows I'm a nice girl and I don't really act ghetto like she does sometimes. It started when I walked over to a customer she was sitting with. I went over to thank him for the tip he gave me on my stage. He wanted me to sit with them and chat with them. So I did. There wasn't really anyone else in the club at that time anyway. She got up and was very angry about the fact I sat with them. I understand she's trying to hustle and probably don't want me to hear how she spits game. Totally get that. But she can't be mad at me for a customer requesting me to be around and you can't get mad at me for not saying NO to someone offering me money lol.
Then ever since, whenever I would talk to a customer or hang around a customer, she would intentionally talk to them in a way to try to turn them around from the stage when I'm on it so they won't pay attention or see me. I really got irritated this one day when a regular came in but I kind of consider him to be my friend cause we have hung out on a more "personal" level. She claims he's her friend too but he told me that he feels like she's childish and he was just being nice to her cause he felt pressured to talk to her. But anyways, I got up on the stage and started dancing, and Inky (childish coworker) was dressed in her regular clothes and as soon as my friend wanted to get up to come tip me, she looks me straight in my face, then gets straight up into his and asks him to help her walk her bags to her car. Obviously she did that so he won't tip me. Even he knew what was going on but I understand he's not trying to pick sides with us.
I told other girls that I am cool with and they told me I need to nip it in the bud now before she keeps doing it but Idk if I should just leave it alone or pull her to the side cause its annoying as hell.
WWYD?



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