In the past when I did vanilla cam and wanted a stunt dick for a show I was planning, I'd put a message up on my FB and get umpteen offers from my guy friends happy to step in then I'd choose one. Easy as that. And I'd cut them in 30%.
Skip forward six years after the fact and I get emails over platforms from complete strangers offering to work with me on cam (overlooking I'm completely non nude now). They say they think I'm hot, they send pics of their cock like WOW 'this is what you could be working with' etc and every time they get rejected. Why? Well, let me break it down not just for the OP but dudebros in general:
You're a complete industry newcommer with no business sense or insight
You assume what you're offering doesn't come ten a penny on a near constant basis
You haven't anything to bring to the table except a dick
You want to work with me/anyone who will have you, again; no business sense
You are reliant on the eight years experience I have on cam to generate you money, using my self promoted popularity, my advertising, my haul of regulars I've built up in that time, my fanbase in general and my reputation, when again - you bring absolutely nothing to the table except a dick.
And please boy, don't get all butthurt over people spelling this out to you. You are in a forest of your PEERS here, so you'd best be listening and taking pearls of wisdom thrown at you with humble gratitude that anyone is giving your ridiculous request any time at all in pointing out the error of your ways.
Lesson
1) Your cock isn't special. A woman could shout from her window 'Anyone want to fuck on webcam and I'll cut you in?' and guys would fall out of the fucking trees.
2) Establish yourself. You are not in any way shape or form an appealing 'business partner' *scoff* with no background in the industry, no experience, no fans and no clue. Build your fan base, get your name out there, go to conventions, work your way up from solo like everyone has before you.
3) You don't deserve anything - from anyone. It's good to remind yourself that you are not a special snowflake as an unknown performer. As said above, establish yourself, raise yourself so high in your game that everyone eventually knows your name.
4) Once you're uber on top of your game, have your own client base etc THEN contact people to see if they'd consider working with you. You're far more likely to have success that way, but keep it professional. Pay the model to turn up AND a cut of show takings - she could make far more at home without having to pack, travel, negotiate a new town to reach you then set up cameras lighting get hair and makeup done, costume, stage setting etc.
I get it, you're a new boy with big ambitions. That's no bad thing. But have respect for your peers and behave like a better person if you ever want to make so much as a single pay out on cam as a guy. Lawd knows, there's thousands of dudes permajerking under towels in the freechat to keep a semi locked and loaded over many sites waiting to make a buck.
TLDR
Wind your neck in.
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