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    Hey everyone!
    This is my first time starting a thread so hopefully everyone is nice lol. First of all, just wanted to let you guys know this website is so helpful! I really have learned so much about escorting and escorting safety and business by lurking around as I gather information.
    A few months ago I, voluntarily, stopped working my vanilla job and have really enjoyed my down time but I am not ready to start working (who likes reporting to an office everyday lol) although I now probably need to look at bringing in some sort of income. I have been looking at escorting for a little over a year now and I have now established a solid game plan for what I want to do, what my goals will be, my rates etc.

    Anyway, one thing I've been curious to look at/hear more about is some of you all's first booking/first time with a customer experiences. E.g. How did you find the customer or how did they find you? Was it in call or out call? How much did you make and what happened? I know I'm sexy and amazing and I have a great personality, but I'm still nervous! Is there anything you would tell your first time self?

    thanks a lot in advance xo

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    the first time is never easy, well, it wasnt for me. My gf pointed me to this guy. it was awful and i cried for several weeks, but had to continue as i was unemployed with 2 kids needing everything. it was an outcall and an overnight. it took me several weeks to book another one. when i was ready to do it again, had cried it all and was really in the need of the money, i started in a night club. after that i was added to an escorting forum, the biggest one in brasil and there guys started a thread about me, and from there i started to get regs. this forum was amazing because i met a lot of good ppl and they were very nice to me (well, most of them, there are always the twats), but in general it was nice. i escorted for 5 yrs and when i reached my goal, i stopped. ive made something like $250 at the time, and it was a lot of money, could pay all the bills behind. the encounter itself sucked big time as the guy was a fat dude, that couldnt fuck i dont know for what reason and kept fingering me all night. i wanted to vomit....brrrr at 6 am, i just ran away from him and came home. thats it....lol horrible. i hope with u all goes great and u enjoy, as much as it is possible to enjoy this. xx
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    Default Re: What was your first time like?

    My first time was when I met a guy that another girl had as a client so I felt comfy going in. We had dinner then went to his hotel room. We went over a few things. He knew I was new so he wanted me to feel comfortable. He went down on me and I returned the favor. That's actually all we were going to do but I decided since I felt so comfortable with I might as well have sex with him too to get that out of the way to see how I'd adjust having sex with a stranger. It went very well and I spent more time with him than orignially planned. It def helped me understand how I would approach guys in certain ways in terms of sexual advances.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Luckyguy09 View Post
    Oh wow.. You're from Brazil? Out of all the places in the world it has been said that Brazilian women are the best in the business. I plan to make a trip to Brazil just to see if it's true.
    I've been there three times in a last 4 years. The civvies are pretty hot but I've never had an appointment with a sex worker. The industry there seems pretty wild and wooly, definitely advanced.
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    One time in college I went on my 1st and only outcall. I'd always been a cammodel so this was all new to me. I was browsing craigslist one day living in the DC area and needed some money for school/rent. Back then, CL still had an adult section that was very popping, lol.

    I posted an ad, that I was a college student, first time, blah, blah. A guy about 25 min away booked me for $300, plus transportation. I got all dolled up, nervous as hell, and it was about 12am so I was quite scared. I remember being in the back of the taxi driving down what I felt was the longest highway ever.

    I arrived, he was a cute, normal looking Caucasian male who had a basement apartment in some upscale complex. He paid the driver which was about $48 and I followed him inside. Once I get inside I look around and it's dark and there's this massive fan blowing with the carpets all ripped up. He told me that the place had flooded and he was back to check up on things and thought he'd have a little fun and wanted the GFE.

    I literally had no clue what to do and I was still scared shitless that someone would pop out of the dank smelling apartment and arrest, or murder me. He reassured me that he just wanted to relax and make out. I remember I kept asking him in between breaths and kisses if he wanted to do anything else. He kept telling me that he liked kissing and a hot make out session is really all he was looking for. I mean, I remember trying everything, lol. Tragic!

    All we did for an hour was grind and kiss and cuddle. I remember laying in his bed (the flood only damaged the area surrounding the kitchen) I was just so shocked that he didn't want to do anything else, and for $300?

    After the hour was up (I think I went over) we chatted and kissed until my cab was outside and he gave me $100 extra for cab fare, and I rode away in the dark, silent, and shocked that I had managed $400 for a friggin make out session. I've since abandoned the email account but a few years ago I checked it and sure enough he'd email me back asking to book again- few years late, and a few states short, lol.

    I know what I experienced was quite rare for a first timer ( I do get GFE cam shows, etc) but it made a lasting impression so much that I'd like to return to it someday. Back then I didn't take screening, etc seriously, I was a college freshmen looking for a quick buck. I did massages, too. No sex. This time, if given the circumstances, I would approach it more safely and professionally.




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    It was a one-time thing for me while I was stripping. I had a customer who had been slowly pressuring me to do more in the VIP room, and I finally decided that I was going to meet him at his house to make more money. I was also really upset with a guy I'd been seeing... emotional turmoil fuels a lot of my bad decisions, lol.

    I dressed up in a nice white strapless dress, a grey cardigan, and some heels. Put in my blonde hair extensions. Pretty classy. I drove all the way to his place, which was about 45 minutes away in some rich part of town with a gate that I needed a code for. Got to his house, he had ordered take out from an expensive restaurant, and we drank a little wine. It was an amazing house with very expensive furniture. He mentioned something about getting into the hot tub, but I was pretty disgusted at the thought of that with some 60 year old fat guy. (Did I mention he was disgusting?) We sat down on his couch, made out with the TV on, and out of nowhere... the power goes out. I was really freaking out, but tried to laugh it off. I thought I'd end up leaving, but he kept kissing me and eventually we went to the bedroom in the pitch black house. He took Viagra, got a boner, went down on me (by then, the lights had come back on and... ugh, I can still remember his body shape... it was so fat and disgusting) and then we had sex with me on top. It was SO GROSS. I honestly feel like I have PTSD when I get flashbacks of these images in my head.

    Finally, it was over, and I got dressed in his bathroom. We sat on the couch again, and he gave me all the money he'd brought -- $400. I was under the impression that he was going to pay me more, because I'd gone there specifically to make more than what I did in the club. I believe I'd quoted him $400 an hour, and we'd been at his place for two hours. I was very upset, but for some reason I never cried about it. It was like I was just completely numb.

    I drove back to my apartment, threw out the leftovers from the restaurant that he'd given me, and called up the guy I was seeing. One day a few months later, I told him the truth about it, and he broke up with me. I have never told anyone else about it in person to this day....

    I honestly might do it again if I was single and desperate, but without the naivety that I had back then. I had known the guy for months, but I didn't tell anyone where I was and everything could have gone so badly. He also underpaid me and I didn't get the money until afterward, which was stupid. It wasn't the worst of experiences... pretty positive compared to what I've heard... but being a spur of the moment thing, it was traumatic for me.

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    My first time I literally didn't sleep the night before, I was SO nervous - the client came in and he was a businessman from Tokyo who couldn't stop giggling, he finally was like "I'm so sorry, I had one beer, I'm drunk, I'm sorry." It was cute. A lot of my nerves went away once we actually started kissing because I felt like well....if he was gonna kill me he would've done it by now (I am aware that this is not very sound logic, haha). After he left I just remember being so proud of myself for getting through it but also so so so exhausted from sleep deprivation/stress.

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    I started when I was 18 and a freshman in college. I had always been curious about sex work and always wanted to do it, so when I turned 18 and moved out for college, I started doing all the research I could. Tracy Quan's Diary of a Manhattan Call Girl had just come out, as well as Magdalene Meretrix's Turning Pro, and I read anything else I could get my hands on. At the time, we had a hobby board in the area (which has since been shut down by the feds), so I lurked there for a while. When I decided I was ready to start, I posted on the board that I was 18, new, I liked older men, and I wanted to be an escort, so someone should hire me. I got hundreds of responses, and I hadn't even posted a picture yet.

    For whatever reason, this one dude stood out from the bunch, he offered to take good quality pics of me and take me to a party where I would have the opportunity to participate as much or as little as I wanted and see if it was for me. At the time, no one had camera phones, so nice pictures were valuable themselves. I didn't screen him, I didn't know how to do any of that, so we agreed to meet at a Starbucks so I could feel him out and go from there. When I was trying to figure out what to wear, I realized my high school graduation dress was the nicest one I owned, so I wore my graduation outfit to my first whore party. We met, it felt okay enough (I was nervous but didn't know how it was supposed to feel), so yeah, I got in his truck with him and we drove for over an hour to a hotel where we had our photo shoot and a short session.

    The party was interesting. It was at a woman's house, she owned it, and she was very proud of the fact that she had bought it for herself through sex work. While she was very proudly independent, there was a pimp wandering the party with a camera, taking pictures of the women that he said he was going to put on his "agency" website. I spent the next several years terrified that he would post a picture of me on his site like I worked for him, but it never happened. The party was actually fairly tame in the public areas (the living room and kitchen) but the house-owner had turned every available space into a sex space for this party, even the coat closet under the stairs had some pillows on the floor and a little desk lamp. I took things slowly and chit chatted for a while. There was a man there, probably mid-30s, and I remember he looked a lot like a grad student in my department who I had a huge crush on, so I focused on him, flirted, made an offer, and we sealed the deal in the basement. It was a nice basement, there was an antiqued mirror on the ceiling directly above us, but it was still a basement. It didn't last too long, but I watched us in the mirror the whole time, thinking, "why on earth does anyone get worked up about this? This is so boring." Afterwards, I went back upstairs and found another two clients (not at the same time, and yes, hygiene was ignored by many that night, but CBJs were standard, so there's that, ehhhhh). After I had been hustling around a bit, the woman was like, "You're supposed to give me a cut of everything you've earned here tonight." And I was just like, "Oh. Nobody told me, so, whoops." And I'm sure she expected me to just hand her some cash right then, but I pretended like my date had my money, so I went got him and was like "we gotta go dude, quit it!" right when he was getting a lap dance. We sneaked out quietly and he drove me back to the Starbucks where we met.

    I don't think I'd do it like that again, and it could have gone horribly wrong, but on the other hand I couldn't have imagined a better initiation that taught me not just the mechanics of the work itself, but I very quickly met a number of shady people that I don't think I would have suspected to even really exist had I not met them that night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tiffany_twisted View Post
    My first time I literally didn't sleep the night before, I was SO nervous - the client came in and he was a businessman from Tokyo who couldn't stop giggling, he finally was like "I'm so sorry, I had one beer, I'm drunk, I'm sorry." It was cute. A lot of my nerves went away once we actually started kissing because I felt like well....if he was gonna kill me he would've done it by now (I am aware that this is not very sound logic, haha). After he left I just remember being so proud of myself for getting through it but also so so so exhausted from sleep deprivation/stress.
    I def can relate to the part of being so proud. I remember leaving the hotel room and going to the hotel elevator. I got in and with a few people dressed to impress obviously because I had to look my best for the client. But I was just so excited I got through with it and just had a big smile on my face cuz of the money I made. I felt like I was on top of the world. I walked through the lobby to my car like a bad bitch lol

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    Hahaha right, I totally feel that!! It was like an adrenaline rush.

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    I was 23, and we got a hotel..the guy was a puttery little 55 year old who kept saying it wasn't my first time cause I wasn't nervous..but when things got started I kinda had a mini flip out and had to take a break..but in the end followed through and he gave me a good amount and turned into a regular.
    I went on a huge shopping spree w the money (stupid..but I was also banking as a stripper) and got a high from it. If I was single I'd totally escort still

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