Hello everyone,
I just signed up so I could ask a few questions. Thanks for taking the time to read my post.
I consider myself a newbie to strip clubs. I've probably been 12 times in my life and only 4 of those are within the last few years. Basically, I'm in my late 30's, married and if I end up at a strip club it's because my friends really want to go (and I'm the dd) or I'm drunk at a bachelor party or something like that. This last time I went, I was sober and so I noticed things that I normally wouldn't notice. For reference, the club I was at is called Christy's and it's in Tempe az. It was a Tuesday night so not really that busy. It's an ok club (I don't go enough to know but of the 3 that I've been to in Phoenix I liked it best). Anyways, here's my questions -
What's the deal with tips for stage dancers? I literally saw some beautiful woman dance naked on stage for 5 minutes and get nothing. Is that normal? Most would get 3 dollars or so total. I pretty much gave every dancer a dollar or 2. I mean, damn! The girls are naked and dancing - that's gotta be worth something. We always sit near the stage but I notice a lot of guys sat far away from the stage. Is that so they don't feel obligated to tip?
Waitresses - most places that I go (like a bar), if you have a pretty waitress she will talk for awhile and try to get a better tip. These girls weren't doing any of that. Are they supposed to not distract you from the dancers? So if she's not even talking too much, how much should I tip? I just treat it like a regular bar so that's probably ok?
Lap dances and touching - I didn't get any dances this last time since I was married and sober but once I get buzzed I usually get some. I generally just keep my hands to my sides unless the girl puts my hands on her waist or something. I did notice my friends just grabbing boobs and ass and it seemed ok? Like immediately as soon as the girl say down on them they're feeling up their tits. This is for $10 table dances right in front of everyone.
Watching other people get dances - I would notice my friends getting dances because they were right in front of me but it seemed weird to me when other people would look. Is there some sort of unwritten guy code about that?
Dancers looking at me when they're dancing for someone else - So this girl is grinding on my friends crotch and looking at me and smiling. This happened a few times - sometimes from girls across the room. It seemed weird to me and I tried to look away and just ignore the boob grabbing, crotch grinding going on 3 feet away from me.
Dances at corners of the club - not vip, but just dancers trying to walk my friends to the corner to get a dance. I've had girls want to do that with me before (at a different club, different time). What's the point of that? More privacy I guess? Like a semi vip?
VIP dances - I understand why dancers sell them (more $) but I really don't want them since I'm not trying to get more action since I'm married. I usually just say no, I only want a table dance and they're cool with that. My friend told me some girl offered to make him cum in the vip. Is that normal?
Cumming in the club - that just seems weird to me! Why would you want to cum in a strip club? Even in a vip room, there's not much privacy. It just doesn't seem nice to me. I love to just look and talk with beautiful women. I've had a few girls (another club this time) really, really wanting to make me cum (dancing in the corner of the club). No thank you!
Bathroom attendants - is that dude just there to make sure nobody jacks off in the bathroom?
Clapping - Basically, a hot girl just got naked and danced seductively. Then the dj asks the crowd to 'give it up for the beautiful Candy' and I'm the only one clapping. The girls would usually just smile at me. Why is nobody else clapping? Getting naked in front of me makes me want to give you a f-ing standing ovation! Haha
Compliments- I usually tell the girls they look beautiful or they have a nice smile or a pretty face or whatever. I figure that people don't really get tired of hearing how good looking they are but maybe dancers do? On dancers giving me compliments, it just seems weird. I mean, they're getting paid to do that, so it's kind of awkward and I don't know how to respond. Usually I just say thank you. I guess it feels weird to me because I have no idea if it's true or not but I guess this is all fantasy land anyway so who cares?
Being approached for dances - Basically I'm a sucker for a pretty girl. If she sits on my lap and talks for a few minutes then how can I say no to a 10 dollar dance. Seems like a good deal to me! Why do some girls just come up and say "do you want a dance"? that will almost always get a no from me unless she's extremely hot. Also, why do some girls just walk by and kind of look like they want to talk to you or approach you but they don't? I mean, I'm a pretty easy sale and i usually spend pretty freely - is there interest in 3 or 4 table dances or is it all about the vip?
Do dancers care what their customers look like - It seems like it would be easier to dance for some guys than other. Or is it just a money talks thing?
Kissing - why? My friend french kissed his dancer. That makes no sense to me.
Ok, well, sorry for the long post - it's just that there's a lot going on at a club that I've never noticed when I was drinking.



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Girls that 'wanna dance' are either lazy, don't know how to hustle, or are transplants from Hi-Liter where that shit works.


I broke that rule, and was crushed.

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