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    So last night I get called on stage and as I’m making my way over there I see a female customer dancing on stage with the dancer before me. When their song ends and it’s my turn, the dancer collects her tips and gets off stage but the customer remains and continues dancing by herself. All her girlfriends are hooting and hollering and the male customers are getting a kick out of it and start throwing money at her. I go up on stage and tap her on the shoulder and politely tell her it’s my turn and to be careful getting off the stage. She completely ignores me and starts spinning on the pole, dancing in front of customers and so on. It’s now about a minute into my first song and she is still on stage. I tell her again, “Sweetie it’s my turn, you can get down now,” and then the DJ starts chiming in over the speaker saying, “If you wanna dance on stage you have to be topless, those are the rules!” So now all the customers are yelling for her to take off her top so she continues dancing. Then she pulls her top down and all the customers throw more money at her and I’m still standing on stage like…. get the F down. My first song ends and finally a floor guy comes over to help her off stage. We have 50-100 girls working almost every night at my club which means I only get to go onstage like 2-3 times a night. ˝ of my set was disrupted by this customer at a FULL stage so I already had it in my mind that I was going to keep the tips being thrown at her. So she gets off stage and goes with her friends and I finally start my set. 30 seconds later a floor guy comes over to the stage with her and goes, “Hey, can she scoop her tips off stage?”

    Literally, what in the F?!!

    So I look at both of them with such side eye and go, “Are they hers?” He goes, “Yeah she was dancing on stage before you.” So I say, “Yeah to my song.” Then I look at her and ask, “Are you a dancer or a customer?” She goes, “Customer”. Then I tell her, “So you’re here to spend money, not make it.” I continue dancing and they both just stand at my stage looking kind of shocked like I’m the crazy one for telling her no when she took half my set away from me. Honestly if she would’ve just got down on time I would’ve let her take the tips. I don’t like that my club allows civilian women to get up on stage and actually encourages them to participate...like sit the F down and leave it to the professionals.

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    Default Re: Customer tried to take "her" tips off my stage

    So, you got the tips? I would've..what a jk ass& bouncers shld've thrown her ass out, or @ least gotten her off stage..if she tried that shit w some girls they might clock her dumass
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    Another reason why I think the uterine sector should be lobotomized and equipped with shock collars.
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    Default Re: Customer tried to take "her" tips off my stage

    I'm honestly super surprised that they let the customers get on stage like that. She should have come down when you asked and the DJ DEFINITELY should not have encouraged her behavior. When I worked at a trash club in Georgia, we let the female customers get on stage with us but they did not get to keep the tips, it was purely for them to be exhibitionists.

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    Default Re: Customer tried to take "her" tips off my stage

    FWIW it sounds like you handled that shit perfectly, I'm not sure I would have been that calm. Glad you got to keep YOUR tips.

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    Default Re: Customer tried to take "her" tips off my stage

    Yep, you did the right thing! She can go through the hassle of auditioning ect. and come work / pay fee's if she wants to start working .

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    Default Re: Customer tried to take "her" tips off my stage

    At the risk of being flamed, I will say I would have let her keep 'her' tips but only IF she got her ass off stage pronto.

    I agree though that since she wasted 1/2 of your time up there that it then veered into basically 'asshole tax' territory & she definitely owed you at least some of that money.

    The whole thing is a bit ridiculous though, customers should NEVER be on stage dancing... here they'd be yanked off pronto since it's a huge city law violation for an unlicensed girl to be on stage even clothed. That's bullshit that they encouraged it, but it sounds like they are more interested in promoting the party atmosphere than what's fair to the dancers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post

    That's bullshit that they encouraged it, but it sounds like they are more interested in promoting the party atmosphere than what's fair to the dancers.
    But, doesn't kinda seem that's the way some clubs are going? (Just from reading on here). Also, I was out yesterday, in an SC area, & saw a huge billboard advertising Ocean, the latest sc in the Chicago area (burbs) talking about it being 'Adult Nightclub' as opposed to gentlemen's club.
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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    Yep, you did the right thing! She can go through the hassle of auditioning ect. and come work / pay fee's if she wants to start working .
    Right, they should've yanked her off saying/ Come bk & audition and/or amateur nite if they have one!


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    Default Re: Customer tried to take "her" tips off my stage

    Haha reading your reply to them I was lke "YES!! YES! YOU TELL EM!" Haha I think you did the right thing and I'm shocked they allow that. I have Never, ever witnessed that in my five years of dancing. That is not ok.how is that not against town/state law? I sure hope to fuck they aren't charging you a house fee while allowing customers to take up your stage time you pay for

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    "Adult Nightclub"...give me a break

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    Default Re: Customer tried to take "her" tips off my stage

    yep! I kept those tips. she made me like 30 bucks before I even got on stage. ;p

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    You handled yourself amazingly well and maturely. I would have been steaming. I have never been to a club that allows female customers to dance onstage. This girl would have been tossed out as quickly as she got onstage. I'm happy you got to keep the money. This is YOUR job. She was not working therefore not entitled to shit for being a disruption. The staff should not have been encouraging it.

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    Every club I've worked at doesn't let customers up on stage because it's a major liability. If some drunk chick falls and hurts herself it's a whole legal mess. Good on you for keeping your cool during the whole ordeal (i'm also really jealous you get to pick your own music!)

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    I would've been pissed at the club for letting her up there! WTF do you pay all these house fees and tip outs for if they're not gonna have your back? Douche bag club workers!!!
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    That is just absolutely disgusting. What is wrong with your club management! I have seen this happen before and it is always dealt with swiftly. One dead sunday night when there were no girls, or customers anyway for that matter, however, they did agree to let them dance if they would just sign waivers and pay the fee like everyone else. They did a regular set. Thats why I was personally ok with it, they didn't treat them any different than any other girl that might come in and try it. If they wanna work, they can work. But no playtime, it isn't fucking kindergarten.
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    I'm shocked your club allows civilian women onstage! They don't pay house fees, they don't pay for a business license/sherriff's card, they should NOT be allowed to go on YOUR stage that YOU PAY to be on. I'd have all the girls rally to make it a rule...NO CIVILIANS ONSTAGE.

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    Some people are so incredibly stupid. This bitch takes the cake.
    I'm just really happy you got to keep the money. Had she somehow kept it, I would have demanded free house fee for at LEAST that night.
    Had this happened to me I would have thrown her off myself, heel to the ass style. Especially since she was being such an asshole!
    so good for you for the way you handled it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by We had a rabbit like you View Post
    That is not ok.how is that not against town/state law? I sure hope to fuck they aren't charging you a house fee while allowing customers to take up your stage time you pay for
    I'm telling you. I was reading that bullshit like:




    Quote Originally Posted by gratefulnothateful View Post
    yep! I kept those tips. she made me like 30 bucks before I even got on stage. ;p

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    Check out @LibertarianSlut's Tweet: https://twitter.com/LibertarianSlut/...756402176?s=09
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    Thanks for all the commentary girls!

    UPDATE: The club started giving people at the tip rail free shots if a civilian gets topless.

    DJ: "If those two girls at the tip rail flash their titties, I'll give everyone at the stage free shots!!!"

    So more encouragement for dumb behavior and takes attention away from us.

    Whatever....

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    That's incredibly annoying & I can't believe they allowed that.... I would've been irritated; however, I would have used her as a prop to generate even more stage money than she was already making for me then when finished with her I would have grabbed her hand & led her off the stage & pushed all the money to the back & continued my set . She can keep whatever I stuff down her bra/ underwear during the show, that is as far as it goes for me though .

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