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    Hey yall, im posting this cause i cant seem to find the motivation within myself to go to work.. and i hate myself for it. I didnt work last week and this week the 2 days i went in i just broke down crying and only stayed the minimum 5 hours. leaving with about 50 dollars. I know i have it in me and on my good days i can make 1000 or more, but lately i just feel so depressed like i have a empty hole in my stomach.
    But i know i have to sacrifice in order to make money, my question to you ladies is do you ever feel this way? and how do you get through it?

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    Is something in your personal life bothering you? Or is it the club getting to you & burnout?

    When I have bad shit going on outside of work, or am just burnt out even but need the $, I have to do 1 of 2 things.

    1) I'm not sure of your spirituality but I will sometimes talk to the universe/God and be like "Hey I'm having a bad time of it but worrying ain't gonna help, so I'm gonna let go and give my problems to you", FEEL my head floating the problems up & out towards the sky, and then I go right out on the floor before that clean sense of peace has a chance to leave. Then I just follow my gut around and go to customers it leads me to. It sounds cheesy but it ties into the LoA thread in Hustle Hut and it helps. There's some good meditations on Youtube for this stuff.

    2) Make deals with yourself. They can be as tiny as you need. Hustle until you get $20, take a 3 song break. Even a goal as tiny as that should put you at better than $50/5 hours. As you start to make a little more, you might get your motivation back and then you can increase however long you make yourself stay on the floor.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    Is something in your personal life bothering you? Or is it the club getting to you & burnout?

    When I have bad shit going on outside of work, or am just burnt out even but need the $, I have to do 1 of 2 things.

    1) I'm not sure of your spirituality but I will sometimes talk to the universe/God and be like "Hey I'm having a bad time of it but worrying ain't gonna help, so I'm gonna let go and give my problems to you", FEEL my head floating the problems up & out towards the sky, and then I go right out on the floor before that clean sense of peace has a chance to leave. Then I just follow my gut around and go to customers it leads me to. It sounds cheesy but it ties into the LoA thread in Hustle Hut and it helps. There's some good meditations on Youtube for this stuff.

    2) Make deals with yourself. They can be as tiny as you need. Hustle until you get $20, take a 3 song break. Even a goal as tiny as that should put you at better than $50/5 hours. As you start to make a little more, you might get your motivation back and then you can increase however long you make yourself stay on the floor.
    All of this %100 ^^^
    Especially the bartering with yourself part. I've seen so many spins on little neat games or techniques people use to keep themselves going or to at least get them up and walking around when otherwise they'd be sitting around sulking.
    Also, doing little things for myself helps me get a little pep in my step. I'll have started off the day feeling unmotivated and super bummed but after I've gotten a mani/pedi, a massage or just anything good for myself it tends to make me feel like a million bucks. Then my mood gets that little boost I need like 'yeah I'm gonna go to work, fuck rotting away at home in misery. I will dominate the place and make great money'. Your mind is a powerful thing and sometimes we just need a little push to use that power to its full potential.
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    Thank you! and yes something has happened in my personal life.. but money doesnt care about your problems
    Last edited by Hk; 06-20-2016 at 08:50 AM.

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    Yes burn out for sure. Try taking it easy for a while and take a break if you can. that's what I'm doing- I feel better now.
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